Current Events > My boyfriend got mad because I posted a shirtless pic of myself on Instagram

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ZannoL 04/29/21 12:02:42 PM #1:	The way hes acting... you would think I posted a picture of myself on all fours and implying I would start a OF page or something It was an innocent after the gym selfie. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:953362792] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>The way hes acting... you would think I posted a picture of myself on all fours and implying I would start a OF page or something It was an innocent after the gym selfie. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 04/29/21 12:03:32 PM #3:	still a thirst trap buddeh --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953362820] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>still a thirst trap buddeh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 04/29/21 12:04:12 PM #4:	CalypsoDoom posted... break up with him tbh Nah, hes a good guy. Can get a little jealous at times though. He texted me that we will discuss things when he gets home from work. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:953362845] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>break up with him tbh</quote>Nah, hes a good guy. Can get a little jealous at times though. He texted me that we will discuss things when he gets home from work. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 04/29/21 12:04:28 PM #5:	pics --- https://imgur.com/uUaFvGj <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:953362858] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>pics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Parappa09 04/29/21 12:04:40 PM #6:	lww99 posted... still a thirst trap buddeh but also that --- https://imgur.com/uUaFvGj <cite>Parappa09 posted [p:953362865] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>lww99 posted... </cite> <quote>still a thirst trap buddeh</quote>but also that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Robot2600 04/29/21 12:05:35 PM #8:	not good to be jelly <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:953362900] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>not good to be jelly </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZannoL 04/29/21 12:12:24 PM #10:	Parappa09 posted... pics Im debating posting it here [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Hes a little jealous. Thats all. The guy is not a potential murderer. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:953363156] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Parappa09 posted... </cite> <quote>pics</quote>Im debating posting it here <cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Hes a little jealous. Thats all. The guy is not a potential murderer. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BuckVanHammer 04/29/21 12:13:31 PM #12:	does that surprise you? --- Minimal, yet feature rich. https://imgur.com/bphehs8 <cite>BuckVanHammer posted [p:953363200] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>does that surprise you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/29/21 12:15:56 PM #13:	"Discuss things when he gets back from work." If it isn't him apologizing for acting up then good luck. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:953363288] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>"Discuss things when he gets back from work." If it isn't him apologizing for acting up then good luck. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RedJackson 04/29/21 12:18:00 PM #15:	Just be honest about how the picture itself makes you feel good and if you can reassure eachother your love youre good I suppose Jealousy sucks, but Ive been there on both ends and the best thing to do is just let them know how much you really love them --- https://imgur.com/e6aBSof - Pus_N_Pecans original! https://imgur.com/bve6U7T - Error1335 original! <cite>RedJackson posted [p:953363355] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Just be honest about how the picture itself makes you feel good and if you can reassure eachother your love youre good I suppose Jealousy sucks, but Ive been there on both ends and the best thing to do is just let them know how much you really love them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
H0LD_Austin_Era 04/29/21 12:18:25 PM #16:	I dislike men & women who try to control. --- C H E C K M A T E <cite>H0LD_Austin_Era posted [p:953363378] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>I dislike men & women who try to control. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 04/29/21 12:19:33 PM #17:	Need to see the pic to accurately assess. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:953363420] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Need to see the pic to accurately assess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
420TwiZtiD420 04/29/21 12:20:03 PM #18:	CalypsoDoom posted... break up with him tbh Or... be an adult and talk with him. --- fay ce que vouldras <cite>420TwiZtiD420 posted [p:953363434] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>break up with him tbh</quote>Or... be an adult and talk with him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 04/29/21 12:20:14 PM #19:	CalypsoDoom posted... seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten Jealousy is a very normal reaction to your partner posting shirtless/provocative images for people to see. What you're describing is an extremely abusive and manipulative relationship that's not even close to the norm. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:953363440] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten</quote>Jealousy is a very normal reaction to your partner posting shirtless/provocative images for people to see. What you're describing is an extremely abusive and manipulative relationship that's not even close to the norm. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta X 04/29/21 12:21:33 PM #20:	Holy shit Joe went 0 to 60 with this. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>Veggeta X posted [p:953363492] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Holy shit Joe went 0 to 60 with this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopus 04/29/21 12:23:01 PM #22:	We should look at these pics and judge for ourselves --- https://imgur.com/nlaY1qH https://imgur.com/zHJ1OCo https://imgur.com/btBPP4E https://imgur.com/1B3bMHw https://imgur.com/2aof3ao <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:953363564] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>We should look at these pics and judge for ourselves </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crescente 04/29/21 12:23:50 PM #23:	Please don't engage too seriously with Calypso. She's going to end up being warned again :( <cite>Crescente posted [p:953363582] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Please don't engage too seriously with Calypso. She's going to end up being warned again :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 04/29/21 12:24:20 PM #24:	CalypsoDoom posted... break up with him tbh Are you still with that CEman you were dating? --- Genius, Thousandaire, Playboy, Philanthropist <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:953363601] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>break up with him tbh</quote>Are you still with that CEman you were dating? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Angel_ 04/29/21 12:25:10 PM #25:	I'd break up with you. You obviously don't respect the relationship, and there's too many women out here who will. --- Leader of the AP. "Fast living will get you took // Thinking it can't happen to you, and then it do..." <cite>_Angel_ posted [p:953363630] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>I'd break up with you. You obviously don't respect the relationship, and there's too many women out here who will. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 04/29/21 12:25:48 PM #26:	Where r da pics --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:953363656] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Where r da pics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AThirstyCamel 04/29/21 12:26:46 PM #27:	_Angel_ posted... I'd break up with you. You obviously don't respect the relationship, and there's too many women out here who will. Lol where? I dont see them. <cite>AThirstyCamel posted [p:953363694] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>_Angel_ posted... </cite> <quote>I'd break up with you. You obviously don't respect the relationship, and there's too many women out here who will.</quote> Lol where? I dont see them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 04/29/21 12:27:10 PM #29:	CalypsoDoom posted... I mean people should be allowed to be proud of themselves and their progress. sounds like it was just a gym photo doesnt need to be half nude for a gym pic. Or if you do, just send it to your s/o otherwise its going to appear that youre looking for strangers to compliment your (almost) naked body. --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953363709] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>I mean people should be allowed to be proud of themselves and their progress. sounds like it was just a gym photo</quote> doesnt need to be half nude for a gym pic. Or if you do, just send it to your s/o otherwise its going to appear that youre looking for strangers to compliment your (almost) naked body. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/29/21 12:30:12 PM #30:	lww99 posted... doesnt need to be half nude for a gym pic. Or if you do, just send it to your s/o otherwise its going to appear that youre looking for strangers to compliment your (almost) naked body. If someone wants attention, why shouldn't we give it to them? --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:953363824] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>lww99 posted... </cite> <quote>doesnt need to be half nude for a gym pic. Or if you do, just send it to your s/o otherwise its going to appear that youre looking for strangers to compliment your (almost) naked body.</quote>If someone wants attention, why shouldn't we give it to them? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 04/29/21 12:31:27 PM #31:	Post what you wanna post lol, but you cant always expect your s/o to be okay with it. If OP wanted to start a lewd account, hes perfectly within his rights to do so. --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953363864] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Post what you wanna post lol, but you cant always expect your s/o to be okay with it. If OP wanted to start a lewd account, hes perfectly within his rights to do so. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crescente 04/29/21 12:32:14 PM #32:	CalypsoDoom posted... for what precisely For being awesome! <cite>Crescente posted [p:953363884] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>for what precisely</quote> For being awesome! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KamenRiderBlade 04/29/21 12:35:20 PM #36:	Your BF sounds overly posessive & controlling. --- Are you a MexiCAN or a MexiCAN'T - Johnny Depp '*Once Upon A Time in Mexico*' <cite>KamenRiderBlade posted [p:953363992] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Your BF sounds overly posessive & controlling. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/29/21 12:35:33 PM #37:	How is it a lewd account? From the sound of it, this feels like the first time TC posted anything of the sort. They felt good, finally got to a point (after I'm guessing a long time of working hard at it) where they felt accomplished and ready to announce to the world that they're here, and a few online comments isn't going to end the relationship right then and there. Overwhelming jealousy and controlling tendencies will. BF needs to work on his issues. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:953364003] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>How is it a lewd account? From the sound of it, this feels like the first time TC posted anything of the sort. They felt good, finally got to a point (after I'm guessing a long time of working hard at it) where they felt accomplished and ready to announce to the world that they're here, and a few online comments isn't going to end the relationship right then and there. Overwhelming jealousy and controlling tendencies will. BF needs to work on his issues. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 04/29/21 12:37:12 PM #39:	One pic doesnt make it a lewd account, Im just saying if he wanted to do that, no one can really stop him. Post what you wanna post. can you blur your face out and post here? that might give a better idea of how the pic is being received. --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953364069] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>One pic doesnt make it a lewd account, Im just saying if he wanted to do that, no one can really stop him. Post what you wanna post. can you blur your face out and post here? that might give a better idea of how the pic is being received. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SrRd_RacinG 04/29/21 12:38:28 PM #40:	TC, you are seeking approval/validation from outside sources (Things outside of you). It doesn't matter how often you do it, it means you require external validation. This is insecurity. Your bf also displays insecurity through his anxious attachment toward you. He feels threatened that outside sources will steal you away from him. To complicate matters, you have sought out internet advice which confirms the insecurity. This confirms that you often require outside validation for internal issues. This is not the path to helping yourself. This relationship will terminate before year's end. --- https://media.giphy.com/media/l3vRn3I4UyDoKyWLC/giphy.gif <cite>SrRd_RacinG posted [p:953364115] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>TC, you are seeking approval/validation from outside sources (Things outside of you). It doesn't matter how often you do it, it means you require external validation. This is insecurity. Your bf also displays insecurity through his anxious attachment toward you. He feels threatened that outside sources will steal you away from him. To complicate matters, you have sought out internet advice which confirms the insecurity. This confirms that you often require outside validation for internal issues. This is not the path to helping yourself. This relationship will terminate before year's end. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 04/29/21 12:38:41 PM #41:	would it feel different if you just privately sent someone this photo? Would it still appear that youre just showing progress? genuine question --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953364118] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>would it feel different if you just privately sent someone this photo? Would it still appear that youre just showing progress? genuine question </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Davos 04/29/21 12:39:11 PM #42:	Will the true purpose of this thread be revealed as we go on? <cite>Davos posted [p:953364129] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Will the true purpose of this thread be revealed as we go on? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CookieMarvin 04/29/21 12:39:19 PM #43:	CalypsoDoom posted... seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten --- https://imgur.com/C7kqqh4 <cite>CookieMarvin posted [p:953364134] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 04/29/21 12:39:46 PM #44:	Show off dem gains! This'll be something he needs to work through. It'll be good to acknowledge his concerns and reassure him that you're ignoring any orbiter who's bold enough to slide into the DMs as a result of this or any future pic. His concern, which is warranted, is probably that this broadcast pic will lead into something more. Whether it be pics being sent to other randos privately and directly, or you chatting up some other hotties or actively fishing around because you might break up with him, or whatever. And this sort of bullshit might've happened to him to previous boys so acknowledge said baggage and remind him that you are not his exes. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:953364152] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Show off dem gains! This'll be something he needs to work through. It'll be good to acknowledge his concerns and reassure him that you're ignoring any orbiter who's bold enough to slide into the DMs as a result of this or any future pic. His concern, which is warranted, is probably that this broadcast pic will lead into something more. Whether it be pics being sent to other randos privately and directly, or you chatting up some other hotties or actively fishing around because you might break up with him, or whatever. And this sort of bullshit might've happened to him to previous boys so acknowledge said baggage and remind him that you are not his exes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SrRd_RacinG 04/29/21 12:40:42 PM #45:	SrRd_RacinG posted... TC, you are seeking approval/validation from outside sources (Things outside of you). It doesn't matter how often you do it, it means you require external validation. This is insecurity. Your bf also displays insecurity through his anxious attachment toward you. He feels threatened that outside sources will steal you away from him. To complicate matters, you have sought out internet advice which confirms the insecurity. This confirms that you often require outside validation for internal issues. This is not the path to helping yourself. This relationship will terminate before year's end. 100% --- https://media.giphy.com/media/l3vRn3I4UyDoKyWLC/giphy.gif <cite>SrRd_RacinG posted [p:953364181] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>SrRd_RacinG posted... </cite> <quote>TC, you are seeking approval/validation from outside sources (Things outside of you). It doesn't matter how often you do it, it means you require external validation. This is insecurity. Your bf also displays insecurity through his anxious attachment toward you. He feels threatened that outside sources will steal you away from him. To complicate matters, you have sought out internet advice which confirms the insecurity. This confirms that you often require outside validation for internal issues. This is not the path to helping yourself. This relationship will terminate before year's end.</quote>100% </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DezDroppedFreak 04/29/21 12:40:43 PM #46:	CalypsoDoom posted... jealousy like that is how you end up at the bottom of a river CalypsoDoom posted... seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten --- I feel like Ratatouille when I'm whipping that cheddar <cite>DezDroppedFreak posted [p:953364182] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>jealousy like that is how you end up at the bottom of a river</quote> CalypsoDoom posted... </cite> <quote>seriously it'll only get worse from here. trust me. then you won't be able to get out and you'll have to pretend everything is OK to not be beaten</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/29/21 12:41:12 PM #47:	SrRd_RacinG posted... 100% You forgot to switch alts --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:953364203] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>SrRd_RacinG posted... </cite> <quote>100%</quote>You forgot to switch alts </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 04/29/21 12:41:36 PM #48:	SrRd_RacinG posted... 100% did you forget to switch accounts, or did you quote yourself to really hammer yourself point across lol --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:953364215] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>SrRd_RacinG posted... </cite> <quote>100%</quote> did you forget to switch accounts, or did you quote yourself to really hammer yourself point across lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SrRd_RacinG 04/29/21 12:41:40 PM #49:	Flockaveli posted... You forgot to switch alts Intentional tbh --- https://media.giphy.com/media/l3vRn3I4UyDoKyWLC/giphy.gif <cite>SrRd_RacinG posted [p:953364217] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>You forgot to switch alts</quote>Intentional tbh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta X 04/29/21 12:41:52 PM #50:	Flockaveli posted... You forgot to switch alts Lmao damn this topic is amazing --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>Veggeta X posted [p:953364229] in My boyfrie... [t:79431647]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>You forgot to switch alts</quote>Lmao damn this topic is amazing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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