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squarion 06/06/19 11:43:00 AM #52: |
Imagine sacrificing sleep for other reasons beside school
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emblem boy 06/06/19 11:45:55 AM #53: |
EvalAngell posted...
Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. One fear I have, I feel like if I have a kid, I'm gonna have really high expectations for them. Like, I'd be disappointed if they didn't do something I thought was meaningful.... --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/06/19 11:50:16 AM #54: |
emblem boy posted...
EvalAngell posted...Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. That's a great way to raise a kid that will eventually snap ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spanky1 06/06/19 11:50:33 AM #55: |
emblem boy posted...
EvalAngell posted...Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. This is another big deal. A lot of parents have unrealistic expectations. And many children will ignore parents when they're old. My parents are hardcore jehovahs witnesses, for instance, and their dream was to have their kids be JWs as well. None of us kids are JWs, and now my dad is all old and depressed and disappointed in all of us. I think that plays a big part in why I don't want kids myself. I look at him and he seems so miserable and I don't want that. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 06/06/19 11:51:25 AM #56: |
emblem boy posted...
EvalAngell posted...Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. Ehh You'll probably just want them to be healthy and happy. --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 06/06/19 11:52:16 AM #57: |
You don't have to be your dad, spanky. You can learn from his mistakes.
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:53:15 AM #58: |
emblem boy posted...
EvalAngell posted...Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. I think once you have kids you'll realize that you are going to love them no matter what. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:54:18 AM #59: |
spanky1 posted...
emblem boy posted...EvalAngell posted...Romes187 posted...I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. I can't wait until my daughter starts forming her own opinions that go contrary to mine. That's called thinking and it should be rewarded. I wish I could fast forward a few years right now so I can have actual conversations with her, but I'll enjoy the small years while I have them (wife is pregnant with second one anyways so here we go again) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EvalAngell 06/06/19 11:55:37 AM #60: |
don't hold your children to rigid expectations and everything will be fine. Like I'm praying that my boys like baseball and end up becoming pro baseball players. But I also know that it's like a pipe dream that will never come to fruition. If they hate baseball at a young age I won't force it on them.
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emblem boy 06/06/19 12:48:21 PM #61: |
Did you guys find and value in any parenting books you read?
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pres_madagascar 06/06/19 12:50:01 PM #62: |
EvalAngell posted...
don't hold your children to rigid expectations and everything will be fine. Like I'm praying that my boys like baseball and end up becoming pro baseball players. But I also know that it's like a pipe dream that will never come to fruition. If they hate baseball at a young age I won't force it on them. Why would you want them to play the world's second most boring sport, only surpassed by cricket? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 8:58:43 PM #63: |
emblem boy posted...
Did you guys find and value in any parenting books you read? No to the parenting books. Biggest thing that helped me out in the early days was a military motto Embrace the suck 3AM and a shitty diaper? Fuck yeah get it done. Just go all out and be there for the wife and kid early on ... Copied to Clipboard!
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1337toothbrush 06/06/19 10:26:13 PM #64: |
EvalAngell posted...
Romes187 posted...indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life. Its a trade I'd make over and over again, and I'm sure you would too. Just wait until the teenage years. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Knowledge_King 06/07/19 10:20:11 AM #65: |
You're not supposed to lift weights every day. And it certainly shouldn't take that long if you do.
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knutjob 06/07/19 10:23:15 AM #66: |
Tbf he did just say yesterday but yeah the fact it takes 90 minutes to get his lifting routine done might be part of tc's problem
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KStateKing17 06/07/19 10:25:43 AM #67: |
It only takes 30 seconds to make a kid
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Jiek_Fafn 06/07/19 10:31:37 AM #68: |
Neglectful parenting is the way to go. Kids are pretty durable. Television, school and YouTube will teach them everything they need to know.
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spanky1 06/07/19 11:01:59 AM #69: |
KStateKing17 posted...
It only takes 30 seconds to make a kid Look at don juan over here. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/07/19 11:03:41 AM #70: |
knutjob posted...
the fact it takes 90 minutes to get his lifting routine done might be part of tc's problem Bruh 90 minutes is pretty standard What are you guys even doing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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knutjob 06/07/19 11:08:35 AM #71: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
knutjob posted...the fact it takes 90 minutes to get his lifting routine done might be part of tc's problem It's on the long side. 45 to 65 min with more intensity would have the same effect ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/07/19 11:19:42 AM #72: |
knutjob posted...
clearaflagrantj posted...knutjob posted...the fact it takes 90 minutes to get his lifting routine done might be part of tc's problem Literally false. You need at least 3 minutes rest between working sets to get full recovery for max power. If you're going for high reps size gains that's one thing, but I'm more focused on power. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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knutjob 06/07/19 11:28:40 AM #73: |
Are you doing full body workouts or something?
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clearaflagrantj 06/07/19 11:35:33 AM #74: |
knutjob posted...
Are you doing full body workouts or something? Wednesday is 6-8 rep upper body, Friday is Sq/Bench/DL 3rm, Saturday is muscular hypertrophy upper body, shitload of volume, mostly pulling Tuesday is full body rehab day. It's a routine pulled mostly from Powerlifting To Win, I modified it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pukelid 06/07/19 11:36:27 AM #75: |
you have a lot of personal time that you say isn't personal time
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knutjob 06/07/19 11:51:35 AM #76: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
knutjob posted...Are you doing full body workouts or something? Nice. I didn't mean to be critical before. It's just I find most people who spend 90 minutes at the gym spend most of it on their phone. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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1337toothbrush 06/07/19 12:20:55 PM #77: |
I'm gonna need some more executive time!!!
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Knowledge_King 06/07/19 2:48:48 PM #78: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
Yeah that sounds like the definition of too much but OK. Still don't see how it's 1.5 hours. --- http://www.warwithwords.com Run: 5 star review, IndieReader approved: https://www.amazon.com/Run-M-N/dp/1973143763/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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