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Vermander
05/13/19 2:50:10 AM
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*sees her on Tinder a week later*

So basically shes a hoe I should delete off my snapchat?
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RebelElite791
05/13/19 2:54:12 AM
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You're upset because she was honest with you and her being on Tinder doesn't contradict what she said?
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Vermander
05/13/19 2:57:44 AM
#3:


RebelElite791 posted...
You're upset because she was honest with you and her being on Tinder doesn't contradict what she said?


Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.
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MabusIncarnate
05/13/19 2:58:39 AM
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Yes. She's a ho. Move on, home slice.
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RebelElite791
05/13/19 2:59:14 AM
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So that's a yes.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:00:39 AM
#6:


MabusIncarnate posted...
Yes. She's a ho. Move on, home slice.


This.

RebelElite791 posted...
So that's a yes.


My mistake was ever giving a crap.
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Gobstoppers12
05/13/19 3:10:21 AM
#8:


Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.
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Guide
05/13/19 3:10:34 AM
#9:


Vermander posted...
MabusIncarnate posted...
Yes. She's a ho. Move on, home slice.


This.

RebelElite791 posted...
So that's a yes.


My mistake was ever giving a crap.


You made this topic, but sure, you don't give a crap.

I'm aware this is bait, but call me Kanghaskan, cause I'm falling for it.
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Ving_Rhames
05/13/19 3:11:05 AM
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Vermander posted...
Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.


I hate this term but

Yikes
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:13:38 AM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.
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Guide
05/13/19 3:14:30 AM
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Vermander posted...
Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.


Okay. Let's start from step one. What do you think tindr is for?
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Gobstoppers12
05/13/19 3:14:36 AM
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Vermander posted...
silently

Good word. You should think about that.
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fate311
05/13/19 3:15:59 AM
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Sigh...

"Let it go."
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:16:22 AM
#16:


Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.


Okay. Let's start from step one. What do you think tindr is for?


Sure. She was the one who brought up the relationship part, not me.

Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...
silently

Good word. You should think about that.


Where are you going with this?
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:17:36 AM
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fate311 posted...
Sigh...

"Let it go."


Its actually easy to now. Before I had to wonder if it was just me not being good enough, now I have closure and know it is because of that. :)
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ArchiePeck
05/13/19 3:18:53 AM
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Guide
05/13/19 3:19:05 AM
#19:


Vermander posted...
Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.


Okay. Let's start from step one. What do you think tindr is for?


Sure. She was the one who brought up the relationship part, not me.


You did not answer the question, but let's move along.

If your answer was casual sex, then that is completely in line with "i am not ready to be in a relationship or commit". No deception, no contradiction.

If you thought tinder was for anything but casual sex, you're wrong. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200$.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:24:39 AM
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Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.


Okay. Let's start from step one. What do you think tindr is for?


Sure. She was the one who brought up the relationship part, not me.


You did not answer the question, but let's move along.

If your answer was casual sex, then that is completely in line with "i am not ready to be in a relationship or commit". No deception, no contradiction.

If you thought tinder was for anything but casual sex, you're wrong. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200$.


Okay then maybe she shouldnt have said that:

-I shouldnt ever talk to my ex
-I shouldnt look at other girls
-Indicate interest in exclusivity
-Make plans with me
-Hang out with me 5 days a week
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RebelElite791
05/13/19 3:27:48 AM
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Yeah this didn't happen.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:30:34 AM
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RebelElite791 posted...
Yeah this didn't happen.


Okay so is that really the fucking logic that happened here? As soon as anything I say could directly suggest that I wasnt all at fault here the story is fake.

Unbelievable.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:38:10 AM
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Moral of the story is after being beaten and bruised from an abusive ex I found a short but pleasant experience that ended unexpectedly with someone whom I caught feelings for and was let down by, and I am angry and hurt about, and now have to deal with the fact that I wasnt good enoufh for that person.
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Guide
05/13/19 3:38:34 AM
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Vermander posted...
Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Guide posted...
Vermander posted...
Gobstoppers12 posted...
Vermander posted...

