Current Events > I think I'm going to break up with my girlfriend

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There's 2 very toxic trait of her's that I cannot tolerate anymore and I've told her numerous times about it and she is unwilling to get better at them

1. She is super self-righteous and she takes it further into the beyond when she's upset. She doesn't care if she is unreasonable or unfair at all, when she thinks she's right then she's right no matter what and no one can convince her she's wrong. We brought this up to her many times before and told her it's not something I can tolerate but she is unable to curve this trait. All I ask for her is to meet in the middle with me and be open-minded
2. She only talks about the shit I can't do for her and get for her. She doesn't appreciate or acknowledge the things I do-do for her. I try to give her everything she wants, but all she ever talks about is the things I can't give or do for her.

I'm no saint but at least I am patient with her.

yeah, i wouldn't put up with that myself

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Sounds pretty fucked, I'd let it go

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those are 2 great reason to break up tbh

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I broke up with my ex earlier this month too. She was so negative and hard headed on everything. Bruh, its honestly not worth the stress. I gave my ex the benefit of the doubt and tried my best to make it work for a little over 2 years. If you are waiting for someone to change into someone they arent not you are going to be disappointed. People dont change.

I don't want to change her but at the same time I want her to be a better person.

The 2nd reason alone is reason enough to break up with someone.

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BignutzisBack posted...

those are 2 great reason to break up tbh

This. Don't be a doormat. Imagine marrying her and having to deal with those two things for years and years. Relationships are a two way road. Don't waste your open-mindedness and patience on someone who isn't willing to meet you halfway.

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TheMikh posted...

yeah, i wouldn't put up with that myself

BignutzisBack posted...

those are 2 great reason to break up tbh

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Well, I just texted her and told her she needs to realize these traits of her's are toxic and she needs curve them or else we can't have a relationship.

I need to hear her side of the story

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Im in

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