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Harpie 02/01/21 10:23:42 PM #1: |
Now I wont be done with my associates until December, assuming I jump back into full-time next quarter (two months from now)
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RedJackson 02/01/21 10:24:13 PM #2: |
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Turbam 02/01/21 10:24:22 PM #3: |
Just drop some of them, and take some during the summer!
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ssj3vegeta 02/01/21 10:24:26 PM #4: |
But you're so close!!
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The Trent 02/01/21 10:24:40 PM #5: |
listen to your heart
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21WIVES_CHILL 02/01/21 10:24:50 PM #6: |
How old are you?
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Veggeta X 02/01/21 10:25:25 PM #8: |
You need a sugar daddy, babe
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Unsugarized_Foo 02/01/21 10:25:57 PM #10: |
Just show up to the classes anyway. No one cares
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Harpie 02/01/21 10:26:18 PM #11: |
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noMy mental health is suffering atm and maybe that sounds cliche because everyone says it, but its the truth When Im spending hours a day crying and having fantasies about my own death I think it means I need to chill for a bit. Hopefully the time off will help me breathe a little and get back to where I want to be --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AldousIsDead 02/01/21 10:26:58 PM #12: |
Do what you have to to stay safe and sane, but just remember that it's hard to come back to school. Life happens.
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Johnny_Nutcase 02/01/21 10:27:18 PM #13: |
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Reis 02/01/21 10:28:03 PM #14: |
do whatever you need to do fam, life isn't a race and if u need some time to decompress then do it
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Harpie 02/01/21 10:28:32 PM #15: |
Turbam posted...
Just drop some of them, and take some during the summer!Im very behind in all four of my classes. I have a weird mental block with school and I honestly dont even think I could manage one class right now I feel awful about it ssj3vegeta posted... But you're so close!!I know I was gonna be done THIS AUGUST AGDJENDBD Veggeta X posted... You need a sugar daddy, babeYes A lot of my stress comes comes from finances Unsugarized_Foo posted... Just show up to the classes anyway. No one caresIts online and I have to complete work tho --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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refmon 02/01/21 10:28:42 PM #16: |
Imagine being this irresponsible
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Reis 02/01/21 10:30:00 PM #17: |
refmon posted...
Imagine being this irresponsible imagine acting as if you know what's best for an individual at any moment in time and as an addendum to this, it's even more irresponsible to bite off more than you can chew and end up crashing and burning as a result of it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 02/01/21 10:30:57 PM #18: |
21WIVES_CHILL posted...
How old are you?21 AldousIsDead posted... Do what you have to to stay safe and sane, but just remember that it's hard to come back to school. Life happens.Yes, this is on my mind. Especially since I will likely have to fund the first quarter back 100% on my own. I might take out a loan tbh Reis posted... do whatever you need to do fam, life isn't a race and if u need some time to decompress then do itThis is actually really sweet, thank you --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turbam 02/01/21 10:32:12 PM #19: |
Harpie posted...
My mental health is suffering atm and maybe that sounds cliche because everyone says it, but its the truthOh, never mind what I said. Yeah, take the break and figure out what you need to. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kombucha 02/01/21 10:33:02 PM #20: |
Harpie wait until after the pandemic so you can do classes in person. You're cheating yourself out of the real college experience doing that shit now.
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AldousIsDead 02/01/21 10:33:51 PM #21: |
Harpie posted...
Yes, this is on my mind. Especially since I will likely have to fund the first quarter back 100% on my own. I might take out a loan tbhIt's tough to have both money and time at the same time. I know personally how that song and dance goes, and it prevented me from ever finishing school. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ruvan22 02/01/21 10:35:01 PM #22: |
Really sorry to hear you are going through so much. Does your college have any academic advising or counseling that could help you make some decisions?
Taking a break isn't the end of the world, I took three years off in between my undergraduate years. There's a danger of getting comfortable being out of school but it's not an absolute, especially if you have friends who know your plan. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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fuming 02/01/21 10:36:28 PM #23: |
i've done this before, and you'll regret it unless this is absolutely necessary for your mental well being. only you can make that call!
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Machete 02/01/21 10:36:52 PM #24: |
do what you gotta do, boo
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Harpie 02/01/21 10:37:15 PM #25: |
Reis posted...
and as an addendum to this, it's even more irresponsible to bite off more than you can chew and end up crashing and burning as a result of itYeah.. this happened last quarter. I was crashing halfway through but I convinced myself that I could catch up and still get it together, so I didnt drop any classes. Turbam posted... Oh, never mind what I said.Oh, well that was quick lol. Thank you, I will do my best Kombucha posted... Harpie wait until after the pandemic so you can do classes in person. You're cheating yourself out of the real college experience doing that shit now.I wish, but waiting for in-person classes to start up again might be a fools bet. It honestly could take another year or more --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Reis 02/01/21 10:37:23 PM #26: |
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in addition, if you find something you that really truly want to do in the interim period during your break you'll be far more motivated to actually get it done ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AdrianBeterson 02/01/21 10:37:38 PM #27: |
If there was any time in our lifetime to take a break from school, it would be now with the pandemic. Good on you for making that decision, I hope you feel better soon.
