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SaccharineSmile
06/06/19 5:12:06 AM
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When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks

Like thats traditional and classy
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Rika_Furude
06/06/19 5:29:47 AM
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i wouldnt call it sexual harassment without knowing the context, but its always creepy, disgusting and disturbing
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au_gold
06/06/19 5:32:11 AM
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It depends on which cheeks youre talking about.
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Turbam
06/06/19 5:32:49 AM
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Are you grabbing butt cheeks?
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FaceThePain
06/06/19 5:33:48 AM
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It may be traditional in some circles, but it is definitely not classy.
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Zikten
06/06/19 6:03:01 AM
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That's what Vic Mignona did. Apparently that's evil now

Even though his accusers also did it and are hypocrites. One of his accusers has asked her fans to spank her.
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Cotton_Eye_Joe
06/06/19 6:19:29 AM
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Are you Chad?
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Prismsblade
06/06/19 6:38:18 AM
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Technically no, but this hasnt stopped some woman from trying. Doeasnt help that the bridge between harrasment and rape is getting blurrier by the year.
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Laserion
06/06/19 6:44:00 AM
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https://www.quora.com/Do-guys-feel-the-boob-squish-when-hugging
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Nidhoggr
06/06/19 6:51:45 AM
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I know a few women who purposely push closer to me so I can feel their breasts flatten on my chest. Most are married to friends. I appreciate it. If I happen to have an erection, I also push it on to them, and find they tend to give a moan of approval, and hold the hug a bit longer.
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stone
06/06/19 6:55:02 AM
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Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
i wouldnt call it sexual harassment without knowing the context, but its always creepy, disgusting and disturbing


Wow

I know, right?
The guy with lolis add a sig calling other things creepy, disturbing and disgusting despite of context. Ahh rika, always there to make us roll our eyes.
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action52
06/06/19 6:59:56 AM
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Nidhoggr posted...
I know a few women who purposely push closer to me so I can feel their breasts flatten on my chest. Most are married to friends. I appreciate it. If I happen to have an erection, I also push it on to them, and find they tend to give a moan of approval, and hold the hug a bit longer.

This happened.
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stone
06/06/19 7:00:45 AM
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Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

Well, you know, the only way you can consider them to be they way is if you hug people for the wrong reasons. And seeing who posted that.. I can assume he never gets hugs, and that if he ever gave one, it definitely would be for the wrong reasons.
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Musourenka
06/06/19 7:02:52 AM
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I wouldn't call it sexual harassment, but you have to know and respect personal space boundaries.
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Master_Bass
06/06/19 7:07:16 AM
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action52 posted...
Nidhoggr posted...
I know a few women who purposely push closer to me so I can feel their breasts flatten on my chest. Most are married to friends. I appreciate it. If I happen to have an erection, I also push it on to them, and find they tend to give a moan of approval, and hold the hug a bit longer.

This happened.

It was a comment in that quora link, lol.
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pinky0926
06/06/19 7:09:43 AM
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Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
i wouldnt call it sexual harassment without knowing the context, but its always creepy, disgusting and disturbing


Wow


Rika's gonna be in for a shock if he ever visits somewhere like Spain or Italy, where anything less than 2 kisses on the cheek is rude
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SaccharineSmile
06/06/19 7:19:31 AM
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Laserion posted...
https://www.quora.com/Do-guys-feel-the-boob-squish-when-hugging


spat out my food reading that link

Geez never crossed my mind when I hug girls
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Laserion
06/06/19 7:21:34 AM
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Nidhoggr posted...
I know a few women who purposely push closer to me so I can feel their breasts flatten on my chest. Most are married to friends. I appreciate it. If I happen to have an erection, I also push it on to them, and find they tend to give a moan of approval, and hold the hug a bit longer.

Why are you quoting something from the link I posted, making it look like your own?
Unless you actually are Ric Carter.
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Nidhoggr
06/06/19 7:34:57 AM
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Laserion posted...
Nidhoggr posted...
I know a few women who purposely push closer to me so I can feel their breasts flatten on my chest. Most are married to friends. I appreciate it. If I happen to have an erection, I also push it on to them, and find they tend to give a moan of approval, and hold the hug a bit longer.

Why are you quoting something from the link I posted, making it look like your own?
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codey
06/06/19 7:55:28 AM
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Me and my girlfriend we're actually talking about this the other day. If you hug someone on an introduction, that's fucking creepy. You know their name, but aside from that they're still strangers to you and you're a stranger to them.

Try shaking their hand instead of hugging them and realize that most people aren't into hugging strangers.

Edit: before people bring up other cultures, obviously I'm talking about America.
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BornIn1142
06/06/19 8:00:17 AM
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On International Women's Day, I heard a radio host saying men could congratulate their sexy secretaries and female bosses by hugs, and that they wouldn't be able to decline due to the occasion.

Doesn't that sound like sexual harassment to you?
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Bloodychess
06/06/19 8:02:25 AM
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P sure just looking is harassment now
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Blue_Dream87
06/06/19 8:05:43 AM
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No? In my experience a hug is really just a slightly more intimate handshake, but still platonic. Hugging strangers might be awkward, better to ask or offer instead of going for it. I like the ol "I've got a hippie spirit" excuse and women have pulled it on me too. Really just friendly and open.
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Rika_Furude
06/06/19 8:21:16 AM
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Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't. continue harassing me for no reason though.
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LastTomorrow
06/06/19 8:22:49 AM
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Eh... I dont like hugs that much. Feels like you could die by an assassin.

