Current Events > my family is trying to guilt trip me about not going to my cousin's christmas

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she sent out an e-vite, which i got. but i was sick and thought "i'll go if i feel better, i don't want to RSVP one way or the other without knowing for sure". a week later and i was still feeling sick but forgot to send in a reply at all. now my family is trying to guilt trip me about not going and the poor etiquette
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