Current Events > It seems as i get older, the more i just wanna stay inside and do nothing.

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Recently i was looking around like crazy for a soccer team to join cuz i love soccer, but after i found one i only played a couple games and now i dont even wanna go anymore.... after all that money i spent on equipment. I dont wanna go to family gatherings, i dont feel like getting dressed etc. I feel like im getting bored way too easy but also not putting in enough effort to find somethimg entertaining to do. Idk whats wrong

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Things just become so familiar that you get into that "I've done it before, it didn't do anything for me last time, so why do it at all?" mindset.

As I've entered middle age, I've found that challenging myself is what feels the most rewarding and gives life more meaning. Whether that means studying a bit each day for a cert, reading through, or shit... even writing, a book... taking shooting or archery lessons... learning an instrument.

You might be thinking "there's nothing I'm passionate about so I don't try anything"... but you gotta remember that passion follows success, not the other way around. You gotta try new things and succeed before you'll start feeling passion for them.

You mentioned soccer.. maybe you're not challenging yourself enough to feel the reward that would make you want to go back? Maybe you're actually over soccer... but just going back to it because it's something you used to enjoy.

Point is, just think of something you've always wanted to do but never tried for whatever reason. Look up a place nearby that can help you do it, and go for it.

Added bonus: Once you get out and start succeeding, or even failing, you'll have more shit to talk about, hence, more reasons to want to hang out with people and chat about how you've been.
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Sounds like depression

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