Current Events > Provide a convincing case why 'slut' is wrong but 'incel' is not.

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I've been called an incel three times on this board by people I didn't insult because they were butthurt about losing arguments.

Yet if I called anyone a slut, whore, or anything of the sort, the mods would be on my ass.

How is that consistent?
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Hey. I recently got called an incel symphathiser.

Which was odd.

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I love sluts though
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There isn't one.

This is a weird hill to die on tbh
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Febrel posted...

Yet if I called anyone a slut, whore, or anything of the sort, the mods would be on my ass.

Would they? I thought they just changed the flaming rule so lighter flames were still ok as long as you don't "insult the intelligence" or something like that (words like dumb, moron, idiot, etc.)
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I dunno. A crappy lock is still better than a broken key.

TC tagged as incel

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Because feminism says slut is wrong for you to say

There is no equivalent of feminism for you as a man

Sorry

Lmao incel topic
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Incel is a self-identified label. Slut...usually isnt.
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FrozenXylophone posted...

Because feminism says slut is wrong for you to say

There is no equivalent of feminism for you as a man

Sorry

But I was told that feminism is about gender equality. Like, for everyone.
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AlisLandale posted...

Incel is a self-identified label. Slut...usually isnt.

Then why are people calling tc incel when he doesn't want to be called that?

AlisLandale posted...

Incel is a self-identified label. Slut...usually isnt.

But I don't identify as incel and yet even in this topic people are using it as an insult.
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One gets to be a slut by being a likeable person. One gets to be an incel by being generally unlikeable. That's the difference in a nutshell.
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AlisLandale posted...

Incel is a self-identified label

Ummmmm

Febrel posted...

I've been called an incel three times

Sunhawk posted...

Hey. I recently got called an incel symphathiser.

Garioshi posted...

TC tagged as incel

Bananana posted...

Lmao incel topic

Febrel posted...

FrozenXylophone posted...

Because feminism says slut is wrong for you to say

There is no equivalent of feminism for you as a man

Sorry

But I was told that feminism is about gender equality. Like, for everyone.

I doubt you were told that.

Feminism is about advancing the rights of women and only that. And that is and was needed.

Unfortunately, men might want some of that as well, but when they do, they get labeled as MRA or anti- feminist.
Which is more or less just more toxic masculinity getting in the way of progress ironically.

shockthemonkey posted...

But it is pretty pathetic how incel has just become a go-to word to s*** on dudes

I mean, it is just a fancy way to say virgin, which has been the go to insult on men since idk how long.

shockthemonkey posted...

Men who want to advocate for mens rights need to start having conversations with feminists on empowerment and equality rather than constantly aligning with reactionary dickheads who want to yell about how women suck.

Yes. But what I mean is another part of the problem is if a man says "we need help" another will say "no you don't, pathetic weakling".
Because having others help you is not manly.

shockthemonkey posted...

Men who want to advocate for mens rights need to start having conversations with feminists on empowerment and equality rather than constantly aligning with reactionary dickheads who want to yell about how women suck.

They did. Then the feminists started screeching about anti-women MRA this and misogynist MGTOW that. You literally expect feminists to be reasoned with? LOL, tell that to Cassie Jay.

EvenSpoonier posted...

One gets to be a slut by being a likeable person. One gets to be an incel by being generally unlikeable. That's the difference in a nutshell.

But I've heard of "hate sex" where the participants don't like each other at all.

FrozenXylophone posted...

I doubt you were told that.

Every time I've seen someone say "I'm a equalist, I support gender equality for everyone" I've also seen some feminist respond "then you're a feminist, you don't need a seperate term". I've seen similar responses to men who are trying to start men's rights groups.

FrozenXylophone posted...

Unfortunately, men might want some of that as well, but when they do, they get labeled as MRA or anti- feminist.
Which is more or less just more toxic masculinity getting in the way of progress ironically.

Some women do that too though, so it can't all be toxic masculinity.
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shockthemonkey posted...

It is pretty pathetic how incel has just become a go-to word to shit on dudes, especially considering the connotation and way its been linked to extreme violence. Its just a matter of time before it gets linked to suicides from bullying.

