Current Events > This fucking quarantine is killing me. I'm staying to hate my GF.

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Her: I need my vegan cheese, bread, eggs.

Me: Ok

Her: What do you need?

Me: Nothing.

Her: So when are we going to Publix?

Me: Take your car

Her: Why are you making me go alone?!

Me: I dont need groceries. Youre a big girl, you can do it yourself

Now shes also mad that I wont pay either. Theres about to be a homicide in this fucking apartment ~_~

i dont get it

She eats vegan cheese, bread, and eggs. You should have known what you were getting into.

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Slayerblade11 posted...

i dont get it

She needs groceries and I dont. I dont want to go anywhere and shes pissed I dont want to go. Shes also pissed that I told her to use her money to go grocery shopping.

s0nicfan posted...

She eats vegan cheese, bread, and eggs. You should have known what you were getting into.

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To be honest you don't sound like a team player. To break down the situation, she needs something and you won't go to help. Its not like you're lowering your risk of infection by staying at home -- if she gets it you likely will too.

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Give her some cash and stay home to social distance.How much could that cost anyway, plus you would be "compromising".

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Should have gone to the grocery store with her. Rookie mistake.
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You complained about her earlier a few days ago. Dump her and move on. Otherwise you'll make more of these topix

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Add TC to the long list of dudes that are gonna be dumped after social distancing ends

hitokoriX posted...

To be honest you don't sound like a team player. To break down the situation, she needs something and you won't go to help. Its not like you're lowering your risk of infection by staying at home -- if she gets it you likely will too.

Its not that. Its that when I need stuff, I go and do it on my own. I dont go pestering her when for example I go and buy a TV. Or buy groceries for myself.

But she wants to go do something? I have to go or Im the bad guy. Before the quarantine she would always go Why dont you want to go to Sephoras with me and Id always reply Why the fuck would I want to go be bored to death at Sephoras?!

XxKrebsxX posted...

Its not that. Its that when I need stuff, info and do it on my own. I dont go pestering her when for example I go and buy a TV. Or buy groceries for myself.

But she wants to go do something? I have to go or Im the bad guy. Before the quarantine she would always go Why dont you want to go to Sephoras with me and Id always reply Why the fuck would I want to go be bored to death at Sephoras?!

couples do shit together, it's part of being a couple

if you can't spare an hour to go to the store with her idk what you're even doing

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Austin_Era_II posted...

You complained about her earlier a few days ago. Dump her and move on. Otherwise you'll make more of these topix

It's easy to complain about a fictional person, especially when these events are fabricated. An illusion.


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Give her Superman 64

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Simps, all over the shop

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XxKrebsxX posted...

Its not that. Its that when I need stuff, I go and do it on my own. I dont go pestering her when for example I go and buy a TV. Or buy groceries for myself.

But she wants to go do something? I have to go or Im the bad guy. Before the quarantine she would always go Why dont you want to go to Sephoras with me and Id always reply Why the fuck would I want to go be bored to death at Sephoras?!

Ok, never mind. I retract my previous statement. I didn't think he would go full on troll post that quickly.

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Break up with her TC. She deserves someone who wants to spend time with her

Future_Trunks posted...

you sound like some sort of NEET fuck

Sounds like his girlfriend is one of those low self-esteem girls that gets used and abused by losers

You sound like a crappy boyfriend. And threatening homicide is serious shit, especially considering the rise of domestic violence.

Cleo_II posted...

You sound like a crappy boyfriend. And threatening homicide is serious shit, especially considering the rise of domestic violence.

Im not abusive. I just hate being dragged to do something shes capable of doing herself.

Im tired of her bitching and expecting me to pay for everything when Im already covering all of the rent and bills while were furloughed because she works a shit job and I dont.

Im tired that during this quarantine I cant get any peace for myself. If I move to the living room, she follows. If I move to the room, she follows. Fuck, I try playing FFVII Remake and she tries to yack in my ear the entire time.

Its like, go find a fucking hobby that doesnt include me.

Thats no way to talk to your grandfather

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XxKrebsxX posted...

Now shes also mad that I wont pay either.

What, is she wanting you to take her on a date to Publix?

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JustMyOpinion posted...

Although I will say he shouldn't be expected to pay for everything, assuming that is indeed what happened.

Cleo_II posted...

You sound like a crappy boyfriend. And threatening homicide is serious shit, especially considering the rise of domestic violence.

