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We deserve love too tbh
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I have only dated attractive women. However, some of them were ugly on the inside.

How's that for deep.
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Yes, but her tits were like, perfection.
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SauI_Goodman posted...

I have only dated attractive women. However, some of them were ugly on the inside.

How's that for deep.

A lot of attractive women are ugly on the inside, unfortunately. Which is sad because looks fade. When you find one that isn't, that's the true complete package.

As for me, I don't know if I've dated girls that are outright ugly, but I've dated ones that were more "meh" in the face. Could look good or cute but could also look not so great too. I've never dated a fat chick though, only girls that were thin or otherwise had a nice body.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

SauI_Goodman posted...

I have only dated attractive women. However, some of them were ugly on the inside.

How's that for deep.

A lot of attractive women are ugly on the inside, unfortunately. Which is sad because looks fade. When you find one that isn't, that's the true complete package.

As for me, I don't know if I've dated girls that are outright ugly, but I've dated ones that were more "meh" in the face. Could look good or cute but could also look not so great too. I've never dated a fat chick though, only girls that were thin or otherwise had a nice body.

this is such a stereotype, lots of ugly girls have shit , if not even shittier personalities than hot girls
at least it would be better if her outside appearance is hot, which is why i only date hot girls

I've never dated anybody, but the closest I've come was with someone I wasn't attracted to. Her okcupid profile said she was looking for friends, and she lived close. Since I was looking for friends too and we shared a bunch of interests, we matched. She immediately shot me down saying she didn't want to date. That was fine by me, but we still talked.

Things got stalkery and weird on her end, and she said some cruel things like how she would never choose to be with me in any romantic sense and that she needs a man that could please her in bed and she didn't think I could(rip me...). She kept showing up unannounced at my work place and hanging out. I think I did actually have a shot with her despite what she said, but again I wasn't attracted to her and the things she said really hurt my self esteem(which already super poor to begin with). I asked on here if I should attempt to get with her, since at that time she was saying things indicating she would... It was overwhelmingly voted as a no by people here, and I didn't attempts t anything.

She eventually flipped her opinion entirely, upon learning I wanted kids she already had us married off, and planning our lives. All the while still flip flopping on whether she'd even give me a chance, and telling me about the other guys she was sleeping with at the time. I couldn't handle it and pushed her away, then once she hooked up with her ex I simply stopped talking with her. It sucks that she was essentially my one and only shot. >_<
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Dere will be more
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Once when I had no options and I just took what I can get

bad idea to settle for what I didnt want
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I've never dated anybody, but the closest I've come was with someone I wasn't attracted to. Her okcupid profile said she was looking for friends, and she lived close. Since I was looking for friends too and we shared a bunch of interests, we matched. She immediately shot me down saying she didn't want to date. That was fine by me, but we still talked.

Things got stalkery and weird on her end, and she said some cruel things like how she would never choose to be with me in any romantic sense and that she needs a man that could please her in bed and she didn't think I could(rip me...). She kept showing up unannounced at my work place and hanging out. I think I did actually have a shot with her despite what she said, but again I wasn't attracted to her and the things she said really hurt my self esteem(which already super poor to begin with). I asked on here if I should attempt to get with her, since at that time she was saying things indicating she would... It was overwhelmingly voted as a no by people here, and I didn't attempts t anything.

She eventually flipped her opinion entirely, upon learning I wanted kids she already had us married off, and planning our lives. All the while still flip flopping on whether she'd even give me a chance, and telling me about the other guys she was sleeping with at the time. I couldn't handle it and pushed her away, then once she hooked up with her ex I simply stopped talking with her. It sucks that she was essentially my one and only shot. >_<

Dodged a bullet there, bro.
Youll have another opportunity. Not with her, though.
Hopefully.

i guess i havent which is weird because im kinda ugly lol

but all my partners have been pretty hawt tbh
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I wouldn't date anyone ugly, at least not with romantic intent. That's just dishonest.
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Dated no

Fucked yeah
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I've never dated anybody, but the closest I've come was with someone I wasn't attracted to. Her okcupid profile said she was looking for friends, and she lived close. Since I was looking for friends too and we shared a bunch of interests, we matched. She immediately shot me down saying she didn't want to date. That was fine by me, but we still talked.

Things got stalkery and weird on her end, and she said some cruel things like how she would never choose to be with me in any romantic sense and that she needs a man that could please her in bed and she didn't think I could(rip me...). She kept showing up unannounced at my work place and hanging out. I think I did actually have a shot with her despite what she said, but again I wasn't attracted to her and the things she said really hurt my self esteem(which already super poor to begin with). I asked on here if I should attempt to get with her, since at that time she was saying things indicating she would... It was overwhelmingly voted as a no by people here, and I didn't attempts t anything.