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Kombucha 02/01/21 10:38:48 PM #28: |
Harpie posted...
Yeah.. this happened last quarter. I was crashing halfway through but I convinced myself that I could catch up and still get it together, so I didnt drop any classes. College was an amazing experience, doing it online is a joke. Life is only a rush if that's your style. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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assassingriskel 02/01/21 10:40:49 PM #29: |
Boo hoo
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Kombucha 02/01/21 10:41:57 PM #30: |
Also half of college is getting contacts and networking, something you don't really get online. ,
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WaterLink 02/01/21 10:42:23 PM #31: |
Don't feel bad. I took 3 years of college out of HS and dropped out because I was burnt out, even after being val of my HS senior class. After 2 years off of school, working and living on my own, went back to finish the degree and I was a lot more mature and focused and had a concrete goal of what I wanted to do.
Honestly a lot of people (I'd wager a sizable majority) don't really know what they want to do/be coming out of HS and it's really fucked up to pressure people that young into making life altering financial decisions like taking out huge loans for something they're so unsure about and so inexperienced with being an adult. More people out of HS should be taking a year or two off of school after being in it for 12-13 years and then going to university after living as an adult for a couple of years rather than just going to college and into debt just because "that's what you do" --- https://imgur.com/TFF3Nn8 Joe Burrow, the legend ... Copied to Clipboard!
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fuming 02/01/21 10:43:39 PM #32: |
Kombucha posted...
Also half of college is getting contacts and networking, something you don't really get online. , would have been nice if literally anyone had ever told me this at the time ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssj3vegeta 02/01/21 10:44:45 PM #33: |
Harpie posted...
I know I was gonna be done THIS AUGUST AGDJENDBD Its fine, your mental health comes first tbh --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthAragorn 02/01/21 10:44:49 PM #34: |
I just graduated at 27 so you're probably still on pace to beat that at least
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Buzz Killjoy 02/01/21 10:45:10 PM #35: |
AdrianBeterson posted...
If there was any time in our lifetime to take a break from school, it would be now with the pandemic. Good on you for making that decision, I hope you feel better soon. I'm not in school but I guess I just radically disagree with this idea. It's never going to be easier than it is right now with everybody still figuring out how to make it work and lowering expectations. --- Does the name Pavlov ring a bell? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 02/01/21 10:46:01 PM #36: |
Ruvan22 posted...
Really sorry to hear you are going through so much. Does your college have any academic advising or counseling that could help you make some decisions?Yes, I have a meeting tomorrow with my financial advisor to talk about dropping classes and how itll affect financial aid I figured. A lot of other people have been telling me the same thing. Life isnt a race. I would like to think that Id be motivated to go back soon. You have any advice for that? AdrianBeterson posted... If there was any time in our lifetime to take a break from school, it would be now with the pandemic. Good on you for making that decision, I hope you feel better soon.Thats true, I feel like people will be kinder to me about my withdraws during this time period Kombucha posted... College was an amazing experience, doing it online is a joke. Life is only a rush if that's your style.Ill be in school for a long time, Im getting a masters. Ill have plenty of irl schooling I hope lmao --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Evthean 02/01/21 10:47:42 PM #37: |
theres no shame in taking a break to nurse your mental and emotional health. if you feel like it would help you, dont stress about taking one
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Reis 02/01/21 10:48:00 PM #38: |
Harpie posted...
You have any advice for that? yes, as vague and cliche as it sounds, broaden your horizons by reading into a bunch of different fields. i had no idea i was interested in the medical field as much as i became until i read more into it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WaterLink 02/01/21 10:50:07 PM #39: |
DarthAragorn posted...
I just graduated at 27 so you're probably still on pace to beat that at least Hell when I finished I was around that age and there were people even older than me in a lot of my undergrad classes. There shouldn't be any stigma of taking time off or not finishing in 4-5 years. Buzz Killjoy posted... AdrianBeterson posted...If there was any time in our lifetime to take a break from school, it would be now with the pandemic. Good on you for making that decision, I hope you feel better soon. The coursework hasn't changed so I don't really know what you're talking about here about it somehow being "easier now" --- https://imgur.com/TFF3Nn8 Joe Burrow, the legend ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RedJackson 02/01/21 10:51:52 PM #40: |
Harpie posted...