Instead of having a meaningful relationship with great sex with you, I would rather go fuck random Chads.

This is the kind of shit that bitter beta fucks say. Don't be one of those people--respect her wishes and understand that she's not your plaything.


I mean I havent spoken to her in a week. Doesnt mean I cant silently be pissed.


Okay. Let's start from step one. What do you think tindr is for?


Sure. She was the one who brought up the relationship part, not me.


You did not answer the question, but let's move along.

If your answer was casual sex, then that is completely in line with "i am not ready to be in a relationship or commit". No deception, no contradiction.

If you thought tinder was for anything but casual sex, you're wrong. Do not pass Go. Do not collect 200$.


Okay then maybe she shouldnt have said that:

-I shouldnt ever talk to my ex
-I shouldnt look at other girls
-Indicate interest in exclusivity
-Make plans with me
-Hang out with me 5 days a week


I was working with the information provided. You can see how one might draw a conclusion without this bit?
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:41:14 AM
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@Guide yes I can see why that might be confusing.
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Ultima Dragon
05/13/19 3:42:36 AM
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You pretty much shouldn't allow yourself to catch feelings for women these days. A lot of them are very much "here today, gone tomorrow" types. Have no idea what they're doing or what they want out of life. You should just look at any interaction with them as casual fun and see where it goes.

You'll eventually find a good one, but it took me until I was in my thirties to do.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:43:45 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Conflict posted...
Like you're either making topics about breaking up and getting back with your ex 2,000 times or acting needy and creepy to other girls

Do you enjoy this?

TC is super needy and whines about girls not texting him back within an hour. Are you surprised?

Im not ready for a relationship/commitment = she doesnt want a relationship/commitment with YOU

Hurts but thats what it means


Who knows, maybe that was why she dumped me.

I guess it doesnt matter anymore, the moral of the story is the day after taking her on a nice dinner date, watching a movie and cuddling, having great sex, falling asleep, waking up and cooking her breakfast, having more great sex, laying in bed till 2pm cuddling, I got to be faced with the idea that I wasnt good enough by getting dumped. I ask myself exactly who will give her a better experience than that.

I think thats what digs at me the most.
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Guide
05/13/19 3:43:47 AM
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I can give him the benefit of the doubt. This does happen. Horribly clich, but not impossible.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:44:48 AM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
You pretty much shouldn't allow yourself to catch feelings for women these days. A lot of them are very much "here today, gone tomorrow" types. Have no idea what they're doing or what they want out of life. You should just look at any interaction with them as casual fun and see where it goes.

You'll eventually find a good one, but it took me until I was in my thirties to do.


I am more or less learning this. I mean it took some time and awhile of sleeping together.
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iClockwork
05/13/19 3:45:07 AM
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Vermander posted...
with great sex with you

you're assuming a lot here
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:47:04 AM
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iClockwork posted...
Vermander posted...
with great sex with you

you're assuming a lot here


Or she is a liar, though given all this I wouldnt put it last her.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:47:28 AM
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Conflict posted...
Guide posted...
I can give him the benefit of the doubt. This does happen. Horribly clich, but not impossible.


I can't take it seriously because this dude has "broken up" with his ex maybe about 200 times only to make a topic the next couple of days about the problems this same girl is supposedly giving him. It's ridiculous Vermander posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Conflict posted...
Like you're either making topics about breaking up and getting back with your ex 2,000 times or acting needy and creepy to other girls

Do you enjoy this?

TC is super needy and whines about girls not texting him back within an hour. Are you surprised?

Im not ready for a relationship/commitment = she doesnt want a relationship/commitment with YOU

Hurts but thats what it means


Who knows, maybe that was why she dumped me.

