Current Events > I just gave a stranger off a dating app $20 (also with a fun poll)

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 5:01:41 AM
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How will this pan out






She's legitimately lonely and doesn't have anything to eat. She didn't come at me begging for money or even asking. She accepted my disability from the beginning. She spoke to me for hours and I basically felt comfortable doing something nice for her. Obviously, I won't make it a daily thing or something unless we become closer.

But I'm beginning to wonder if there is such a thing as being too nice to people. I don't really care if goes anywhere serious with this person, although I would like it to. Sometimes at the end of the day it's just nice to help out the less fortunate. I feel good about myself and like I'm making choices with my money that make a difference towards the less fortunate. Yet there's also a part of me that wonders if I should have at least waited a week before doing something nice like that. I have a heightened sense of empathy and it gets the best of me a lot


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WaterLink
05/21/20 5:04:59 AM
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If you listed your bank account being hacked, I gotta ask in what method did you pay this person $20 and how you two met/contact each other. Because if you've just been passing messages on some app back and forth with no real world contact then she's 90% likely just playing you dude.
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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 5:05:44 AM
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WaterLink posted...
If you listed your bank account being hacked, I gotta ask in what method did you pay this person $20 and how you two met/contact each other. Because if you've just been passing messages on some app back and forth with no real world contact then she's 90% likely just playing you dude.

That was mostly just a joke option. I used Google wallet because my PayPal doesn't work

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The Trent
05/21/20 5:06:01 AM
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milked like a cow

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 10:31:11 PM
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I did not think this topic when immediately die

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LethalAffinity
05/21/20 10:32:08 PM
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WarfireX
05/21/20 10:32:51 PM
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You're a pathetic person, TC. So lonely you'll knowingly pay con artists to have superficial conversations with you, then try to find people on CE to talk to you about it. Get your shit together.

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 10:38:49 PM
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I actually want some female opinions on this

@SableWolfAngel
@Harpie

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WarfireX
05/21/20 10:39:35 PM
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Dude, if they actually tell you the truth about what they think about you, you are only going to feel worse. Seriously, this topic is the most pitiful thing I've seen anyone post in weeks.

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EnragedSlith
05/21/20 10:40:17 PM
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You gave a stranger $20, youre not some guardian angel. You sound like every sad sack that would hand some of the waitresses I worked with free money because theyd hit them up with a sob story. Its not endearing or noble, its a pathetic attempt to exert some modicum of power over a girl because it makes your dick hard.

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 10:45:52 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
You gave a stranger $20, youre not some guardian angel. You sound like every sad sack that would hand some of the waitresses I worked with free money because theyd hit them up with a sob story. Its not endearing or noble, its a pathetic attempt to exert some modicum of power over a girl because it makes your dick hard.

This is awfully specific and most likely projection. I use disability transit and pay the guys extra tips too

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WarfireX
05/21/20 10:49:48 PM
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Even more pathetic is that you using this topic to beg Harpie to talk to you.

What happened to the girl you paid to talk with you?

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Alteres
05/21/20 10:52:53 PM
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Wow, these posters are great.

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 10:53:55 PM
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WarfireX posted...
Even more pathetic is that you using this topic to beg Harpie to talk to you.

What happened to the girl you paid to talk with you?

Where did I beg her to talk to me? I don't care if she message me or not. It was an observation that I thought could be useful to her self-esteem and not having to settle for toxic bigots even if it is a one off fuck

Anyway, I'm still casually talking to that girl. She hasn't asked me for any more money.

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EnragedSlith
05/21/20 10:59:46 PM
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WallStreetWolf posted...
This is awfully specific and most likely projection. I use disability transit and pay the guys extra tips too

Its specific because Ive seen it a hundred times and youre awfully transparent. Between this weird topic and you DMing advice to female users, Im hoping youll get a clue.

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:00:39 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
Its specific because Ive seen it a hundred times and youre awfully transparent. Between this weird topic and you DMing advice to female users, Im hoping youll get a clue.

When did I message anyone advice?

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Guerrilla Soldier
05/21/20 11:01:01 PM
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poll results right now are legit accurate to what i think the odds are for each one

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Jiek_Fafn
05/21/20 11:01:12 PM
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It's your money. If you want to give it away to an acquaintance, then go for it. It's $20. You'll recover.

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:02:00 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
It's your money. If you want to give it away to an acquaintance, then go for it. It's $20. You'll recover.

Exactly. It's not like I turned over my life savings

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EnragedSlith
05/21/20 11:07:29 PM
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WallStreetWolf posted...
When did I message anyone advice?

WallStreetWolf posted...
Where did I beg her to talk to me? I don't care if she message me or not. It was an observation that I thought could be useful to her self-esteem and not having to settle for toxic bigots even if it is a one off fuck

This is aberrant behavior and makes everyone uncomfortable.


