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Mark_DeRosa
05/18/19 9:25:07 PM
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Yep
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EbonTitanium
05/18/19 9:26:06 PM
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You reap what you sow.
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Duncanwii
05/18/19 9:27:26 PM
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It isnt going to go away so complaining about it isnt going to help. The idea of Fatherhood is too entrenched into Western society so trying to get people to let fathers off the hook would be as fruitful as banning hotdogs at baseball games.
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Manocheese
05/18/19 9:30:22 PM
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EbonTitanium posted...
You reap what you sow.

Thanks to the new laws on the books, so will women.
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21WIVES_CHILL
05/18/19 9:33:08 PM
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So basically dont get a gf or kids and go mgtow.
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Tyranthraxus
05/18/19 9:36:05 PM
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I agree and also think women should get Express lanes to the abortion clinic.
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ColdOne666
05/19/19 7:47:42 AM
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Stop putting your dick into the first thing that moves in front of you and stop doing it unprotected.

Boom no kids, problem solved.
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Prismsblade
05/19/19 7:59:06 AM
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You could always pack up and leave the country if your prepared never to return.
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Questionmarktarius
05/19/19 8:00:47 AM
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If it's not acceptable to oblige a woman for nine months, then it should not be acceptable to oblige a man for eighteen years.
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mattnd2007
05/19/19 8:59:45 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
If it's not acceptable to oblige a woman for nine months, then it should not be acceptable to oblige a man for eighteen years.

Well said
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ZeroKelvin
05/19/19 9:40:12 AM
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Sounds like something straight out of r/incels
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Antifar
05/19/19 9:43:17 AM
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Me personally, I think it's preferable to have a system of child support as opposed to one where children can be deprived because they're dad is a shithead. Just my two cents!
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Questionmarktarius
05/19/19 9:59:11 AM
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Antifar posted...
Me personally, I think it's preferable to have a system of child support as opposed to one where children can be deprived because they're dad is a shithead. Just my two cents!

Doesn't that conflict with your general socialist leanings?
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 10:03:33 AM
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I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.
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Middle hope
05/19/19 10:05:00 AM
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Men should be able to abort their responsibility. Their wallet, their choice.
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EternalDivide
05/19/19 10:05:15 AM
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If women can have abortions then I think men should have the option too. That thing Norway or some other European cold country did. The "male abortion".
Fully agree with it. Legal paperwork that surrenders all parental rights over the kid but also severs any and all financial responsibilities towards it too.
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Mistere Man
05/19/19 10:06:47 AM
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REMercsChamp
05/19/19 10:06:54 AM
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Does the word "deadbeat dad" mean anything to you?
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UltimaW
05/19/19 10:08:17 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 10:11:43 AM
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Wallet =/= body

Men can have their own babies if they want such choice
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chrono625
05/19/19 10:12:16 AM
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ColdOne666 posted...
Stop putting your dick into the first thing that moves in front of you and stop doing it unprotected.

Boom no kids, problem solved.


Wouldnt and shouldnt this work for women too?

(Am pro choice, but stupidity shouldnt be absolved)
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Foppe
05/19/19 10:14:05 AM
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There is a simple solution for you TC, and it is called Vasectomy.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 10:15:42 AM
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UltimaW posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.


Why should you be on the hook for a baby you didn't want? But if it was the opposite, with her not wanting the baby and you wanting the baby, you have no choice?
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 10:16:31 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
UltimaW posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.


Why should you be on the hook for a baby you didn't want? But if it was the opposite, with her not wanting the baby and you wanting the baby, you have no choice?

Because biology

A father is half the baby but 0% of the pregnancy
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Mistere Man
05/19/19 10:17:45 AM
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Highwind07 posted...
Yea I do agree with the idea that the father can sign away the child to be absolved of financial or parental responsibility. Some dads welcome their unplanned kids but the ones that don't can be absolutely shitty towards them and I rather not have the kid go through that.

But then again there were stories where women impregnated themselves with an unsuspected man's semen and actually forced him to pay child support that way.

