Current Events > I don't get why dudes get turned off if a girl says she likes traveling

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Because she'll be getting bent over by each nationality

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Dark_SilverX posted...

Because she'll be getting bent over by each nationality

Surely no racist intentions behind this post from a Trumpeteer

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Puglia77 posted...

Who doesn't like traveling?

Me, such a hassle and I hate leaving the house empty for days on end.
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Dark_SilverX posted...

Because she'll be getting bent over by each nationality

So true lmao

Vicious_Dios posted...

But who cares about those losers? What a stupid fucking comment.

People like you deserve death.

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lol most of the time when 'travelling' is your main focus on your profile, it usually just means you dont have any other real hobbies.

you just pay, go somewhere and then get to say you are a traveller.

Or it could mean you like to jet set places and slut it up without anyone to judge you XD

But one thing you can guarantee if she is such a keen traveller is that she broke af or heavily in debt lmao. and if you are going with her then you better be prepared to be annoyed every couple of minutes to take a picture of her every 5 mins for the gram lol

toyota posted...

lol most of the time when 'travelling' is your main focus on your profile, it usually just means you dont have any other real hobbies.

this is how i always felt. it's not that i have a problem with traveling, it's just that it's a typical, boring, regurgitated cop out

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viewmaster_pi posted...

this is how i always felt. it's not that i have a problem with traveling, it's just that it's a typical, boring, regurgitated cop out

and most of the time travel to them just means going to a resort or some other basic bitch place and being scared of the "ethnic people" in the countries they go to lmao

AzNDarkSamurai posted...

Like this one girl I work with mentioned to me that guys for some reason get turned off when she says that she likes to travel

Why is that?

Because it's basic as fuck and vague.

It's like someone saying they "like to laugh" in their profile.
It's like duh...most people do. Tell us something about you that's NOT predictable...

This isn't exclusively an issue with women. Men can have lazy profiles and responses too.

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true, maybe take some selfies by the infinity pool? champaign clink!

e: forgot to quote, lol

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toyota posted...

and if you are going with her then you better be prepared to be annoyed every couple of minutes to take a picture of her every 5 mins for the gram lol

Oh man I hadn't even considered this.

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^lol dont ever forget girls and their obsession with the gram

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I'd be a lot more open to adapting to some girl's gym lifestyle than someone who travels often as long as she's not 100% all about it and such.

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Umbreon posted...

Yeah, a lot of times "I like traveling" means "Pay for my trips".

That's not to say that being well traveled isn't a good thing, but traveling costs money.

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she's either rich or spends a great deal of her income on that travel

if she's rich, i ain't rich enough; if she's not rich, we have different financial priorities

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Dark_SilverX posted...

Because she'll be getting bent over by each nationality

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^as long as she doesnt credit card it

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Good lord at the bitterness in this topic

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Puglia77 posted...

Who doesn't like traveling?

Me. I like to trip at home.

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Duwstai posted...

That's a lot of time off work and savings down the toilet. I'm ok with 1 trip a year, she wants like 5.

How do you guys reconcile?
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Traveling is expensive, and with how a lot of people live nowadays it just means one more unnecessary fucking thing to spend money on. A lot of the time "I like to travel" from... anyone you're dating generally means "I like to go to expensive places and am looking for someone to foot at least half the bill"

I mean, I like traveling, but as a US citizen, most of the decent places to travel are either in the US, US-adjacent in culture and styling(with a bit more history and less gun), or they hate you. So, I decided to just say fuck it. If I wanted to pay to go somewhere where people hate me, I'll just wait until Thanksgiving and catch shit from drunk family members.

The whole point of a dating site is to find someone who you would want to be in a relationship with. I don't want someone who's going to be neglecting the kids and home because she spends all her time galavanting around the country/globe.

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