Current Events > Anyone ever cold approached at the mall

(+) Yeah! (+)

Thinking of trying it so I can get used to rejection. Sounds like a troll post, but I got legit massive fear insecurities with this shit so I wanna go out there and prove to myself its not that bad lol

Could be good to get some rejections under your belt. Who knows, you might even get lucky and pull some numbers.

---

I'm a pick up artist, so yes. But I hate opening at the mall because girls are always walking so its hard to speed up to catch up. But if I see an attractive girl standing still or sitting down I'll still open.

---

That's extremely creepy

---

No_U_L7 posted...

I'm a pick up artist, so yes. But I hate opening at the mall because girls are always walking so its hard to speed up to catch up. But if I see an attractive girl standing still or sitting down I'll still open.

I probably wont start with pickup, maybe just small conversations and build up to it later on.

The_Freecs posted...

I probably wont start with pickup, maybe just small conversations and build up to it later on.

That's what I said to myself at first lmao. 10 years later I've gone down the rabbit hole and break down interactions like sports analysts breaking down plays

Irony posted...

That's extremely creepy

You have no clue how many people have hooked up with people they've met at the mall...its a ton lmao. My advice: never live life out of fear of being creepy. Just dont be creepy and itll usually work out. Theres definitely a non creepy way to talk to hot girls at the mall

---

lol not lately, but i'll check my notes for what i did when i was still in my prime. i'll edit this post later.

---

No_U_L7 posted...

That's what I said to myself at first lmao. 10 years later I've gone down the rabbit hole and break down interactions like sports analysts breaking down plays

You have no clue how many people have hooked up with people they've met at the mall...its a ton lmao. My advice: never live life out of fear of being creepy. Just dont be creepy and itll usually work out. Theres definitely a non creepy way to talk to hot girls at the mall

yeah not gonna let the creepy thing stop me. If I get a standoffish vibe Ill just jet. I hope one day it can lead to smashing, but once I put smashing as the goal Ill buckle during the convo so gonna hold off on that for now.

The_Freecs posted...

yeah not gonna let the creepy thing stop me. If I get a standoffish vibe Ill just jet. I hope one day it can lead to smashing, but once I put smashing as the goal Ill buckle during the convo so gonna hold off on that for now.

Good attitude to have.

Also the difference between being charming and being creepy is how the other person perceives you. Just be yourself.

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

---

Wii_Shaker posted...

Good attitude to have.

Also the difference between being charming and being creepy is how the other person perceives you. Just be yourself.

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

thanks man. Gonna try it out at a mall pretty far from my area tommorow.

Wii_Shaker posted...

Good attitude to have.

Also the difference between being charming and being creepy is how the other person perceives you. Just be yourself.

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

Not only, it's more how you perceive yourself and your intentions.

If a girl tells you you're creepy and you say "oh sorry" you become creepy

If a girl tells you you're creepy and you say "oh, you seemed interesting and I just had to talk to you" you illustrate that your intentions are well aligned and the girl can change her mind

---

Unless you're trying to be the next Roy Moore, better be careful.

---

brestugo posted...

Unless you're trying to be the next Roy Moore, better be careful.

wow talking to a girl who is my age is the same as pursuing sex with a 14 year old

i forget to edit my post, is it still worth it? does anyone need my advice?

---

Wewillrocku posted...

i forget to edit my post, is it still worth it? does anyone need my advice?

sure why not. I need anything I can get haha

My current gf i cold approached at a walmart >_> gl m8

---

Conflict posted...

Erm

How old are you?

Sarcasm. Someone suggested TC is the next Roy Moore, who allegedly raped 14 year olds. TC is mocking that user.

---

Conflict posted...

Erm

How old are you?

23, obviously gonna try and communicate with girls from like 20 - 25.

Conflict posted...

Yeah but you wouldn't exactly know how old girls at the mall are right away and a lot of them (vast majority I'd wager) are gonna be high school age. That's kinda what that dude was getting at

Once you find out they are too young, leave...its nbd

---

Irony posted...

That's extremely creepy

It's terrible that we're supposed to go through life thinking that approaching girls is creepy now.

Lol @ TC literally listening to advice from one of the biggest turbovirgin trolls on this site.
---

Conception616 posted...

Lol @ TC literally listening to advice from one of the biggest turbovirgin trolls on this site

who is this? Do you have any proof? Does it even matter if its good advice haha

Purely posted...

It's terrible that we're supposed to go through life thinking that approaching girls is creepy now.

Walking up to random girls at the mall and asking them out is definition creep thing

---

Irony posted...

Walking up to random girls at the mall and asking them out is definition creep thing

ok I wont do it because you said so

The_Freecs posted...

who is this? Do you have any proof? Does it even matter if its good advice haha

idk who they're referring to. i hope it's not me, i have experience doing this.

---

The_Freecs posted...

ok I wont do it because you said so

It's funny because his user name is Irony.

---

Tbf it wouldn't be SO creepy if you didn't make a thread about it on CE first since, no offense, it kind of implies you wouldn't know how to go about it naturally which would inevitably come off as creepy to people.

Like, my wife and I were at the mall last week and while we were in ThinkGeek, there was some doof talking the cashier girl's head off about video games and anime for like 20 minutes without actually buying anything, while she politely yessed him the whole time.
We then went into FYE later, and the same guy came in and was talking to I guess his friends, telling him about how he really hit it off and how great it was going, and how he might go in again next week to see her, and we were just like "Eughhhhhhh".

I know you're not talking about doing that exact same thing (or at least I HOPE you don't lol) but this topic kinda brings it to mind, the same kinda vibe.

---

As a teenager I did because that was back when it was a normal thing to do. It was always awkward because teens of both genders only know how to flirt awkwardly.

---

LostForest posted...

Tbf it wouldn't be SO creepy if you didn't make a thread about it on CE first since, no offense, it kind of implies you wouldn't know how to go about it naturally which would inevitably come off as creepy to people.

Like, my wife and I were at the mall last week and while we were in ThinkGeek, there was some doof talking the cashier girl's head off about video games and anime for like 20 minutes without actually buying anything, while she politely yessed him the whole time.
We then went into FYE later, and the same guy came in and was talking to I guess his friends, telling him about how he really hit it off and how great it was going, and how he might go in again next week to see her, and we were just like "Eughhhhhhh".

I know you're not talking about doing that exact same thing (or at least I HOPE you don't lol) but this topic kinda brings it to mind, the same kinda vibe.

Gotta learn somehow, if he fucks it up, that sucks...but even then it really isnt a big deal

---

No_U_L7 posted...

Gotta learn somehow, if he fucks it up, that sucks...but even then it really isnt a big deal

coming off like the guy who lostforest Mentioned was my biggest fear, but at this point who cares not like Ill ever see the person again since Im doing it at an mall pretty far from my area.