Current Events > Guys are always complaining about women having too high standards on dating apps

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But whenever my female friends show me guys they match with on tinder it's basically like this

"Oh my god, I love his hair, and he has a cat!"

Hair and a cat? Doesn't sound very high to me.

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What's the attractiveness level of your female friends?

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You talk as if all 4 billion men and 4 billion women think the same

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Aeriis posted...

He's probably also hawt but it sounds more shallow if they're just like "he's hot!!"

They usually are good looking but that reveals what guys mean when they say women have "too high standards".


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You hear that boys? Time to get high fade and a cute kitty

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Aeriis posted...

any guy with a cat earns a +1, let's be real

Wb dog?

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I've swiped right on 50 girls on tinder every 12 hours for the past week. That's 700 girls. Out of all that time and effort, I only match with one girl. I sent her a message. And she never replied.

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Aeriis posted...

imo it depends on the dog, i'm not sure about what any other girls think. but I know a lot of ladies that love guys with cats!

edit: wait nevermind =/

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/single-men-with-cats-less-likely-dating-app-relationship-121121521.html

Haha.. well, at least we know some girls dig a cat guy!

TaddyIsBack posted...

I've swiped right on 50 girls on tinder every 12 hours for the past week. That's 700 girls. Out of all that time and effort, I only match with one girl. I sent her a message. And she never replied.

Hey man, you could try an international dating app

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TaddyIsBack posted...

I've swiped right on 50 girls on tinder every 12 hours for the past week. That's 700 girls. Out of all that time and effort, I only match with one girl. I sent her a message. And she never replied.

1. Delete your tinder account. Tinder hates power users and their algorithm penalises guys like you especially. You've fucked it completely.
2. Create a new account. This time think holistically about your photos and description and the kind of impression it gives about you and not just how your jawline looks in X photo. Even better, get some feedback from people who know you and people who don't.
3. Use it less often. 50 swipes right swipes in a day? Dude. You're cycling through bots at this point. Try and do 10, 20 swipes a day max, left or right.
4. Only - and this is the most important bit - ONLY swipe right on the girls you actually would seriously want to date or talk to. Be brutal. Swipe like women do. No, no, no, no, hmm maybe actually no, no no no, yes.

You'll do better

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fragile femininity

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Aeriis posted...

imo it depends on the dog, i'm not sure about what any other girls think. but I know a lot of ladies that love guys with cats!

edit: wait nevermind =/

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/single-men-with-cats-less-likely-dating-app-relationship-121121521.html

It sounds funny, but a friend that had just a cat got a dog after hearing that article's point repeated on a few podcasts run by late 20s girls. He didn't get rid of the cat or anything but profile pictures were changed to include the puppy.

Aeriis posted...

imo it depends on the dog, i'm not sure about what any other girls think. but I know a lot of ladies that love guys with cats!

edit: wait nevermind =/

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/single-men-with-cats-less-likely-dating-app-relationship-121121521.html

That study was bs IMO. Look at the pictures they actually used, they were professionally done and looked really awkward and that's why the study came out like that. I've had good results just using candid pictures with my cat.

https://www.mdpi.com/animals/animals-10-01007/article_deploy/html/images/animals-10-01007-g001-550.jpg


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pinky0926 posted...

1. Delete your tinder account. Tinder hates power users and their algorithm penalises guys like you especially. You've fucked it completely.
2. Create a new account. This time think holistically about your photos and description and the kind of impression it gives about you and not just how your jawline looks in X photo. Even better, get some feedback from people who know you and people who don't.
3. Use it less often. 50 swipes right swipes in a day? Dude. You're cycling through bots at this point. Try and do 10, 20 swipes a day max, left or right.
4. Only - and this is the most important bit - ONLY swipe right on the girls you actually would seriously want to date or talk to. Be brutal. Swipe like women do. No, no, no, no, hmm maybe actually no, no no no, yes.
You'll do better

1. Be attractive.
2. Don't be unattractive.

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Aren't there studies that have proven they objectively have high standards

DarthAragorn posted...

Aren't there studies that have proven they objectively have high standards

People will be quick to dismiss them, but yeah it was essentially 'men find half of women on dating sites to be attractive and half unattractive while women find the top 20% of men on dating sites to be attractive and 80% to be unattractive'.

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