My mental health is suffering atm and maybe that sounds cliche because everyone says it, but its the truth I always throw the 'no' out just in case - personally as someone with BPD I need to be in a cycle or something.. I sorta know myself a little more than I used to these days and for me sometimes it's much harder to muster back up y'know? Totally not cliche.. checking if you still had second thoughts about it lol --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WallStreetWolf 02/01/21 11:00:32 PM #41: |
It's for the best, and I'm sorry to hear your mental health is that bad. It's not a clich. Cut off people that don't understand you. You're not the only one that struggles getting things done during the pandemic. There's absolutely no shame in taking a break. You know I'm always in your corner.
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WallStreetWolf 02/01/21 11:03:10 PM #42: |
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Imagine being this irresponsible Fuck off. Mental health is important --- "I'm 38 and nearly lost it last night when I thought I'd lost my Minecraft world." - DSP I simp for Harpie ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smashingpmkns 02/01/21 11:05:19 PM #43: |
You do what you think is best for you but you should probably try and finish asap. A break is fine. I took a break. But it also turned into a 5 year break lol now I'm going back next semester and feel like shit. Don't be like me. Hope your mental health gets better
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Scarecrow17 02/01/21 11:08:42 PM #44: |
Harpie posted...
Now I wont be done with my associates until December, assuming I jump back into full-time next quarter (two months from now) I feel you. I'd like to drop all of my classes but I would feel like shit for doing so. I'm taking Organic Chemistry, Human Anatomy and Physiology II, Virology, Exercise Physiology, Neuronal Immune System Crosstalk with Homeostasis, and a research class. I just want to give up most days. --- His foundation lie in the holy mountain. Selah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 02/01/21 11:29:19 PM #46: |
DarthAragorn posted...
I just graduated at 27 so you're probably still on pace to beat that at leastehhh maybe. Who knows. I have 3-4 more years of school after I finish my associates which puts me at 26. This is assuming Im attending full time Reis posted... yes, as vague and cliche as it sounds, broaden your horizons by reading into a bunch of different fields. i had no idea i was interested in the medical field as much as i became until i read more into itIll do this, thank you How did you randomly figure out you were into medicine though lol WallStreetWolf posted... It's for the best, and I'm sorry to hear your mental health is that bad. It's not a clich. Cut off people that don't understand you. You're not the only one that struggles getting things done during the pandemic. There's absolutely no shame in taking a break. You know I'm always in your corner.Aww, thank you ^^ I dunno if I need to cut anyone off per se, but the break will be really nice Smashingpmkns posted... You do what you think is best for you but you should probably try and finish asap. A break is fine. I took a break. But it also turned into a 5 year break lol now I'm going back next semester and feel like shit. Don't be like me. Hope your mental health gets betterI pinky promise that I wont break for 5+ years lmao. I enjoy school and my major too much to do that I think. I will remember to keep you in mind. Good luck with your return! Try not to feel like shit about it, because like everyone else in this thread has mentioned, theres no shame in taking the time you need Scarecrow17 posted... I feel you. I'd like to drop all of my classes but I would feel like shit for doing so. I'm taking Organic Chemistry, Human Anatomy and Physiology II, Virology, Exercise Physiology, Neuronal Immune System Crosstalk with Homeostasis, and a research class. I just want to give up most days.bro the fuck How are you managing all those classes?? Are you okay? I dont blame you for wanting to give up, I wouldve already done it if I had that many classes tbh --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Reis 02/01/21 11:38:03 PM #47: |
Harpie posted...
Ill do this, thank you well in my case it was as simple as just reading one of my brother's PA handbooks as we were on the road to the beach and i had nothing else to do which is why i stress that it is important that you just branch out as much as possible because you never know when, where, or what it is you truly want to pursue until you actually find it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthAragorn 02/01/21 11:44:56 PM #48: |
Harpie posted...
ehhh maybe. Who knows. I have 3-4 more years of school after I finish my associates which puts me at 26. This is assuming Im attending full timeI graduated with my bachelor's at 27 sounds like you're not going to be anywhere near that slow ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Spiritlittle 02/01/21 11:45:32 PM #49: |
Lol if you think college is actually hard
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Cleo_II 02/01/21 11:49:12 PM #50: |
Do what you think is best for you. My college years I was very depressed at home and also really hated engineering but had crazy controlling abusive parents who made me continue. Id just take the train to school but never go to class. Shop around the mall or something and try and copy assignments off people. I barely passed by some miracle. I wish I could have taken time for some self care.
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