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CruelBuffalo
08/23/19 11:30:33 AM
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Balrog0 posted...
CruelBuffalo posted...
Days of our Office


so, I thought it was weird that these two girls were spending so much time with coworker 2 outside work. they started going to his church services (he's an associate pastor) and I was like... these chicks dont go to church

I hope you had a pearl clutching face when you found out
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CM_Ponch
08/23/19 11:30:36 AM
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HANGtheDJ_86
08/23/19 11:32:00 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Melty is such an immature word.


And?
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HypnoCoosh
08/23/19 11:32:16 AM
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It's just sad people are so selfish they will destroy their family and other families for their own self gratification. Some people are beyond selfish they are just plain narcissistic.
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Balrog0
08/23/19 11:32:32 AM
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Pukelid posted...
i need to stop being so disgusted and angry over things that have nothing to do with me. man im pissed af


I thought it was pretty funny until I learned they all have kids tbh. Coworker 1 told my gf she was attracted to coworker 2 like the day she started and she's been pretty messy about pursuing him the whole time. Their job also requires them to leave town for conferences and stuff so there was ample opportunity. I told my gf a few months ago they had probably been banging. The way coworker 1's husband found out was that he put one of those mobile spy apps on her phone that forwarded him her text messages, so he knows they banged about a month ago based on that. But Im p sure its been much longer

anyway my point in saying this is if you're gonna not just cheat on your husband but like actively pursue a guy who you literally don't know almost immediately, your relationship was doomed anyway

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CarrieChan
08/23/19 11:38:22 AM
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How does the boss feel with all the free popcorn they are serving?
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Sad_Face
08/23/19 11:38:34 AM
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Balrog0 posted...
so, I thought it was weird that these two girls were spending so much time with coworker 2 outside work. they started going to his church services (he's an associate pastor) and I was like... these chicks dont go to church

LOLOLOL Is this a sitcom?
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Pukelid
08/23/19 11:40:43 AM
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CruelBuffalo
08/23/19 11:42:33 AM
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Hes known for a month!?!?! I would of confronted right and got a rental for me and the kids
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HypnoCoosh
08/23/19 11:43:50 AM
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CruelBuffalo posted...
Hes known for a month!?!?! I would of confronted right and got a rental for me and the kids


You can't just take the children and also if you leave the homestead that has ramifications. You literally have no fucking idea what you're talking about.
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Malfunction
08/23/19 11:44:22 AM
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Could've been an interesting topic if not for all the incel shit
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Pukelid
08/23/19 11:45:00 AM
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yea peeps gotta know who to throw on block so they dont shit up topics
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Balrog0
08/23/19 11:46:15 AM
#66:


CruelBuffalo posted...
Hes known for a month!?!?! I would of confronted right and got a rental for me and the kids


well so them hooking up a month ago was what coworker 1 told my gf
coworker 1 might have been trying to downplay the scope of her infidelity when she admitted to my gf that it happened so its very plausible that they've hooked up more recently and that's how he found out, I'm only getting curated 3rd hand info here

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CruelBuffalo
08/23/19 11:48:33 AM
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HypnoCoosh posted...
CruelBuffalo posted...
Hes known for a month!?!?! I would of confronted right and got a rental for me and the kids


You can't just take the children and also if you leave the homestead that has ramifications. You literally have no fucking idea what you're talking about.


I didnt say keep them hostage lol. I would have done one week with me one with her till family court decides. If she doesnt want to, Id let them stay with her while moving forward with family court
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Shinnokxz
08/23/19 11:49:52 AM
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Pukelid posted...
i need to stop being so disgusted and angry over things that have nothing to do with me. man im pissed af


Have you ever been cheated on? I don't like hearing cheating stories because of that
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_Rinku_
08/23/19 11:50:35 AM
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CruelBuffalo posted...
HypnoCoosh posted...
CruelBuffalo posted...
Hes known for a month!?!?! I would of confronted right and got a rental for me and the kids


You can't just take the children and also if you leave the homestead that has ramifications. You literally have no fucking idea what you're talking about.