I high five people
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Rika_Furude
06/06/19 8:25:19 AM
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Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't.


I did read the topic. Considering TC straight up asked "is hugging sexual harassment" and nothing else. Now, if you were referring to the kiss on the cheeks, you should've specified that, and that's also a thing in many hispanic cultures

Fuck off.

SaccharineSmile posted...
When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks


Yes, that is creepy, Conflict. Now fuck off.
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REMercsChamp
06/06/19 8:28:03 AM
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Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't.


I did read the topic. Considering TC straight up asked "is hugging sexual harassment" and nothing else. Now, if you were referring to the kiss on the cheeks, you should've specified that, and that's also a thing in many hispanic cultures

Fuck off.

SaccharineSmile posted...
When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks


Yes, that is creepy, Conflict. Now fuck off.

When I went to university we had a group of Brazilian foreign exchange students in one of the years and the girls would kiss the guys on the cheeks as a greeting
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Yefoloogi
06/06/19 8:28:59 AM
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Its sexual harassment if the person trying to hug is not attractive. Thats the world we live in
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The Admiral
06/06/19 8:29:17 AM
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"Questions incels ask," the topic.
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Rika_Furude
06/06/19 8:40:11 AM
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REMercsChamp posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't.


I did read the topic. Considering TC straight up asked "is hugging sexual harassment" and nothing else. Now, if you were referring to the kiss on the cheeks, you should've specified that, and that's also a thing in many hispanic cultures

Fuck off.

SaccharineSmile posted...
When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks


Yes, that is creepy, Conflict. Now fuck off.

When I went to university we had a group of Brazilian foreign exchange students in one of the years and the girls would kiss the guys on the cheeks as a greeting

Obviously in some cultures it's the norm. I never said that it wasn't. I made the assumption that TC is American because he didn't say what country he lives in and most people on this board are American.
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stone
06/06/19 8:46:50 AM
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Rika_Furude posted...
REMercsChamp posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't.


I did read the topic. Considering TC straight up asked "is hugging sexual harassment" and nothing else. Now, if you were referring to the kiss on the cheeks, you should've specified that, and that's also a thing in many hispanic cultures

Fuck off.

SaccharineSmile posted...
When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks


Yes, that is creepy, Conflict. Now fuck off.

When I went to university we had a group of Brazilian foreign exchange students in one of the years and the girls would kiss the guys on the cheeks as a greeting

Obviously in some cultures it's the norm. I never said that it wasn't. I made the assumption that TC is American because he didn't say what country he lives in and most people on this board are American.

And you as an Australian are in the best position to know about the way Americans do things.
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DoubleDare
06/06/19 8:56:11 AM
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I never hug at work, the girl has to be the initiator of it.
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BlockWatcher
06/06/19 9:31:18 AM
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Thats been sexual harassment for a while
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SaccharineSmile
06/06/19 9:44:22 AM
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BlockWatcher posted...
Thats been sexual harassment for a while


I feel like if the person you hugged didnt like you (later on), they could call out sexual harassment

Is this what its come down too?
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QJD1381
06/06/19 9:52:43 AM
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It can become so if the woman decides it was later, apparently.
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_Matchabuu_
06/06/19 9:55:43 AM
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God this topic is fucking awful
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Rika_Furude
06/06/19 10:04:24 AM
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Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
Conflict posted...
I have no idea how anyone can consider hugs "creepy, disgusting and disturbing"

Unless you're like... being aggressive towards someone that clearly doesn't want one

did you read the topic?

stupid question, of course you didn't.


I did read the topic. Considering TC straight up asked "is hugging sexual harassment" and nothing else. Now, if you were referring to the kiss on the cheeks, you should've specified that, and that's also a thing in many hispanic cultures

Fuck off.

SaccharineSmile posted...
When I meet new girls I give them a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheeks


Yes, that is creepy, Conflict. Now fuck off.


Lmao why are you butthurt

Bad work day?

Why do you always intentionally misinterpret and misread posts? Why do you always harass me?
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creativerealms
06/06/19 10:06:35 AM
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Only if they are not okay with it.
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SaccharineSmile
06/06/19 10:14:10 AM
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creativerealms posted...
Only if they are not okay with it.


Well for me Ive done it for years and will continue too lol

I can definitely tell which girls straight up are okay with it or not, if not then just a handshake

Which gets awkward in a group of girls if some I handshake and others I hug but whatever lol
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mario2000
06/06/19 10:36:33 AM
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Don't hug people you don't know that well, wtf
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Nidhoggr
06/06/19 10:39:07 AM
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Imagine asking a board of people who rarely leave the internet about the social acceptance of hugging lol.
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NeoShadowhen
06/06/19 11:08:50 AM
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If its a side hug or something equally meaningless, it has no effect other than clarifying boundaries and observing social expectations.

If its a genuine hug, it has everything to do with how they feel about you. It will effectively raise the mutual act score by one if it was zero, but will not have any effect on the mutual love meter, unless there is mutual attraction and/or there is a significant romantic undertone. In that case it will raise the mutual love score by one regardless of previous score, but will only have that effect the first time it is done. It is important to note that the hug in that instance is merely a catalyst for the mutual attraction but is nevertheless necessary for the increase, while the significant romantic undertone could result in the score increase regardless of whether the hug occurs or not.
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