That is sickening also!
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 10:18:43 AM
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hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
UltimaW posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.


Why should you be on the hook for a baby you didn't want? But if it was the opposite, with her not wanting the baby and you wanting the baby, you have no choice?

Because biology

A father is half the baby but 0% of the pregnancy


So why should he be financially responsible if he doesn't want it?

And its called a Paper abortion.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_abortion
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chrono625
05/19/19 10:20:11 AM
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hockeybub89 posted...
0% of the pregnancy


As a father and husband, it's true that the woman handles all the physical labors.

But other than that, its complete bullshit that the father carries zero burden during the pregnancy.

The mental support a good husband provides allows his SO to deal with and handle the pregnancy.

Being supportive and comforting is absolutely crucial to a good pregnancy.

If you think that a GOOD husband contributed 0% to a pregnancy you've never been with someone who is pregnant or you yourself were a horrible partner.
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eridania67814
05/19/19 10:35:29 AM
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chrono625 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
0% of the pregnancy


As a father and husband, it's true that the woman handles all the physical labors.

But other than that, its complete bullshit that the father carries zero burden during the pregnancy.

The mental support a good husband provides allows his SO to deal with and handle the pregnancy.

Being supportive and comforting is absolutely crucial to a good pregnancy.

If you think that a GOOD husband contributed 0% to a pregnancy you've never been with someone who is pregnant or you yourself were a horrible partner.


Very well said.

1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


This is also a decent idea. I do not support the idea that a man should be forced into supporting a kid they don't want any more than a woman should. That ruling should make the father pay for half the abortion fees if the woman agrees.

So, actually, I wonder if it would be easier on the whole child support system if every unmarried woman were required to go to court once a successful ultrasound was conducted? That's usually not enough time for the dad to somehow leave the planet undetected as they act like when they can't find the dad. An ultrasound has to be conducted before an abortion anyway because the time of gestation changes the way they do it. The woman goes to court, provides all info on the dad, the guy is subpoenaed, if the dude doesn't claim it isn't his they go ahead with the plan above. If the guy claims it isn't his and she insists, they can at that point force her to carry the baby to term, take the DNA from the dad and chip him for tracking, then when they can safely do the DNA test and the guy is the dad, force the guy to be 75% financially responsible for the kid because he's dumb enough to think he can fuck without getting someone pregnant, or dumb enough to lie in court. If the dude is not the father, but he wants the baby, let him have it and sever the rights from Mom for being a biologically ignorant hoe.

Complicated way but it would be most fair because it punishes both for being irresponsible
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Prismsblade
05/19/19 10:54:46 AM
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UltimaW posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.

Many woman are getting with and f**** obvious deadbeat thugs all the damn time and you think their draw the line with him?

I personally wouldnt mind this either, but who's going to help care for this child becuase the government sure as hell doesn't want to. Plus theres no way a woman is allowing a doctor, a movie star, or a pro athlete off the hook easily or any guy with a good medium income salary to be honest.
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knutjob
05/19/19 10:58:44 AM
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This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 11:01:37 AM
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knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?
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nemu
05/19/19 11:02:48 AM
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Unless we want to foist the cost of children onto the state, somebody has to pay for them. I don't know how it works currently, but there should certainly be the ability to completely walk away with the consent of both parties if that isn't already a thing. The mother does have more control, but she's also the one who has to literally carry and support it for nearly a year so that makes sense. Anytime you have sex, there is a chance of a child, so you're fully taking that risk.
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knutjob
05/19/19 11:04:59 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:05:42 AM
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chrono625 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
0% of the pregnancy


As a father and husband, it's true that the woman handles all the physical labors.

But other than that, its complete bullshit that the father carries zero burden during the pregnancy.

The mental support a good husband provides allows his SO to deal with and handle the pregnancy.

Being supportive and comforting is absolutely crucial to a good pregnancy.

If you think that a GOOD husband contributed 0% to a pregnancy you've never been with someone who is pregnant or you yourself were a horrible partner.