People need to stop ripping TC (I mean aside from the homicide comment), I completely understand where he's coming from. Being a healthy couple does not mean spending 100% of your time together. It is completely valid to want some degree of space and separation.

The girlfriend should understand that TC has zero interest in going to Sephora and he needs literally nothing at the grocery store.

What about marriage? When your mom or dad had to go to the store, did the other go with every single time? No, they didn't.

TC is getting bottled up and needs space. It's totally fine. In a relationship, both parties are satisfied. If TC needs space and isn't getting it, it needs to be communicated and discussed. The reverse holds true as well. If the GF wants someone who is around her 24/7, she needs to express that (which arguably she is).

Both parties need to agree that it's not a good fit and move on.

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PatrickMahomes posted...

People need to stop ripping TC, I completely understand where he's coming from. Being a healthy couple does not mean spending 100% of your time together. It is completely valid to want some degree of space and separation.

The girlfriend should understand that TC has zero interest in going to Sephora and he needs literally nothing at the grocery store.

What about marriage? When your mom or dad had to go to the store, did the other go with every single time? No, they didn't.

TC is getting bottled up and needs space. It's totally fine. In a relationship, both parties are satisfied. If TC needs space and isn't getting it, it needs to be communicated and discussed. The reverse holds true as well. If the GF wants someone who is around her 24/7, she needs to express that (which arguably she is).

Both parties need to agree that it's not a good fit and move on.

Someone that actually knows what they're talking about.

I miss my gf so much I want to kiss her so bad. Be happy you're with her TC.

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XxKrebsxX posted...

Cleo_II posted...

You sound like a crappy boyfriend. And threatening homicide is serious shit, especially considering the rise of domestic violence.

Im not abusive. I just hate being dragged to do something shes capable of doing herself.

Im tired of her bitching and expecting me to pay for everything when Im already covering all of the rent and bills while were furloughed because she works a shit job and I dont.

Im tired that during this quarantine I cant get any peace for myself. If I move to the living room, she follows. If I move to the room, she follows. Fuck, I try playing FFVII Remake and she tries to yack in my ear the entire time.

Its like, go find a fucking hobby that doesnt include me.

Have you talked about this stuff with her? I can understand why stuff like that would be annoying/weird. It's also a hard thing to talk about because she might feel that don't like her if you don't want to be around her like that.
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emblem boy posted...

Have you talked about this stuff with her? I can understand why stuff like that would be annoying/weird. It's also a hard thing to talk about because she might feel that don't like her if you don't want to be around her like that.

I mention along the lines she needs stuff that she can on her own and not be around me 24/7

PatrickMahomes posted...

People need to stop ripping TC (I mean aside from the homicide comment), I completely understand where he's coming from. Being a healthy couple does not mean spending 100% of your time together. It is completely valid to want some degree of space and separation.

The girlfriend should understand that TC has zero interest in going to Sephora and he needs literally nothing at the grocery store.

What about marriage? When your mom or dad had to go to the store, did the other go with every single time? No, they didn't.

TC is getting bottled up and needs space. It's totally fine. In a relationship, both parties are satisfied. If TC needs space and isn't getting it, it needs to be communicated and discussed. The reverse holds true as well. If the GF wants someone who is around her 24/7, she needs to express that (which arguably she is).

Both parties need to agree that it's not a good fit and move on.

It's an easy conversation to have and not worth getting this upset over is all. I've had this problem with my gf so I talked to her about it and we do more shit separately, problem solved

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XxKrebsxX posted...

emblem boy posted...

Have you talked about this stuff with her? I can understand why stuff like that would be annoying/weird. It's also a hard thing to talk about because she might feel that don't like her if you don't want to be around her like that.

I mention along the lines she needs stuff that she can on her own and not be around me 24/7

What does she say to that?
You could probably say it a bit more clearly, but it can be a touchy subject
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I love my girlfriend but I'm glad that we don't live together because I don't think I want to see her every single day. >_>

Like, sometimes I just want to pick up my guitar and play a bit, or game out or whatever. I don't want to be responsible for entertaining another grown ass person my every waking moment.

Wish I could meet a girl that had her own hobbies she could do on her own or didn't want to just passively sit around and watch movies or other boring shit. Why is that so much to ask for?

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XxKrebsxX posted...

I mention along the lines she needs stuff that she can on her own and not be around me 24/7

Have you told her that it's because you need space for yourself even from her? How much are you willing to spend time with her doing shit you don't wanna do? I mean if it's a chore to go to Publix with her once in a while even if you have plenty of game time then maybe she's not the only problem

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