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IfGodCouldDie
07/04/20 11:36:51 PM
#51:


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it shouldn't even be an option to begin with. tf?

how are you a doctor and you have no earthly clue how that would fuck up the child? i hope you weren't making that shit up like danharen was
How exactly does the way a child is conceived make any difference on how they are raised?

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InfinityMonster
07/04/20 11:36:55 PM
#52:


I'm surprised people still believe TC's fake ass stories.

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BignutzisBack
07/04/20 11:37:11 PM
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Vyrulisse
07/04/20 11:37:54 PM
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Seems kinda weird but make sure you're ready, both of you. Because once you actually open up the open relationship things can get real messy, real fast.

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IfGodCouldDie
07/04/20 11:38:46 PM
#55:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
"You're wrong, because there is no way to know if youre right or wrong." Hehehe

But no, really, theres not a single open relationship that has EVER worked out well. You can do the research if you want to, its never happened.
I'm not interested in arguing with someone that doesn't know what they are talking about. I'm perfectly fine with you living a life of ignorance based on a subject you clearly know nothing about.

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pfh1001
07/04/20 11:41:18 PM
#57:


Axiom posted...
This is going to end so badly


Agreed. If you're going to carry a child, then you should get to pick the father, not your wife. That's a huge red flag.

NES4EVER posted...
There's also the legal implications this could have if not done through proper channels (custody rights, possible child support, etc).


Very much this too-- not only would there be issues with the father's rights, but what happens when you & this chick get divorced? Because there's a decent chance that will happen.

Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
Open relationships should never ever EVER involve children.


I pretty much agree with this too. I've run into a bunch of 'open relationships' over the years & they have all failed.
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Jerry_Hellyeah
07/04/20 11:43:18 PM
#58:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
I'm not interested in arguing with someone that doesn't know what they are talking about. I'm perfectly fine with you living a life of ignorance based on a subject you clearly know nothing about.

Are you responding for the second time about a topic you know a lot less about and refuse to learn anything about while also stating that you are right because its impossible to know the answer, so youve gotta be right?

All you'd have to do is find one. There have probably been millions of open relationships. You can't find one decent outcome. Hmmmm....hmm......

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The_Scarecrow
07/04/20 11:44:16 PM
#59:


InfinityMonster posted...
I'm surprised people still believe TC's fake ass stories.

I'm more inclined to believe that TC is a larper after this topic. There's no way in fuck someone of her title would even consider this and I say this as someone studying to be in her supposed position.

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LostForest
07/04/20 11:46:01 PM
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Am I the only that thought coffeebeanz/darkroast was a chick for some reason?

Edit: Oops. I didn't read OP. My bad.

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IfGodCouldDie
07/04/20 11:46:51 PM
#63:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
Are you responding for the second time about a topic you know a lot less about and refuse to learn anything about while also stating that you are right because its impossible to know the answer, so youve gotta be right?

All you'd have to do is find one. There have probably been millions of open relationships. You can't find one decent outcome. Hmmmm....hmm......


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LostForest
07/04/20 11:48:00 PM
#64:


Future_Trunks posted...
that is what she says she is

Oh, I didn't read OP.

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Jerry_Hellyeah
07/04/20 11:48:20 PM
#65:


IfGodCouldDie posted...

K, so if thats a yes.....why? Are you getting cucked as we speak and just trying to come to terms with it or what?

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KamenRiderBlade
07/04/20 11:50:23 PM
#66:


It seems kinda weird that she doesn't want to be pregnant at the same time as you are?

Even if she goes via "Artificial Insemination' while you go the natural route?

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IfGodCouldDie
07/04/20 11:50:39 PM
#67:


Conflict posted...
what TC is planning on doing is very obviously going to have negative psychological effects on the child

while on the contrary, a kid that's adopted will at least potentially be happy to be taken in to a proper home
Ok but you didnt answer the question, I asked you how method of conception negatively effects a child's development past birth. A loving home, being taken care of and proper education are all way more relevant than how you were conceived in terms of growing up.

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KamenRiderBlade
07/04/20 11:52:07 PM
#68:


DarkRoast posted...
So I'm the one getting pregnant. Yikes. But the kicker is that she wants to pick a guy she trusts and loves as a friend, and wants him to be black because she's from Ethiopia and she wants a child that looks like her even if the child isn't genetically related. Ok I can do that too.

But I told her I specifically need to get to know the guy and at least have somewhat intimate feelings for him or it won't "feel" right to me (in other words, I want to actually have sex and not artificial insemination), and she was a bit put off about it but agreed to it.

So um, yeah that's a thing.

Don't you want her to get pregnant and have children that look like you?

Half Chinese / Half White + 100% Ethiopean?

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BignutzisBack
07/04/20 11:52:38 PM
#69:


TC's wife is after her money there's no mistaking it, this is all part of her diabolical plan.

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IfGodCouldDie
07/04/20 11:52:45 PM
#70:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
K, so if thats a yes.....why? Are you getting cucked as we speak and just trying to come to terms with it or what?
Maybe I am, I'm not sure how my relationship is relevant to this discussion. You come across as a very insecure individual and I hope one day you can find peace in yourself and love from others.

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yunalenne10
07/04/20 11:53:58 PM
#72:


@DarkRoast So, the gist now is that all 3 parties agreed, right? Moving on. Have you ever met any of your wife's friends?

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KamenRiderBlade
07/04/20 11:54:52 PM
#73:


Future_Trunks posted...
she is supposedly native American
The Caucasian side is only 1/128th Indigenous American which = 0.78125% which is < 1%

She's 50% Caucasian of various mix, and 50% Chinese.

