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VictourieFlake 10/08/19 2:14:00 PM #1:	The thought of my parents age, in the middle of the night no less. This has never happened before, last time I made an conscious note on this was when I was face camming my dad and noticed he is a lot older than I had expected. <cite>VictourieFlake posted [p:928505840] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>The thought of my parents age, in the middle of the night no less. This has never happened before, last time I made an conscious note on this was when I was face camming my dad and noticed he is a lot older than I had expected.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 10/08/19 2:15:28 PM #2:	Yeah I get that sometimes too. I'm 30 and my mother is 75. The closer you get to the impending fact they won't be around forever is really depressing. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com <cite>LostForest posted [p:928505910] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Yeah I get that sometimes too. I'm 30 and my mother is 75. The closer you get to the impending fact they won't be around forever is really depressing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:16:46 PM #3:	That's life man. It's a blessing she's still alive. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928505963] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>That's life man. It's a blessing she's still alive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 10/08/19 2:17:10 PM #4:	My mom said that when her parents (my grandparents) both died, she felt like an orphan, even though she was like 50 when it happened >_> My parents are in their 60s now and it's a weird thought --- https://i.imgtc.ws/cCF89fl.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/LeYvR5c.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/eNZ2kfM.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/kFyHKqh.jpg https://i.imgtc.ws/eSmBjnF.png <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:928505976] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>My mom said that when her parents (my grandparents) both died, she felt like an orphan, even though she was like 50 when it happened >_> My parents are in their 60s now and it's a weird thought</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 10/08/19 2:18:09 PM #5:	Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com <cite>LostForest posted [p:928506021] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:19:29 PM #6:	LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. Uh, you took that completely wrong. I literally talked about blessings immediately after. I can guarantee TC knew how to take my intention --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928506076] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> Uh, you took that completely wrong. I literally talked about blessings immediately after. I can guarantee TC knew how to take my intention</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordMarshal 10/08/19 2:19:54 PM #7:	Weird, im 33 and with my "group" im the only one like "They (my mom and wives mom) dont have too much longer" yet everyone acts like they do. --- There can be only one. <cite>LordMarshal posted [p:928506093] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Weird, im 33 and with my "group" im the only one like "They (my mom and wives mom) dont have too much longer" yet everyone acts like they do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MC_BatCommander 10/08/19 2:20:12 PM #8:	LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. What the fuck was edgy about that --- The Legend is True! <cite>MC_BatCommander posted [p:928506106] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> What the fuck was edgy about that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:20:26 PM #9:	If anything it was too cliche. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928506115] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>If anything it was too cliche.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 10/08/19 2:20:47 PM #10:	Lost_All_Senses posted... If anything it was too cliche. That's life man. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/cCF89fl.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/LeYvR5c.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/eNZ2kfM.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/kFyHKqh.jpg https://i.imgtc.ws/eSmBjnF.png <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:928506130] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>If anything it was too cliche.</quote> That's life man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:21:20 PM #11:	NeonOctopus posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... If anything it was too cliche. That's life man. Life is one big cliche --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928506161] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>NeonOctopus posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>If anything it was too cliche.</quote> That's life man.</quote> Life is one big cliche</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 10/08/19 2:21:35 PM #12:	MC_BatCommander posted... LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. What the fuck was edgy about that TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com <cite>LostForest posted [p:928506172] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> What the fuck was edgy about that</quote> TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerSlaw 10/08/19 2:21:40 PM #13:	I'm expecting to get super depressed if my parents die before me, and I feel like the same will happen to them if I die first. We've become very dependant upon each other between our health issues and their age. --- "Wait a minute...If I ever get a hold of you, I will thank you for showing me the futility of human endeavor." <cite>KillerSlaw posted [p:928506182] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>I'm expecting to get super depressed if my parents die before me, and I feel like the same will happen to them if I die first. We've become very dependant upon each other between our health issues and their age.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:22:42 PM #14:	LostForest posted... MC_BatCommander posted... LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. What the fuck was edgy about that TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol. But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928506223] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> What the fuck was edgy about that</quote> TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol.