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ZannoL
06/08/20 10:30:27 PM
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Zikten
06/08/20 10:32:12 PM
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yep. I don't care what they do and they can't get pregnant. no real problems.
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Wii_Shaker
06/08/20 10:32:43 PM
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Yeah, if I had a son.

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inloveanddeath0
06/08/20 10:33:06 PM
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Awards
06/08/20 10:34:23 PM
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Why wouldnt I allow it?
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ZannoL
06/08/20 10:36:48 PM
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Zikten posted...
yep. I don't care what they do and they can't get pregnant. no real problems.

Wii_Shaker posted...
Yeah, if I had a son.

Awards posted...
Why wouldnt I allow it?



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Lairen
06/08/20 10:38:08 PM
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Im quite aware this will destroy our relationship and or ill be seen as an awesome dad if i allow it.

It must be.

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Master_Bass
06/08/20 10:38:44 PM
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I don't think I get to choose that. Even if I said no, which I wouldn't, he'd probably just do it behind my back anyway. I have no interest in having any kid under lock and key.

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Mistere Man
06/08/20 10:40:35 PM
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No, but only because my son will be sealed in a cave for 30 years.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAyiknD1tLU

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ZannoL
06/08/20 10:42:44 PM
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Master_Bass posted...
I don't think I get to choose that. Even if I said no, which I wouldn't, he'd probably just do it behind my back anyway. I have no interest in having any kid under lock and key.
Truth.

Mistere Man posted...
No, but only because my son will be sealed in a cave for 30 years.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAyiknD1tLU

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RIPVyseCity
06/08/20 10:44:27 PM
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I would have no son at that point. Lol I kid
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ZannoL
06/08/20 10:47:40 PM
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RIPVyseCity posted...
Lol I kid
Good.
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Kajagogo
06/08/20 10:58:26 PM
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Of course!

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Mistere Man
06/08/20 10:59:42 PM
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My response was clearly joking as well.

My actual answer would depend on things like the age of my son, and the boyfriend. I have no problem with my hypothetical teen son dating, but if my son is only just 13 and wanting to date a 17+ that is asking them out that would have some major objections from me, and may be time to call the police depending on how +17 they are.

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KogaSteelfang
06/08/20 11:00:18 PM
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Sure, let him figure things out for himself. If it makes him happy, and he's safe about, I'm good.

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ZannoL
06/09/20 12:57:15 AM
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Bump
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coh
06/09/20 12:58:02 AM
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Should have made it a poll
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TreyFlowers
06/09/20 12:58:02 AM
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Sure thing.

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Joker98
06/09/20 12:59:23 AM
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Yes

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Tenlaar
06/09/20 1:02:25 AM
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Mistere Man posted...
My response was clearly joking as well.

My actual answer would depend on things like the age of my son, and the boyfriend. I have no problem with my hypothetical teen son dating, but if my son is only just 13 and wanting to date a 17+ that is asking them out that would have some major objections from me, and may be time to call the police depending on how +17 they are.
Why would you bring an adult trying to date a 13 year old into this, other than propagating the extremely harmful old "sexual deviants and pedophiles" stereotypes about gay people?
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Dark_SilverX
06/09/20 1:05:50 AM
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he can have one in the streets

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Mistere Man
06/09/20 4:31:35 AM
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Tenlaar posted...
Why would you bring an adult trying to date a 13 year old into this, other than propagating the extremely harmful old "sexual deviants and pedophiles" stereotypes about gay people?
First off sexual predators arent limited to being gay they can be and target either sex. I know this well as I was once ones victim. Maybe this is why I listed it as I wouldnt want my child no matter their gender or sexual preferences to become the target of something like that as I was.

I should also say it doesnt have to be an adult if a 16 year old wanted to date my just 13 son or daughter I would have issues and tell them to wait until they are a bit older. I mean a 21 dating a 24 is fine, but at 13, and 16 it bothers me personally.

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Tenlaar
06/09/20 5:24:40 AM
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Mistere Man posted...
First off sexual predators arent limited to being gay they can be and target either sex. I know this well as I was once ones victim. Maybe this is why I listed it as I wouldnt want my child no matter their gender or sexual preferences to become the target of something like that as I was.

I should also say it doesnt have to be an adult if a 16 year old wanted to date my just 13 son or daughter I would have issues and tell them to wait until they are a bit older. I mean a 21 dating a 24 is fine, but at 13, and 16 it bothers me personally.
The point is that the question wasn't "would you let your son date a sexual predator" but you answered as if it was.
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pogo_rabid
06/09/20 5:32:13 AM
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I'm going to raise my son the way god intended

He's going to be a closeted, self hating republican politician who spearheads anti gay legislation.

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MrFingers07
06/09/20 5:38:50 AM
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I just hope that by the time they're dating that people are even more accepting of it and won't bully them for it tbh.

If I have kids and my child turn out to be gay then that's my biggest fear, that others would bully them all throughout their childhood and would cause them to hate themselves for it.
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Jefejonny
06/09/20 5:55:21 AM
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No
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Lord_Wombat
06/09/20 5:55:43 AM
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It isn't my butthole that's in jeopardy, why would I care in the least?

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winged_weltall
06/09/20 5:59:23 AM
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I've got 2 daughters who are both younger than 2 years so luckily I don't have to think about that for a long time. However if in the future either came home with a girl who they were more than friends with, I'd be cool with it as long as they're happy.
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Mistere Man
06/09/20 9:22:25 AM
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Tenlaar posted...
The point is that the question wasn't "would you let your son date a sexual predator" but you answered as if it was.
The question is would I allow my teenage (13-19) son have a boyfriend (not teen boyfriend just boyfriend which can be any age) to which I answered it depends on the ages of my son and the boyfriend. I just mentioned adults as it can and does happen and if it did it I would most likely not approve, and may possibly make a call to the police most likely again depending on the ages as at 18 I would have little say if they wanted to date someone who was 99 as they are an adult legally by that point. Remember this kind of thing can work in reverse as my son could be the older teen. I am just trying to give my best answer as imo this isnt a yes or no question as there are variables to consider. So again my answer is most likely yes depending on the ages of those involved.

If I am over analyzing so be it.

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Turbam
06/09/20 9:22:44 AM
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As long as he treats him right

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EffectAndCause
06/09/20 9:26:00 AM
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Sure as long as hes wholesome and not badly influencing.
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ZannoL
06/09/20 11:56:03 AM
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Turbam posted...
As long as he treats him right


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Jefejonny
06/09/20 11:08:11 PM
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T is my life partner
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