She eventually flipped her opinion entirely, upon learning I wanted kids she already had us married off, and planning our lives. All the while still flip flopping on whether she'd even give me a chance, and telling me about the other guys she was sleeping with at the time. I couldn't handle it and pushed her away, then once she hooked up with her ex I simply stopped talking with her. It sucks that she was essentially my one and only shot. >_<

That is far from your one and only shot. This girl is a tsunami of insanity that no one should should be anywhere near. What worries me is that despite numerous warning signs, you were so invested emotionally.

I've seen you around here, and you seem profoundly depressed, and have no self esteem. I also saw your picture in one of the selfie topics, and I can honestly say, and I can't believe that I'm admitting this publicly, your eyes are so beautiful, I'm a straight, married man, and if you looked at me with those eyes I would let you have anything. I know that's probably not what you are looking for, but you should have a little more confidence. Talk to a professional. The way you put yourself down is wrong and undeserved.

Edit: On-topic, Yes, I have, but to a limit.
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Depends.

Never dated but I'm know to socialize with some questionable types.

I mean all the nice looking girls use too would wonder why I joke around and play with the Miss Piggy types.

It's because they're more funny and outgoing.

I also like to do it because I'm vain and arrogant and like to piss other girls off.

Like "I don't care what you look like... you ain't shit".
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rhkIce posted...

Dodged a bullet there, bro.
Youll have another opportunity. Not with her, though.
Hopefully.

That's what the general consensus was at the time. And no, I have no plans whatsoever to try anything with her. It's doubtful that there'll be anyone else ever willing to give me a shot, but I suppose I didn't think she would either.

DarthGravid posted...

That is far from your one and only shot. This girl is a tsunami of insanity that no one should should be anywhere near. What worries me is that despite numerous warning signs, you were so invested emotionally.

I just wanted to be wanted, not even just in a romantic sense. I want someone to care about me, and want to spend time with me. Despite the things she said, I thought we could be friends, and maybe eventually more. Idk, maybe I'm just desperate and finally having an opportunity messed with my judgement.

I've seen you around here, and you seem profoundly depressed, and have no self esteem. I also saw your picture in one of the selfie topics, and I can honestly say, and I can't believe that I'm admitting this publicly, your eyes are so beautiful, I'm a straight, married man, and if you looked at me with those eyes I would let you have anything. I know that's probably not what you are looking for, but you should have a little more confidence. Talk to a professional. The way you put yourself down is wrong and undeserved.

I am severely depressed, everything in my life feels hopeless. I feel so worthless to everyone. Sometimes I just want to talk, and the people here are the only people I have that I can talk to. But that turns out badly, everyone here is sick of me, or just hates me. My self esteem is always 0, and the few times it started to rise I'd do something stupid and turn everyone against me and it'd go right back down. I know I probably need to try therapy again, but I can't bring myself to do that. Plus right now I can't afford it.

Thanks for the compliment though. My eyes are the one thing I don't hate about myself. I like the color.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

rhkIce posted...

Dodged a bullet there, bro.
Youll have another opportunity. Not with her, though.
Hopefully.

That's what the general consensus was at the time. And no, I have no plans whatsoever to try anything with her. It's doubtful that there'll be anyone else ever willing to give me a shot, but I suppose I didn't think she would either.

DarthGravid posted...

That is far from your one and only shot. This girl is a tsunami of insanity that no one should should be anywhere near. What worries me is that despite numerous warning signs, you were so invested emotionally.

I just wanted to be wanted, not even just in a romantic sense. I want someone to care about me, and want to spend time with me. Despite the things she said, I thought we could be friends, and maybe eventually more. Idk, maybe I'm just desperate and finally having an opportunity messed with my judgement.

I've seen you around here, and you seem profoundly depressed, and have no self esteem. I also saw your picture in one of the selfie topics, and I can honestly say, and I can't believe that I'm admitting this publicly, your eyes are so beautiful, I'm a straight, married man, and if you looked at me with those eyes I would let you have anything. I know that's probably not what you are looking for, but you should have a little more confidence. Talk to a professional. The way you put yourself down is wrong and undeserved.

I am severely depressed, everything in my life feels hopeless. I feel so worthless to everyone. Sometimes I just want to talk, and the people here are the only people I have that I can talk to. But that turns out badly, everyone here is sick of me, or just hates me. My self esteem is always 0, and the few times it started to rise I'd do something stupid and turn everyone against me and it'd go right back down. I know I probably need to try therapy again, but I can't bring myself to do that. Plus right now I can't afford it.

Thanks for the compliment though. My eyes are the one thing I don't hate about myself. I like the color.

Bro, keep your head up. Youll be alright. Just try again! There are billions of people in the world, and if everyone was compatible with each other, thered be no game. Thered be no point in like, dating. Itd just be welp here we go and thats that.

You got this.

No one straight up ugly but I can think of a few that were 3-4 points below me
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