Its also being misused all the time now too.
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Tbh I think both should be okay to make fun of.
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You might want to fix your typo.

Looks like you called us angry assholes.

I think you meant to and not you.

Shaming someone for having consensual sex is not the same as shaming someone for thinking they're owed sex and mad at women for not giving it to them.....is this a real topic?

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shockthemonkey posted...

Mens Rights will never be a successful movement if it continues to act as if feminists are enemies

I've seen plenty of self-proclaimed feminists use the incel insult. The same people would probably explode if called a SJW or cuck. Hypocrites should be considered enemies.

Feminists also seem to get mad if you point out that gamer girl streamers have it easy financially, even though that's true. If they refuse to allow discussion about any area of life when women have an easier time than men then you can't really discuss male specific problems with them.
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The former gets some, haters be jelly.
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TheVipaGTS posted...

Shaming someone for having consensual sex is not the same as shaming someone for thinking they're owed sex and mad at women for not giving it to them.....is this a real topic?

I don't think I'm owed sex and I was still called an incel bruh.
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Febrel posted...

I don't think I'm owed sex and I was still called an incel bruh.

then they were wrong. comparing it to people being called "slut" is not the same thing.

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IShall_Run_Amok posted...

The former gets some, haters be jelly.

If the latter is worse off that's even more reason they shouldn't be insulted on top of it. It's like thinking it's cool to insult poor people over rich people.

shockthemonkey posted...

Cmon man dont do this thing where you reply to one line and ignore what the whole post was trying to say

Sorry.
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Febrel posted...

TheVipaGTS posted...

Shaming someone for having consensual sex is not the same as shaming someone for thinking they're owed sex and mad at women for not giving it to them.....is this a real topic?

I don't think I'm owed sex and I was still called an incel bruh.

This thread is so well written I will be sending you a voucher for sex in the mail.

Jk mods

Febrel posted...

If the latter is worse off that's even more reason they shouldn't be insulted on top of it. It's like thinking it's cool to insult poor people over rich people.

Cool or not, jelly haters gettin' dunked on is pretty funny.
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Nothing.

Because it is just an insult now and nothing more. There was there was this dude with a girlfriend and he would later kill her and people kept calling him an incel. And it is not just from the creepy guys, it is like the term virgin. People throw out that to attack males just cause. And heck it is easier to be slut then a incel.
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IShall_Run_Amok posted...

Febrel posted...

If the latter is worse off that's even more reason they shouldn't be insulted on top of it. It's like thinking it's cool to insult poor people over rich people.

Cool or not, jelly haters gettin' dunked on is pretty funny.

Well it'd be nice if these people didn't simultaneously say "u jelly cuz they sexy" and "these people have it so hard, how dare you spread bigotry towards the vulnerable members of our society".

Either they have it better or they don't.
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Someone didn't get modded when I told them I was voluntarily celibate and they laughed
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You slut
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amp slut
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I'm not sure what people who use incel as an insult really think it even means. I've had at least two users here call me an incel, and I get laid regularly. Guess it's just the new fad insult for the snowflake crowd.
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The Admiral posted...

I'm not sure what people who use incel as an insult really think it even means. I've had at least two users here call me an incel, and I get laid regularly. Guess it's just the new fad insult for the snowflake crowd.

I don't why people need to make up things to call you. There's plenty of choices already
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This is not a reason for why one is okay but not the other, but just to put things in perspective: Incels have done mass murders in the name of Incels, and Sluts have not.
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Febrel posted...

the mods would be on my ass.

Whataslut
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mech dragon posted...

This is not a reason for why one is okay but not the other, but just to put things in perspective: Incels have done mass murders in the name of Incels, and Sluts have not.

None of the people being called incel on the internet have done mass murder though. Yes an actual incel movement guy is worse than an actual slut, but that has no bearing on the people being falsely labeled.

AdmiralStiff posted...

Febrel posted...

the mods would be on my ass.

Whataslut

>_>
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EvenSpoonier posted...

One gets to be a slut by being a likeable person. One gets to be an incel by being generally unlikeable. That's the difference in a nutshell.

I'll tell you from experience, a lot of sluts are absolutely not likable people. You get to be a slut by having a vagina and a willingness to permit easy access to it.
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