</quote> But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 10/08/19 2:29:09 PM #15:	I feel the same way :( --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:928506499] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>I feel the same way :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tennisdude818 10/08/19 2:33:55 PM #16:	All you can do is appreciate and make the most of the time you have. Once you hit 50, things can get bad without warning. Really, thats true anytime (Popcorn Fairy R.I.P.). --- "Those who need leaders are not qualified to choose them." -Michael Malice <cite>tennisdude818 posted [p:928506701] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>All you can do is appreciate and make the most of the time you have. Once you hit 50, things can get bad without warning. Really, thats true anytime (Popcorn Fairy R.I.P.).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hayame Zero 10/08/19 2:36:32 PM #17:	I'm 34, and didn't start feeling like this until recently. Shit sucks. --- ...I think I'm done here... <cite>Hayame Zero posted [p:928506812] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>I'm 34, and didn't start feeling like this until recently. Shit sucks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LostForest 10/08/19 2:37:15 PM #18:	Lost_All_Senses posted... LostForest posted... MC_BatCommander posted... LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. What the fuck was edgy about that TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol. But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story. Ahright fair enough then, sorry I jumped to conclusions. I originally interpreted it as like when someone dies, and someone goes "Hey we're all gonna die, that's life." rather than actually offer something comforting to them. Way you're explaining it, wasn't really that edgy then. Sorry about that. --- http://poorcouplesfoodguide.com <cite>LostForest posted [p:928506836] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> What the fuck was edgy about that</quote> TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol.</quote> But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story.</quote> Ahright fair enough then, sorry I jumped to conclusions. I originally interpreted it as like when someone dies, and someone goes "Hey we're all gonna die, that's life." rather than actually offer something comforting to them. Way you're explaining it, wasn't really that edgy then. Sorry about that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spudger 10/08/19 2:39:34 PM #19:	those realizations are eye opening. the worst is when you get to the point where you are taking care of the parents and are more mature and responsible than they are and your roles have switched. --- -Only dead fish swim with the current http://error1355.com/ce/spudger.html <cite>spudger posted [p:928506922] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>those realizations are eye opening. the worst is when you get to the point where you are taking care of the parents and are more mature and responsible than they are and your roles have switched.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kitt 10/08/19 2:44:09 PM #20:	I have these thoughts sometimes too. Except, my mom had me in her early 20's, so I had the luxury of watching her slowly start showing traits that she's getting up there in age. She's fine overall, but it's kind of depressing sometimes. --- https://i.imgtc.com/4WH1b6j.gif https://i.imgtc.ws/vmNrCuM.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Ti7m7Ts.gif Dancing is Forbidden <cite>Kitt posted [p:928507091] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>I have these thoughts sometimes too. Except, my mom had me in her early 20's, so I had the luxury of watching her slowly start showing traits that she's getting up there in age. She's fine overall, but it's kind of depressing sometimes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnholyMudcrab 10/08/19 2:45:31 PM #21:	My dad died last November. I'd tried to prepare myself mentally for it beforehand because he was never in the greatest of health, but you're still never really ready for it when it does happen. --- https://imgur.com/VeNBg https://imgur.com/gd5jC8q https://imgur.com/PKIy7 https://imgur.com/3p29JqP <cite>UnholyMudcrab posted [p:928507140] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>My dad died last November. I'd tried to prepare myself mentally for it beforehand because he was never in the greatest of health, but you're still never really ready for it when it does happen.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
XXmiznatorXX 10/08/19 2:45:35 PM #22:	I'm 32 and my parents are in their 70s. Thought they'd both live to their 80s. Lost my dad this year outta nowhere at 74 from a heart attack, otherwise, he was perfectly healthy. So yeah, I feel ya man. <cite>XXmiznatorXX posted [p:928507143] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>I'm 32 and my parents are in their 70s. Thought they'd both live to their 80s. Lost my dad this year outta nowhere at 74 from a heart attack, otherwise, he was perfectly healthy. So yeah, I feel ya man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 2:51:49 PM #23:	LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... LostForest posted... MC_BatCommander posted... LostForest posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... That's life man. Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol. What the fuck was edgy about that TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol. But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story. Ahright fair enough then, sorry I jumped to conclusions. I originally interpreted it as like when someone dies, and someone goes "Hey we're all gonna die, that's life." rather than actually offer something comforting to them. Way you're explaining it, wasn't really that edgy then. Sorry about that. It's all good. For the record, Im also terrified of this. I am just really good at selective ignorance. A few months ago, I looked at my mom and all of a sudden everything I didn't notice in the last 10 years about her appearance hit me like a ton of bricks. It felt really concerning but I quickly clicked back to my self induced ignorance. I definitely relate, I just don't want to cause it's scary. I try to just be thankful she's still here babying me like she likes to. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928507391] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted...</cite> <quote>LostForest posted...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>That's life man.</quote> Edgy takes like this are so fucking cringey lol.</quote> What the fuck was edgy about that</quote> TC says he cried in the middle of the night about the thought of his parents getting old. "That's life" isn't exactly a comforting response lol.</quote> But my intention was obvious when I said it was a blessing she was still alive. It was a "look on the bright side" comment. Not everyone gets to keep their mom this long It's cool if it came off wrong but not accepting me explaining myself after is a different story.