I didnt say keep them hostage lol. I would have done one week with me one with her till family court decides. If she doesnt want to, Id let them stay with her while moving forward with family court

Suddenly yanking your kids out of their home is going to be damaging, even if you're not "holding them hostage."
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HypnoCoosh
08/23/19 11:51:27 AM
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CruelBuffalo posted...
I would have done one week with me one with her till family court decides


You can not do that.

CruelBuffalo posted...
Id let them stay with her while moving forward with family court


Also an absolute horrible decision.

CruelBuffalo posted...
family court decides


Finally the worst thing you can do rather than settling out of friend of the court.

You my friend would need a lawyer immediately as these are all horrible decisions.
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Balrog0
08/23/19 11:52:18 AM
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emblem boy posted...
How old is everyone involved here,


oh shit, I forgot

coworker 1 is around our age or a bit older, maybe 30-35
coworker 2 is like 40 I think

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Sackgurl
08/23/19 11:52:43 AM
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Balrog0 posted...
coworker 1 might have been trying to downplay the scope of her infidelity when she admitted to my gf that it happened so its very plausible that they've hooked up more recently and that's how he found out, I'm only getting curated 3rd hand info here


idk why anyone would openly admit to something like this to a coworker

seems like a good way to destroy people's respect for you in the office
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Drpooplol
08/23/19 11:52:50 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/23/19 11:56:09 AM
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Ah the joys of being married.


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emblem boy
08/23/19 11:56:24 AM
#76:


Balrog0 posted...
CruelBuffalo posted...
Days of our Office


so, I thought it was weird that these two girls were spending so much time with coworker 2 outside work. they started going to his church services (he's an associate pastor) and I was like... these chicks dont go to church


Oh lawd

emblem boy posted...
How old is everyone involved here,

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Balrog0
08/23/19 12:24:42 PM
#77:


Balrog0 posted...
coworker 1 is around our age or a bit older, maybe 30-35
coworker 2 is like 40 I think


I think they each have two kids that are like... 6-10 years of age

I guess things have quieted down

they have a conference next month in chicago and coworker 1 was so turnt up about going clubbing and drinking when they got there. she invited my gf and my gf told me that she might go... but coworker 1 didn't tell her husband. guess we know why now!!

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LLKoolJosh
08/23/19 12:25:08 PM
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Ask your gf their ratings out of 10

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Balrog0
08/23/19 12:28:37 PM
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LLKoolJosh posted...
Ask your gf their ratings out of 10


like appearance wise? she thinks the dude looks funny and thinks the chick is hot. I guess I tend to agree. I think she's less hot than my gf does

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LLKoolJosh
08/23/19 12:32:02 PM
#80:


Balrog0 posted...
like appearance wise? she thinks the dude looks funny and thinks the chick is hot. I guess I tend to agree. I think she's less hot than my gf does
Lol yes appearance

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HairyThotter
08/23/19 12:41:31 PM
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Why is he even giving her a way back in like "quit your job or we're through!"

He should already be filing divorce papers and setting up visitation rights... shoot... with her being the one cheating he might actually get full custody of the kids.

Once a cheater, always a cheater... I couldn't stay married knowing she'd done that.
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CruelBuffalo
08/23/19 12:46:19 PM
#82:


HypnoCoosh posted...
CruelBuffalo posted...
I would have done one week with me one with her till family court decides


You can not do that.

CruelBuffalo posted...
Id let them stay with her while moving forward with family court


Also an absolute horrible decision.

CruelBuffalo posted...
family court decides


Finally the worst thing you can do rather than settling out of friend of the court.

You my friend would need a lawyer immediately as these are all horrible decisions.


Its what happened with my parents. Worked out fine
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/23/19 12:52:22 PM
#83:


HairyThotter posted...
Why is he even giving her a way back in like "quit your job or we're through!"

He should already be filing divorce papers and setting up visitation rights... shoot... with her being the one cheating he might actually get full custody of the kids.

Once a cheater, always a cheater... I couldn't stay married knowing she'd done that.