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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:08:41 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
This is aberrant behavior and makes everyone uncomfortable.

I'm not sure you know what that word means. I said my original post was supportive and not fishing for messages. If I want to privately message someone I have enough confidence to shoot my shot myself

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Harpie
05/21/20 11:23:50 PM
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If she didnt ask for it I dont see the issue. And even if she did, I think youre smart enough to know when youre being pandered to or not

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:24:50 PM
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Harpie posted...
If she didnt ask for it I dont see the issue. And even if she did, I think youre smart enough to know when youre being pandered to or not

This is why I wanted a female's perspective. I'm not dumb. I can tell the difference between someone begging for money and someone that's just genuinely talking about not being able to eat.

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LightningAce11
05/21/20 11:25:19 PM
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Does pignosis ever truly wear off?

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au_gold
05/21/20 11:26:09 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Simp

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:27:08 PM
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LightningAce11 posted...
Does pignosis ever truly wear off?

I didn't give the money to DSP

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:27:54 PM
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BlueMage279 posted...
TC, would you have done this for a guy who told you he didnt have money for food too?

As I've already said, I am comfortable overtipping disability transit drivers that happen to be guys. It was more about doing something nice

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DontHateMe
05/21/20 11:33:05 PM
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Hey, OP. Coronavirus sucks, im
having a hard time. Can you send me $20?

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:35:00 PM
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DontHateMe posted...
Hey, OP. Coronavirus sucks, im
having a hard time. Can you send me $20?

If you read the actual post you will see that this is not the way it went down

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DontHateMe
05/21/20 11:40:25 PM
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WallStreetWolf posted...
If you read the actual post you will see that this is not the way it went down

I read it, its just hard to imagine being such a....idk what nice way to say it. Its pathetic. Youre obviously lonely and the fact that your poll options shows eternal love or one time thing shows that you actually believe in those options for giving a girl...$20...over the internet. Is this for real? Or you just wanted to create a story to have people laugh at?

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CosmicShadows
05/21/20 11:44:10 PM
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DontHateMe posted...


I read it, its just hard to imagine being such a....idk what nice way to say it. Its pathetic. Youre obviously lonely and the fact that your poll options shows eternal love or one time thing shows that you actually believe in those options for giving a girl...$20...over the internet. Is this for real? Or you just wanted to create a story to have people laugh at?


This guy here.
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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:52:52 PM
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BlueMage279 posted...
I mean in the same situation. Youre chatting with a guy online and he tells you he doesnt have money for food. Would you send him money?

I wouldn't be messaging guys on dating sites, but I have given male friends money before

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:53:29 PM
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DontHateMe posted...
I read it, its just hard to imagine being such a....idk what nice way to say it. Its pathetic. Youre obviously lonely and the fact that your poll options shows eternal love or one time thing shows that you actually believe in those options for giving a girl...$20...over the internet. Is this for real? Or you just wanted to create a story to have people laugh at?

The poll was obviously for comedic purposes and to give this board some fun

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WallStreetWolf
05/21/20 11:56:20 PM
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BlueMage279 posted...
it doesnt have to be a dating site. Any platform. Well?

I literally just said I have. The platform is Facebook

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WallStreetWolf
05/22/20 12:00:20 AM
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BlueMage279 posted...
no you literally didnt. You said male friends. Were talking about strangers. This random girl wasnt a friend

I can't really imagine a situation that sees me privately conversing with stranger guys on the Internet. If I happened to make a friend here in need I guess I would consider it

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WallStreetWolf
05/22/20 12:05:19 AM
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BlueMage279 posted...
okay... so then the answer is no. Welp theres your answer I suppose.

You have a funny definition of no. And you really like moving the goal posts. I already gave you a scenario where I get extra money to random guys. Also the person I gave money to once on Facebook, I barely knew him

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Evening_Dragon
05/22/20 12:15:53 AM
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So many people here are so pants-shittingly afraid of being taken advantage of, as if 20$ is the end of the world. But of course it's not really about the money; plain-ass projection of insecurity.

If you got tricked, you got tricked out of 20$, big fucking deal. Doing good with 20$ is worth more than the 20$ itself.

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WallStreetWolf
05/22/20 12:18:03 AM
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Yeah, I was going to make this topic even if I did get tricked. I just felt like helping someone out and was curious where things would go. There's nothing really interesting to report, still just casual conversation

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SpaceBear_
05/22/20 12:41:05 AM
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Idek

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PumptheBrakes
05/22/20 12:47:01 AM
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Money won't help her loneliness, and if she needed something to eat then give her food or take her grocery shopping.

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