Current Events > 21 y/o girl allegedly pushed 22 y/o boyfriend to suicide

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She had total control of her boyfriend, prosecutors say. Now shes charged in his suicide.

It was the day of Alexander Urtulas college graduation. He was a standout student, a biology major at Boston College, and his parents were in town to watch him receive his diploma.

But hours before the May 20 ceremony, Urtulas girlfriend, Inyoung You, tracked him to a parking garage in Bostons Roxbury neighborhood. There, authorities said, You was present as Urtula leaped to his death from the top floor after enduring months of her physical, verbal and psychological abuse.

On Monday, the Suffolk County district attorney charged You, also a Boston College student at the time, with involuntary manslaughter in Urtulas suicide a case that closely mirrors that of Michelle Carter, who was convicted of the same crime in 2017 after encouraging her boyfriend to kill himself.

You, 21, had complete and total control over Urtula, 22, during their 18-month relationship, often using text messages and threats of self-harm to manipulate him, said Rachael Rollins, the district attorney.

Many of the messages clearly display the power dynamic in the relationship wherein Ms. You made demands and threats with the understanding that she had complete and total control over Mr. Urtula, both mentally and emotionally, Rollins said at a news conference.

The abuse became more frequent, more powerful and more demeaning in the days and hours leading up to Urtulas death, Rollins said. In the two months prior, the couple exchanged more than 75,000 text messages, and at least 47,000 came from You a stream of unrelenting abuse, the district attorney said.

In those messages, Rollins said, You encouraged Urtula to kill himself hundreds, perhaps thousands, of times, telling him to go die and saying she, his family and the world would be better off without him.

The abuse was also documented in Urtulas journal and by both their classmates and family members, who said they witnessed the abuse, Rollins said.

I got this from Washington Post; link was too long so i copypaste text
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we've landed on the moon!

Why is it so hard for women to be nice?
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Tragic story. Heart goes out to his family.

Shame if the girl really did this. And she was such a pretty Asian lady too :(
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Flockaveli posted...

Why is it so hard for women to be nice?

To be fair, alot of guys are either assholes or frustratingly stupid.
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Scotty_Rogers posted...

The abuse became more frequent, more powerful and more demeaning in the days and hours leading up to Urtulas death, Rollins said. In the two months prior, the couple exchanged more than 75,000 text messages, and at least 47,000 came from You a stream of unrelenting abuse, the district attorney said.

In those messages, Rollins said, You encouraged Urtula to kill himself hundreds, perhaps thousands, of times, telling him to go die and saying she, his family and the world would be better off without him.

Dude wtf, why would you even stay with someone like that
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Smh this Kim jong look alike chick had that kinda behavior? That poor dude.
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Flockaveli posted...

Why is it so hard for women to be nice?

Wii_Shaker posted...

Flockaveli posted...

Why is it so hard for women to be nice?

To be fair, alot of guys are either assholes or frustratingly stupid.

Two toxic as fuck posts. Damn.

She looks like a dude
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I read the transcripts in the Michelle Carter case and it was very disturbing. The boyfriend didn't want to die but she manipulated him to suicide. She should have been charged with murder imo but I think she only got involuntary manslaughter.

We need more details for this case tho.
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