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IllegalAlien 01/12/21 5:42:11 PM #203: |
don't have the time to read 5 pages of posts, but that's fucked up man.
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PsychicHippo 01/12/21 5:47:22 PM #204: |
Yeah it was maybe a little informal for someone you don't know well, but you're really overreacting. Just roll your eyes and move on.
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Simp 01/12/21 5:48:26 PM #205: |
I just wanted to post in this topic because it looks like everybody else is. Hi, anyone reading, I hope you're having a wonderful day!
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BaphometFlux 01/12/21 5:53:34 PM #206: |
Harpie posted...
These comparisons some cemen are bringing up just arent relevant. A man being called sweety or dear by an older woman is very different that being called those same names by a man as a woman. lol --- "Shisaanputa" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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im not 13 01/12/21 5:55:08 PM #207: |
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DrizztLink 01/12/21 5:56:04 PM #208: |
ModLogic posted...
wowDon't try to think too hard, you'll hurt yourself. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Joker98 01/12/21 5:57:28 PM #209: |
You should ignore his request and if he ever follows up be like, "Oh, sorry, I didn't end up having enough time to do that. By the way, I don't really like when people call me "dear" in a work setting, thanks"
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DrizztLink 01/12/21 6:00:10 PM #211: |
CalypsoDoom posted...
Yeah I don't do disrespect. From anyone at any time. I didn't take it from patients, their families, doctors, or other nurses. If I have to be stuck around you 12 hours a day we're gonna have to figure it out or take it to the parking lot.Nah, fight in the ICU. More toys. I wanna see someone get defibrillated mid-battle. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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im not 13 01/12/21 6:02:03 PM #212: |
Harpie posted...
These comparisons some cemen are bringing up just arent relevant. A man being called sweety or dear by an older woman is very different that being called those same names by a man as a woman. "Dear" is the new N word... --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nothanks1 01/12/21 6:03:17 PM #213: |
Like, imagine you're a woman, with 30 fucking years teaching and the head of a department with 200+ students and a bitchy ass parent refers to you as "that very nice girl"
like it's just disrespectful --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CyricZ 01/12/21 6:04:07 PM #215: |
im not 13 posted...
"Dear" is the new N word...Vice versa. --- CyricZ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 01/12/21 6:04:31 PM #216: |
I just say ma'am or their name.
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CyricZ 01/12/21 6:05:12 PM #217: |
CalypsoDoom posted...
the ones we had were so heavy you could probably knock someone out with them anywaysDude I would pay to see that in like a movie or something. What a subversion. Grab the paddles and just smack someone with them without a charge. EDIT: Wait no. I got it! The two dudes fight and one of them goes to the paddles and charges them up. While it's charging, the other guy gets scissors or something and cuts the line and is like "ha ha" and the first guy just decks him with the heavy paddles and KO. --- CyricZ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nothanks1 01/12/21 6:05:40 PM #218: |
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im not 13 01/12/21 6:09:42 PM #220: |
CalypsoDoom posted...
You aren't being persecuted by being expected to be respectful of others. Full stop. I'm very respectful. Worked in an office setting for 8 years and have had no complaints and get along with everyone But to suggest an older woman can say things and older man can't is beyond nonsense --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ModLogic 01/12/21 6:13:43 PM #222: |
DrizztLink posted...
Don't try to think too hard, you'll hurt yourself.how do you get your armor so shiny? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 01/12/21 6:14:13 PM #223: |
CalypsoDoom posted...
That would require a lot of maneuvering because you have to hook defib pads to the person and connect to the defibrillator device and frankly the ones we had were so heavy you could probably knock someone out with them anywaysHow dare you bring your logic into my action movie existence. Next you'll tell me that Schwarzenegger can't shoot down a helicopter with a missile that has a guy hanging off of it. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 01/12/21 6:16:15 PM #226: |
ModLogic posted...
how do you get your armor so shiny?I clean it. Basic hygiene is confusing for you, I know. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ModLogic 01/12/21 6:20:01 PM #227: |
DrizztLink posted...
I clean it.i know you're trying really hard to impress your e-princess. but shiny doesn't mean clean. you'd probably know that if you actually knew about hygiene. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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One_Day_Remains 01/12/21 6:21:00 PM #228: |
Harpie posted...
These comparisons some cemen are bringing up just arent relevant. A man being called sweety or dear by an older woman is very different that being called those same names by a man as a woman. Why is it different? Seems like they're both pretty weird to me. --- Ten sounds sound like bloated constipated arena rock - GhettoFlip ... Copied to Clipboard!
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im not 13 01/12/21 6:21:05 PM #229: |
CalypsoDoom posted...
I disagree with calling anyone pet names in a professional setting, regardless of gender.Its about context If that's what acceptable in a workplace no matter how professional then fine But calling someone dear isn't a pet name. It's near enough harmless. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 01/12/21 6:21:30 PM #230: |
Harpie posted...