I believe no fault divorce applies which means the court does not give a shit if the woman was cheating and may still give her main custody of the children. The husband also has a good chance of still being taken to the cleaners too because of how no fault divorce works so he is getting screwed both with the cheating and the divorce should it go like normal.
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Balrog0
08/23/19 12:53:20 PM
#84:


RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
I believe no fault divorce applies which means the court does not give a shit if the woman was cheating and may still give her main custody of the children. The husband also has a good chance of still being taken to the cleaners too because of how no fault divorce works so he is getting screwed both with the cheating and the divorce should it go like normal.


we don't live in a no fault divorce state

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Balrog0
08/23/19 12:57:10 PM
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but I mean the law also stipulates joint custody is the default arrangement unless there was domestic violence

so idk

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AwesomeToTheMAX
08/23/19 12:58:33 PM
#86:


HairyThotter posted...
Why is he even giving her a way back in like "quit your job or we're through!"

He should already be filing divorce papers and setting up visitation rights... shoot... with her being the one cheating he might actually get full custody of the kids.

Once a cheater, always a cheater... I couldn't stay married knowing she'd done that.


It really is funny seeing CE act like relationships are absolutely black and white, let alone marriages with multiple kids
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Ghetto_Turtle
08/23/19 1:00:39 PM
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AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
HairyThotter posted...
Why is he even giving her a way back in like "quit your job or we're through!"

He should already be filing divorce papers and setting up visitation rights... shoot... with her being the one cheating he might actually get full custody of the kids.

Once a cheater, always a cheater... I couldn't stay married knowing she'd done that.


It really is funny seeing CE act like relationships are absolutely black and white, let alone marriages with multiple kids

the grey shouldn't be fucking other people. you got some fucked up relationships if thats the case.
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Balrog0
08/23/19 1:02:13 PM
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well I mean idk I guess I think the stipulations her husband made are kind of unreasonable

on the other hand idk what I'd do if it were me

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Ultima Dragon
08/23/19 1:04:26 PM
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Ghetto_Turtle posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
HairyThotter posted...
Why is he even giving her a way back in like "quit your job or we're through!"

He should already be filing divorce papers and setting up visitation rights... shoot... with her being the one cheating he might actually get full custody of the kids.

Once a cheater, always a cheater... I couldn't stay married knowing she'd done that.


It really is funny seeing CE act like relationships are absolutely black and white, let alone marriages with multiple kids

the grey shouldn't be fucking other people. you got some fucked up relationships if thats the case.


Yeah, I feel like once cheating happens in a relationship it's basically over. Even if it was "just a one time mistake" (pretty big fucking mistake though). It'll always be in the back of the mind of the person who got cheated on, and it'll come out in nasty, hateful ways if they can't control it.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/23/19 1:07:02 PM
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If your not in a no fault divorce state then the husband who was cheated on needs to go scorched earth on her and hire very good legal representation that is going to help him and not cater to the woman by asking him to be kind and gentle as she tears his life apart.

It sounds horrible but the only way this man(the husband) will see any kind of justice is by going all out and not giving her an inch.

I hope he gets primary custody of his children too.
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NeonOctopus
08/23/19 1:08:22 PM
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AwesomeToTheMAX
08/23/19 1:08:52 PM
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Obviously they shouldn't be fucking over people. But if you think the immediate thought is going to be "dump the bitch" when there's kids involved... Idk what to tell you
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/23/19 1:09:55 PM
#93:


NeonOctopus posted...
these hoes aint loyal

Nope
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Balrog0
08/23/19 1:10:28 PM
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I mean idk she definitely pursued him but he obviously didn't have a problem with it. You'd expect more of a man of faith (lol)

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Sada_Pop
08/23/19 1:14:32 PM
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Always amusing to see grown adults have meltdowns over being cheated on. It fucking sucks but my God dude.

At least he didn't commit a "crime of passion" and throw his life away to just end up a prison girlfriend. Not yet at least.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/23/19 1:15:07 PM
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Being a man of faith does not mean much anymore these days, a lot of holy men have abused children, slept with other mens wives, and fathered children that are not their wives children.
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Ghetto_Turtle
08/23/19 1:19:15 PM
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Sada_Pop posted...
fucking sucks

lol yeah why would anyone "melt down" when the person they've chosen to spend their life with and raise children with is stabbing them in the back?

Sada_Pop posted...
At least he didn't commit a "crime of passion" and throw his life away to just end up a prison girlfriend. Not yet at least.

only psychos would leap to this.
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solosnake
08/23/19 1:25:28 PM
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