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AzNDarkSamurai
01/16/21 3:56:39 AM
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LOL my mother in law thinks im never gonna have money because I dont know how to be a stingy cheap ass like she is

She wants to shove financial advice down my throat and tell me what to do on how to manage money but.... I called her out and put her on the spot and questioned her credibility.

I told her to prove she even has any money and to show me her bank account if she wants me to buy into her advice and she refused because its none of my business.... lmao!

Yup.... I think shes a fraud and shes talking out of her ass with her advice.

She says I should be a normal person and listen to her advice but im sorry.... I cant buy into people who arent proven and cant prove their legitimacy

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IfGodCouldDie
01/16/21 3:59:48 AM
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Nah, if someone is being a dick about their advice and can't/won't back it up then their is no reason to take them on their word.

Now that doesn't mean their advice isn't sound. Like I know everything i should be doing to get in a better place financially but I really really suck at delaying gratification and don't have the strongest of wills when it comes to spending money so it is hard for me. I could give the advice but I don't necessarily follow it all the time. The wife and I have been getting better but neither of us grew up with anyone teaching us these things, so we are doing our best to teach our kids as they grow up so they aren't in the same positions we are.

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MedeaLysistrata
01/16/21 4:00:00 AM
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People or just your MIL?

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AzNDarkSamurai
01/16/21 4:02:35 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
People or just your MIL?

It can be both

Honestly if anyone gives me unsolicited advice or unsolicited criticism that I never asked for and I dont agree with what that person says, at least be ready to back up your claims if I call you out

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MedeaLysistrata
01/16/21 4:07:14 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
It can be both

Honestly if anyone gives me unsolicited advice or unsolicited criticism that I never asked for and I dont agree with what that person says, at least be ready to back up your claims if I call you out
Sure... That seems normal, to be a bit critical. But technically people reassuring you that you are normal is also advice, so are you gonna question everyone itt?

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AzNDarkSamurai
01/16/21 4:11:48 AM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
Sure... That seems normal, to be a bit critical. But technically people reassuring you that you are normal is also advice, so are you gonna question everyone itt?

No because im actually asking for this advice and trying to see peoples differing opinions on this Q

Nobody asked for my MILs

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Fenrimis
01/16/21 4:12:03 AM
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I mean... its not a bad thing to be frugal and take advice on others for money saving tips.

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g980
01/16/21 4:13:00 AM
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It seems like you just arent good at socializing with other people in general
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MedeaLysistrata
01/16/21 4:14:41 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
No because im actually asking for this advice and trying to see peoples differing opinions on this Q

Nobody asked for my MILs

I guess but she is your family so some nagging is to be expected, not sure on your situation specifically

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AzNDarkSamurai
01/16/21 10:22:14 AM
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g980 posted...
It seems like you just arent good at socializing with other people in general

how so?

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