These comparisons some cemen are bringing up just arent relevant. A man being called sweety or dear by an older woman is very different that being called those same names by a man as a woman.This dude is my age lmao. And same role and level as me but trying to act like my superior. But somehow thats the same as some granny down the street that calls everyone dear in the south and I shouldnt get mad. Yeah, ok lol ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sheiky-Baby 01/12/21 6:23:58 PM #232: |
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WizardPowers 01/12/21 6:31:59 PM #234: |
Out of curiousity do most of you think saying "Dear, x" in letters is also weird?
I've never seen so many people with this weird take Def not in the same category as pet names or "bro/dude" --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 01/12/21 6:33:51 PM #235: |
WizardPowers posted...
Out of curiousity do most of you think saying "Dear, x" in letters is also weird?A more appropriate comparison would be starting a letter with "My Dearest x." And yes, that would be weird as fuck and completely inappropriate for work communications or with somebody you aren't already quite familiar with. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WizardPowers 01/12/21 6:34:55 PM #236: |
Tenlaar posted...
A more appropriate comparison would be starting a letter with "My Dearest x." And yes, that would be weird as fuck and completely inappropriate for work communications or with somebody you aren't already quite familiar with. Dear and my dear arent that different The difference is just semantics --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 01/12/21 6:35:46 PM #237: |
WizardPowers posted...
Dear and my dear arent that differentThe difference isn't semantic, it's possessive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nothanks1 01/12/21 6:35:58 PM #238: |
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Irony 01/12/21 6:36:27 PM #239: |
Quite frankly my dear I don't give a Van Damme
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WizardPowers 01/12/21 6:39:09 PM #240: |
Tenlaar posted...
The difference isn't semantic, it's possessive. So if he had just said "here you go dear" you think that would be a lot different? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ivany2008 01/12/21 6:39:48 PM #241: |
Where I come from, and this is just my area, its not meant as a form of closeness from a loved one. It's more or less a greeting. For example "My dear, I don't know what your talking about, but you've lost your mind.", or "My Dear, you can't beat that with a frozen rabbit". Or "How are you doing today, my dear?". No one uses it to talk to talk about loved ones.
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harley2280 01/12/21 6:41:17 PM #242: |
The people who are saying it's perfectly fine probably think that that if a girl doesn't verbally say no to sex than it's not rape. Because they're using the same logic here.
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Tenlaar 01/12/21 6:41:29 PM #243: |
WizardPowers posted...
So if he had just said "here you go dear" you think that would be a lot different?"Dear X" in a letter heading does not have the same connotation of a personal connection as calling somebody dear in the way that it was used with the TC. You're free to pretend that this is beyond your ability to comprehend but it's not going to make you look good. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarrieChan 01/12/21 6:45:37 PM #244: |
nothanks1 posted...
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Cleo_II 01/12/21 6:47:04 PM #245: |
Conflict posted...
My point was that it's weird in general no matter who says it. And it's not just old women saying that tooI dont disagree with that. I dont like terms of endearment from anyone Im not already in good terms with. Especially in a professional setting. Ive had random older men and women refer me as dear etc., out in the world. I dont like it but I dont make a big deal out of it. But if its in a professional setting and used in a patronizing way, its obviously completely different and its amazing to me that I have to explain that to some people here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WizardPowers 01/12/21 6:47:48 PM #246: |
Tenlaar posted...
"Dear X" in a letter heading does not have the same connotation of a personal connection as calling somebody dear in the way that it was used with the TC. You're free to pretend that this is beyond your ability to comprehend but it's not going to make you look good. I asked you if "Here you go dear" And "here you go my dear" Are a lot different to you. Do you think that? And the majority of the world would have no issues being called dear in a friendly inoffensive way. Who would I look bad to? You have the niche take here not me lol --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 01/12/21 6:48:15 PM #247: |
Cleo_II posted...
This dude is my age lmao. And same role and level as me but trying to act like my superior. But somehow thats the same as some granny down the street that calls everyone dear in the south and I shouldnt get mad. Yeah, ok lolIn all fairness, between the topic title and the opening post, you really didn't explain any of that. You were fuming about the fact that he ended his message with "my dear" and fuck him and guys like him. It wasn't until your 3rd, or 4th reply that you explained that he's your peer, trying to you give you orders and that the "my dear" sounded condescending with that context. --- PSN - NoxObscuras i7-7700K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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XxKrebsxX 01/12/21 6:48:37 PM #248: |
Jesus, you sound like a bitch to work with.
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WizardPowers 01/12/21 6:51:44 PM #249: |
XxKrebsxX posted...
Jesus, you sound like a bitch to work with. This is weird. The OP was not --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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harley2280 01/12/21 6:53:40 PM #250: |
XxKrebsxX posted...
Jesus, you sound like a bitch to work with. I can guarantee they talk about how creepy and off putting they find you when you're not around. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.6.0_B3 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 01/12/21 6:56:39 PM #251: |
Ahh yes the old, If you dont put up with shitty sexist behavior then youre just an uptight bitch line. Was wondering when Id see that.
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RedJackson 01/12/21 6:58:01 PM #252: |
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