I guess it doesnt matter anymore, the moral of the story is the day after taking her on a nice dinner date, watching a movie and cuddling, having great sex, falling asleep, waking up and cooking her breakfast, having more great sex, laying in bed till 2pm cuddling, I got to be faced with the idea that I wasnt good enough.

I think thats what digs at me the most.


How did she "dump" you when you were never in a relationship in the first place? Lmao


I think we were only like an official thing for a week.
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Vermander
05/13/19 3:49:45 AM
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So I should probably just delete her from everything so she still stop creeping me.
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rikasa
05/13/19 3:57:17 AM
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you got dumped lol
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Guide
05/13/19 4:30:34 AM
#37:


Vermander posted...
So I should probably just delete her from everything so she still stop creeping me.


This topic is and the others noted are probably indicative of why you got dumped, maybe?
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ZeroKelvin
05/13/19 4:53:03 AM
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So basically things seemed to be going well until this chick actually got to know you a little better - and ran away as fast as she could. Sounds like you need to work on your attitude and how you interact with women.

Youre pretty damn whiny on here, and constantly demonstrate how clingy and overbearing you can be. You may be able to hide that from them at first, or mitigate it through good looks, but once a woman understands just how bad it is shes gone. No one wants to put up with shit like that bro.
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Vermander
05/13/19 5:52:46 AM
#39:


ZeroKelvin posted...
So basically things seemed to be going well until this chick actually got to know you a little better - and ran away as fast as she could. Sounds like you need to work on your attitude and how you interact with women.

Youre pretty damn whiny on here, and constantly demonstrate how clingy and overbearing you can be. You may be able to hide that from them at first, or mitigate it through good looks, but once a woman understands just how bad it is shes gone. No one wants to put up with shit like that bro.


Its internal, to not be needy I need to find something that makes me care less.
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Vermander
05/13/19 5:58:15 AM
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In either case true neediness takes months or years to combat correctly.
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Kisai
05/13/19 5:59:31 AM
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Isn't Tinder just for hook-ups and one night stands? Why is TC so upset?
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05/13/19 6:03:03 AM
#42:


How does TC know she's on Tinder unless he's on it too. Pot meet kettle.
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Vermander
05/13/19 6:56:40 AM
#43:


Kisai posted...
Isn't Tinder just for hook-ups and one night stands? Why is TC so upset?


I would prefer someone I can at least keep hooking up with. New dates are an expensive hobby.

--Zero- posted...
How does TC know she's on Tinder unless he's on it too. Pot meet kettle.


Sure, but I didnt do the dumping and say I am not ready to commit.
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CyricZ
05/13/19 6:59:12 AM
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So women aren't allowed to sleep around? Is that the message?

She was honest with you, dude. She could have strung you along. You came out good on this because if you'd dragged it out, you'd have found much later that you weren't compatible and it would have been worse.
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Vermander
05/13/19 7:02:28 AM
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CyricZ posted...
So women aren't allowed to sleep around? Is that the message?

She was honest with you, dude. She could have strung you along. You came out good on this because if you'd dragged it out, you'd have found much later that you weren't compatible and it would have been worse.


She can do whatever she wants.

She was not honest. She told me the timing was bad, she was scared of commitment, and that I deserved better than her or my ex.

All of which were lies. Well I guess the commitment thing was.
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Raikuro
05/13/19 7:04:39 AM
#46:


More like "I am not ready to be in a relationship or commit with you specifically". If a rich Chad with a huge dick was knocking she would be desperately trying to lock that down.
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Vermander
05/13/19 7:06:43 AM
#47:


Raikuro posted...
More like "I am not ready to be in a relationship or commit with you specifically". If a rich Chad with a huge dick was knocking she would be desperately trying to lock that down.


....so.... me?
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PenguinsBabe
05/13/19 7:24:47 AM
#48:


This is literally the best. I love it. You tried to lock down a 19 year old and are crying because you got burned.
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05/13/19 7:43:06 AM
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knutjob
05/13/19 7:45:17 AM
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Fucking tragic
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