I was talking physical, and about terminated pregnancies. The man isn't carrying the baby, so he ultimately should have 0 say over whether or not it is born.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 11:09:06 AM
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knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.
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knutjob
05/19/19 11:10:43 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.


I think you deliberately misinterpreting what I wrote is closer to the problem
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:11:09 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
UltimaW posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
I feel like men should be able to get a ruling that they want nothing to do with the baby and mother and if the woman wants the baby after that, then that's her prerogative.


I feel like people with opinions like this will never have to worry about it.


Why should you be on the hook for a baby you didn't want? But if it was the opposite, with her not wanting the baby and you wanting the baby, you have no choice?

Because biology

A father is half the baby but 0% of the pregnancy


So why should he be financially responsible if he doesn't want it?

And its called a Paper abortion.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_abortion

Because a baby has two parents and should thus be supported by each if born. Men just need to deal with pregnancy not being fair pre-birth. Wallets and bodies are incomparable.
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:12:27 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 11:13:28 AM
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hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.


So, single-parenting is worse than parenting when the man despises the child?

Yea, okay.
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Turbam
05/19/19 11:15:33 AM
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A whole mess of Incels up itt
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knutjob
05/19/19 11:18:35 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.


So, single-parenting is worse than parenting when the man despises the child?

Yea, okay.


Why do you have such a low opinion of men?
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:19:25 AM
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1NfamousACE_2 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.


So, single-parenting is worse than parenting when the man despises the child?

Yea, okay.

Single-parenting on one paycheck is worse than single-parenting on two paychecks.
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Lil_Bit83
05/19/19 11:19:51 AM
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While I do agree with this, the deadbeat parents fucked it up where the law errs on the side of caution. If you said you don't want a kid and she decided she didn't care about your feelings on the matter. Fine. Perhaps some sort of legal contract can be put into place.

Its not fair for the kid and parent when the shitheads, (father, mother or both) decide that they suddenly didn't want a kid after they were initially alright with it and abandoned them or dumped them on relatives.

I say this from experience as someone who has a kid, where my ex fiance convinced me to have one, and then ditched her several months after she was born. He was a deadbeat dad. He can rot in hell too.

I also say this as a child of two deadbeat parents. My dad left when I was 5 and didn't try to reconcile or reconnect until I was 18.

My mom dumped me on my paternal grandparents when I was a baby, won me in a custody battle when I was 7, raised me for 5 years and then dumped me again, first on my maternal relatives and later in the system when I ran away and only visited a literal handful of times. If they both died tomorrow, I'd only go to their funerals to piss on their graves.

Forcing an unwanted kid on a person is very fucked up.

Deadbeat parents are also very fucked up, so yeah, blame them.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 11:19:56 AM
#46:


knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.


So, single-parenting is worse than parenting when the man despises the child?

Yea, okay.


Why do you have such a low opinion of men?


Answering the question with a question never works.

I don't have a low opinion of men either.
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:20:49 AM
#47:


GregShmedley posted...
But it isn't the same the other way around and that's wrong. If I wanted her to have an abortion and she didn't want one, then I would be legally obligated to support the child and that's bullshit. I would never sign away my parental rights and obligations but a man absolutely should have that right.

It's absolutely not wrong and men should only have the right if we can figure out how to make it up to the child.

Again, pregnancy is just naturally biased towards the woman.
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1NfamousACE_2
05/19/19 11:21:23 AM
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hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
hockeybub89 posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
knutjob posted...
This will just increase the already large amount of deadbeat dads who wuss out right before their kid is born. The state will end up picking up the tab too. No thanks.


As opposed to getting $250 every month from the dad?


Imagine that. A child being entitled to at least some kind of parenting.


The fact that you think money equals parenting is the problem.

Single-parenting is a worse parenting though and the child only being financially supported by the mother makes it even worse.


So, single-parenting is worse than parenting when the man despises the child?

Yea, okay.

Single-parenting on one paycheck is worse than single-parenting on two paychecks.


Thats not what you said though.
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hockeybub89
05/19/19 11:27:07 AM
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I intended to say that single-parenting is bad enough without the child also only having the financial support of one parent.
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