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DarkRoast
07/04/20 11:55:13 PM
#74:


Meh I agree with you guys. Probably not worth the risk imo.

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Jerry_Hellyeah
07/04/20 11:56:20 PM
#75:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
Maybe I am, I'm not sure how my relationship is relevant to this discussion. You come across as a very insecure individual and I hope one day you can find peace in yourself and love from others.

Whoa now, lets not project here. And did you ask me what your relationship has to do with a potential bias in a relationship based conversation? Youre stumbling here.

All I said was that theres never been an open relationship that worked out well. If you say you have no way of disproving it but Im wrong, then Id have to just assume you yourself are in a happy little open thing sharing other peoples juices. Otherwise, why get passive aggressive with me?

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DoctorVader
07/04/20 11:56:25 PM
#76:


https://imgur.com/blHgl96

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KamenRiderBlade
07/04/20 11:56:32 PM
#77:


DarkRoast posted...
Meh I agree with you guys. Probably not worth the risk imo.
The way I feel, if you're going to get pregnant, she needs to at the same time, even experience.

Don't you have a brother that you can borrow his DNA to help artificially inseminate your wife?

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PatrickMahomes
07/04/20 11:56:57 PM
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Cleo_II
07/04/20 11:57:03 PM
#80:


Nothing against open relationships. People here can be very close minded.

But I wouldnt suggest that route for pregnancy. Mostly because of the possible legal consequences. What if he decided to sue for custody? Better option would be IVF with donor sperm and see if you can request an Ethiopian donor
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KamenRiderBlade
07/04/20 11:58:15 PM
#81:


Cleo_II posted...
But I wouldnt suggest that route for pregnancy. Mostly because of the possible legal consequences. What if he decided to sue for custody? Better option would be IVF with donor sperm and see if you can request an Ethiopian donor
Can't you sign a contract for that?

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IfGodCouldDie
07/05/20 12:09:05 AM
#83:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
Whoa now, lets not project here. And did you ask me what your relationship has to do with a potential bias in a relationship based conversation? Youre stumbling here.

All I said was that theres never been an open relationship that worked out well. If you say you have no way of disproving it but Im wrong, then Id have to just assume you yourself are in a happy little open thing sharing other peoples juices. Otherwise, why get passive aggressive with me?
My hypothetical relationship is completely irrelevant to this discussion because my hypothetical relationship is completely separate of every other relationship in the world. Different people have different desires, different relationships work for different people. I'm not sure how that is such a foreign concept to you.

I know of two couples in open relationships that have been together for years and they are some of the strongest relationships I know of. The fact that this is anecdotal evidence is enough to me to know that you're wrong. You can take from this what you will as your opinion on the matter is completely irrelevant to me.

I'm not sure where you are getting that I am projecting or being passive aggressive. I just call behaviours as I see them.

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Rika_Furude
07/05/20 12:12:33 AM
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KamenRiderBlade
07/05/20 12:13:04 AM
#85:


Rika_Furude posted...
Im just happy TC has a wife, ill never have one...
Y not?

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Jerry_Hellyeah
07/05/20 12:18:25 AM
#86:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
I'm not sure where you are getting that I am projecting or being passive aggressive. I just call behaviours as I see them.

Yeah?

IfGodCouldDie posted...
I'm not interested in arguing with someone that doesn't know what they are talking about. I'm perfectly fine with you living a life of ignorance based on a subject you clearly know nothing about.

IfGodCouldDie posted...

IfGodCouldDie posted...
You come across as a very insecure individual and I hope one day you can find peace in yourself and love from others.

Yeah, real genuine.

Im gonna have to request a non-made-up example on this one though. You dragged you feet wayyy to much in those first posts for your anecdotal case thats popping up now to be any kind of real. Heck, look at the fact that you had to BS like that, and think about what it means about the subject, not you personally.

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IfGodCouldDie
07/05/20 12:21:54 AM
#87:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
Yeah?

Yeah, real genuine.

Im gonna have to request a non-made-up example on this one though. You dragged you feet wayyy to much in those first posts for your anecdotal case thats popping up now to be any kind of real. Heck, look at the fact that you had to BS like that, and think about what it means about the subject, not you personally.


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Jerry_Hellyeah
07/05/20 12:30:48 AM
#88:


Rika_Furude posted...
Im just happy TC has a wife, ill never have one...

I am also glad that I dont have a wife, ill never have one, etc.

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KamenRiderBlade
07/05/20 12:36:21 AM
#89:


DarkRoast posted...
In any case, Terry Crews can have me any time
Isn't he kinda getting old? He's 51 y/o now.

Don't you want younger sperm?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_E_(wrestler)

Wouldn't he be more your type? Big-E is 34 y/o and he's built like Hercules!

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dj1200
07/05/20 12:39:21 AM
#91:


I VOLUNTEER

im a black guy.

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KamenRiderBlade
07/05/20 12:41:09 AM
#92:


dj1200 posted...
I VOLUNTEER

im a black guy.
But are you as built as Big-E or Terry Crews (In his Prime)?

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Rika_Furude
07/05/20 12:42:09 AM
#93:


KamenRiderBlade posted...
Y not?
im an uggo shut-in with no social skills and i only go outside for work

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marthsheretoo
07/05/20 12:45:09 AM
#94:


Jerry_Hellyeah posted...
Yeah?

Yeah, real genuine.

Im gonna have to request a non-made-up example on this one though. You dragged you feet wayyy to much in those first posts for your anecdotal case thats popping up now to be any kind of real. Heck, look at the fact that you had to BS like that, and think about what it means about the subject, not you personally.

I also know a bunch of people in strong open relationships, fwiw. It's a lot more common where I live.

If you honestly think it's never worked out, I question how much research you've actually done.

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