</quote> Ahright fair enough then, sorry I jumped to conclusions. I originally interpreted it as like when someone dies, and someone goes "Hey we're all gonna die, that's life." rather than actually offer something comforting to them. Way you're explaining it, wasn't really that edgy then. Sorry about that.</quote> It's all good. For the record, Im also terrified of this. I am just really good at selective ignorance. A few months ago, I looked at my mom and all of a sudden everything I didn't notice in the last 10 years about her appearance hit me like a ton of bricks. It felt really concerning but I quickly clicked back to my self induced ignorance. I definitely relate, I just don't want to cause it's scary. I try to just be thankful she's still here babying me like she likes to.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pls 10/08/19 2:52:50 PM #24:	Literally same thing happened to me the other day TC --- Do good. Eat communists. <cite>pls posted [p:928507433] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Literally same thing happened to me the other day TC</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chrono625 10/08/19 2:54:52 PM #25:	My dad's 67, I feel like hes got 10 really good years left a nd probably another 5 good left. That leaves only 15 years give or take. That's fucking depressing as fuck. I lost my mom when she was 59. --- https://imgur.com/Rqk1DYV - Super Bowl XXI/XXV/XLII/XLVI Champions - NY Giants Eli Manning SB tracker: 2/2 Superbowls 2/2 SBMVP's <cite>chrono625 posted [p:928507505] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>My dad's 67, I feel like hes got 10 really good years left a nd probably another 5 good left. That leaves only 15 years give or take. That's fucking depressing as fuck. I lost my mom when she was 59. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TripsMonkey 10/08/19 2:56:07 PM #26:	Visited my parents in another province last week. Both in their 60s, father retired. Judging by this topic, you're not alone. It's something to prepare ourselves for. --- Gamefaqs moderators encourage, enable and participate in harassment on this site. Harassment does not beget silence in 2019. <cite>TripsMonkey posted [p:928507550] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Visited my parents in another province last week. Both in their 60s, father retired. Judging by this topic, you're not alone. It's something to prepare ourselves for.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 10/08/19 3:03:53 PM #28:	Hayame Zero posted... I'm 34, and didn't start feeling like this until recently. Shit sucks. yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions. --- The act of treachery is an art, but the traitor himself is a piece of **** - Mike Tyson <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:928507865] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Hayame Zero posted...</cite> <quote>I'm 34, and didn't start feeling like this until recently. Shit sucks. </quote> yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kensaimage 10/08/19 3:13:28 PM #29:	My dad has his first heart attack a year ago. Ever since, hes really started showing his age. Whitening hair. Facial skin more loose. Starting to look like old pics of my grandpa. Hes got stints in his arteries now to keep things flowing, but we have cardiac issues in the family and a history of males checking out in the early 60s because of them. So its made me really wary that he might not be around much longer. We lost my grandpa to a cerebral hemorrhage at 62. My dad is 56 and I just turned 30. Make memories. He was helping me work on my truck yesterday and so I took him out to eat after and we talked about cars and stuff. Felt real nice cuz we dont get time enough to do this often. My moms side all live far into the 80s and so Im less worried about her. Shes like 53 and in really good health. Of course I know never to take that for granted, but my dad seemed to age a decade over night and so yeah. I get the fear <cite>Kensaimage posted [p:928508282] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>My dad has his first heart attack a year ago. Ever since, hes really started showing his age. Whitening hair. Facial skin more loose. Starting to look like old pics of my grandpa. Hes got stints in his arteries now to keep things flowing, but we have cardiac issues in the family and a history of males checking out in the early 60s because of them. So its made me really wary that he might not be around much longer. We lost my grandpa to a cerebral hemorrhage at 62. My dad is 56 and I just turned 30. Make memories. He was helping me work on my truck yesterday and so I took him out to eat after and we talked about cars and stuff. Felt real nice cuz we dont get time enough to do this often. My moms side all live far into the 80s and so Im less worried about her. Shes like 53 and in really good health. Of course I know never to take that for granted, but my dad seemed to age a decade over night and so yeah. I get the fear </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hayame Zero 10/08/19 5:27:18 PM #30:	kingdrake2 posted... yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions. Oh yeah, my 30s are so much better than my 20s. This has been awesome. --- ...I think I'm done here... <cite>Hayame Zero posted [p:928513988] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>kingdrake2 posted... </cite> <quote>yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions.</quote> Oh yeah, my 30s are so much better than my 20s. This has been awesome. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/08/19 5:28:32 PM #31:	Hayame Zero posted... kingdrake2 posted... yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions. Oh yeah, my 30s are so much better than my 20s. This has been awesome. I just got to my 30s last month. But my mindstate shift happened at 28. --- Name checks out https://i.imgtc.ws/vBF8odT.png <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:928514040] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>Hayame Zero posted...</cite> <quote>kingdrake2 posted... </cite> <quote>yep it does suck. life does better after age 28. don't make as much bad decisions.</quote> Oh yeah, my 30s are so much better than my 20s. This has been awesome. </quote> I just got to my 30s last month. But my mindstate shift happened at 28.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spudger 10/08/19 5:30:48 PM #32:	wait til you get close to 40 and your pubes get gray good times --- -Only dead fish swim with the current http://error1355.com/ce/spudger.html <cite>spudger posted [p:928514136] in Approachin... [t:78072325]...</cite> <quote>wait til you get close to 40 and your pubes get gray good times</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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