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Vermander 05/21/21 11:00:24 AM #1:	...weve essentially been screaming and arguing about every essentially step of this move. Is my life essentially ruined? --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954146718] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>...weve essentially been screaming and arguing about every essentially step of this move. Is my life essentially ruined?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turbam 05/21/21 11:01:36 AM #3:	It's fine to argue, don't scream though. There's no point in screaming --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:954146765] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>It's fine to argue, don't scream though. There's no point in screaming </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TendoDRM 05/21/21 11:01:54 AM #4:	Essentially. --- Cel Damage! Tonight at 8:00! <cite>TendoDRM posted [p:954146774] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Essentially. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:02:47 AM #5:	RedWhiteBlue posted... Is this the same abusive gf you keep running back to Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954146796] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>RedWhiteBlue posted...</cite> <quote>Is this the same abusive gf you keep running back to</quote> Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:03:01 AM #6:	This is a stressful thing, so arguing is expected. Screaming though? No. --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954146811] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>This is a stressful thing, so arguing is expected. Screaming though? No. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
krazychao5 05/21/21 11:03:28 AM #7:	she with you to have a place to live? that ain't it, chief. --- https://supermariomakerbookmark.nintendo.net/profile/bigllama?type=posted <cite>krazychao5 posted [p:954146825] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>she with you to have a place to live? that ain't it, chief. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:03:35 AM #8:	Vermander posted... Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. Uh. Dump her ass --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954146830] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote>Uh. Dump her ass </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 05/21/21 11:04:11 AM #9:	Vermander posted... Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. You should just leave. Life is too short, you don't owe her anything. Just end it. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:954146842] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote>You should just leave. Life is too short, you don't owe her anything. Just end it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vermander 05/21/21 11:05:12 AM #11:	bsp77 posted... Uh. Dump her ass I mean now its more complicated. Its not exactly like I can find something else by next weekend. Shes angry she is basically saying Ive contributed nothing to this move and everything Ive done is a fuck up. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954146874] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted...</cite> <quote> Uh. Dump her ass </quote> I mean now its more complicated. Its not exactly like I can find something else by next weekend. Shes angry she is basically saying Ive contributed nothing to this move and everything Ive done is a fuck up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CRON 05/21/21 11:05:16 AM #12:	Vermander posted... Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. For the love of God, leave her. Leave her leave her leave her. I was in a similar situation. It's not worth it at all. You're ten times as important as she is. Please reconsider this. --- [obligatory signature] <cite>CRON posted [p:954146876] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote>For the love of God, leave her. Leave her leave her leave her. I was in a similar situation. It's not worth it at all. You're ten times as important as she is. Please reconsider this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jabodie 05/21/21 11:05:33 AM #13:	As an aside, what brings you to Austin? --- <insert sig here> <cite>Jabodie posted [p:954146885] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>As an aside, what brings you to Austin? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MC_BatCommander 05/21/21 11:05:41 AM #14:	Vermander posted... Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. What the actual fuck dude I've been seeing you do this same thing for years now. Leave her --- The Legend is True! <cite>MC_BatCommander posted [p:954146890] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote> What the actual fuck dude I've been seeing you do this same thing for years now. Leave her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:05:56 AM #15:	metallica846 posted... Well uhhhh welcome to Austin? Plenty of girls here once you dump your girl. Its pretty sad thats looking to be the contingency plan at this point. Bout ready to kick her out and tell her to live in the other bedroom. Ive been trying to be patient with her but Im seriously over being treated like this. She is getting more done than me when I am still working. She wouldnt even be able to afford this move without my wallet. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954146899] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted...</cite> <quote>Well uhhhh welcome to Austin? Plenty of girls here once you dump your girl. </quote> Its pretty sad thats looking to be the contingency plan at this point. Bout ready to kick her out and tell her to live in the other bedroom. Ive been trying to be patient with her but Im seriously over being treated like this. She is getting more done than me when I am still working. She wouldnt even be able to afford this move without my wallet.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 05/21/21 11:06:22 AM #16:	You'd rather be with a toxic woman than be alone, or worse start seeing new people. Sad. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:954146911] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>You'd rather be with a toxic woman than be alone, or worse start seeing new people. Sad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwiggitySwoogit 05/21/21 11:06:39 AM #17:	MC_BatCommander posted... What the actual fuck dude I've been seeing you do this same thing for years now. Leave her Sounds like TC has become complacent and would rather be unhappy than alone. <cite>SwiggitySwoogit posted [p:954146921] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>MC_BatCommander posted... </cite> <quote>What the actual fuck dude I've been seeing you do this same thing for years now. Leave her</quote> Sounds like TC has become complacent and would rather be unhappy than alone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:07:30 AM #18:	SwiggitySwoogit posted... Sounds like TC has become complacent and would rather be unhappy than alone. Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954146951] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>SwiggitySwoogit posted...</cite> <quote> Sounds like TC has become complacent and would rather be unhappy than alone. </quote> Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:08:01 AM #19:	Flockaveli posted... You'd rather be with a toxic woman than be alone, or worse start seeing new people. Sad. Yeah, you can't do that. I was with my wife 20 years and I was miserable. I got wonderful daughters from it so no regrets. But after my divorce, I have made plenty of friends and dated plenty of hot women. A better life awaits... --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954146968] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>You'd rather be with a toxic woman than be alone, or worse start seeing new people. Sad.</quote>Yeah, you can't do that. I was with my wife 20 years and I was miserable. I got wonderful daughters from it so no regrets. But after my divorce, I have made plenty of friends and dated plenty of hot women. A better life awaits... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smashingpmkns 05/21/21 11:08:10 AM #20:	Hoping you have family and friends in Austin for the inevitable, really bad breakup. --- https://imgur.com/x04tPRZ https://imgur.com/t7T392I <cite>Smashingpmkns posted [p:954146977] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Hoping you have family and friends in Austin for the inevitable, really bad breakup.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:09:06 AM #21:	Smashingpmkns posted... Hoping you have family and friends in Austin for the inevitable, really bad breakup. Nope. She has her cousin though. I was trying to avoid it and actually work through things, but I am over sitting here and listening about how everything is my fault. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147008] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Smashingpmkns posted...</cite> <quote>Hoping you have family and friends in Austin for the inevitable, really bad breakup.</quote> Nope. She has her cousin though. I was trying to avoid it and actually work through things, but I am over sitting here and listening about how everything is my fault.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwiggitySwoogit 05/21/21 11:09:19 AM #22:	Vermander posted... Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me. Oh well if your shit is already in boxes then that changes everything and you can never ever break up. <cite>SwiggitySwoogit posted [p:954147016] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me.</quote> Oh well if your shit is already in boxes then that changes everything and you can never ever break up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:09:45 AM #23:	Vermander posted... Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me. Well, are ya? She might be terrible but you also have to take responsibility. Probably too late to salvage this with this much resentment, but you do need to learn for next time, both what you can do better and what warning signs to look for. You can only control yourself. --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954147031] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Its not even that, its that my shit is all packed in boxes and Im not sure what to do, but Im over this shit. She basically said I am like this to you because youre mean to me.</quote>Well, are ya? She might be terrible but you also have to take responsibility. Probably too late to salvage this with this much resentment, but you do need to learn for next time, both what you can do better and what warning signs to look for. You can only control yourself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:12:26 AM #24:	SwiggitySwoogit posted... Oh well if your shit is already in boxes then that changes everything and you can never ever break up. I mean I cant afford this place were moving to on our own so thats cool. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147116] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>SwiggitySwoogit posted...</cite> <quote> Oh well if your shit is already in boxes then that changes everything and you can never ever break up. </quote> I mean I cant afford this place were moving to on our own so thats cool.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CRON 05/21/21 11:13:50 AM #25:	Vermander posted... I mean I cant afford this place were moving to on our own so thats cool. You're screwed if you move in with her. I've been in a similar situation, being with someone so miserable and cruel. It's never, ever worth it. Moving in with her is only going to make you feel so much worse. You need to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. --- [obligatory signature] <cite>CRON posted [p:954147155] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>I mean I cant afford this place were moving to on our own so thats cool.</quote>You're screwed if you move in with her. I've been in a similar situation, being with someone so miserable and cruel. It's never, ever worth it. Moving in with her is only going to make you feel so much worse. You need to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:15:44 AM #26:	CRON posted... You're screwed if you move in with her. I've been in a similar situation, being with someone so miserable and cruel. It's never, ever worth it. Moving in with her is only going to make you feel so much worse. You need to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. As opposed to what? Separating all our shit, finding a place in a week and a half, moving it all, paying her off with thousands of $$$? --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147208] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted...</cite> <quote> You're screwed if you move in with her. I've been in a similar situation, being with someone so miserable and cruel. It's never, ever worth it. Moving in with her is only going to make you feel so much worse. You need to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. </quote> As opposed to what? Separating all our shit, finding a place in a week and a half, moving it all, paying her off with thousands of $$$?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:18:06 AM #27:	Like my friend is literally driving an hour to see me tonight and help us move and I literally dont even know what to say to him. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147265] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Like my friend is literally driving an hour to see me tonight and help us move and I literally dont even know what to say to him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jabodie 05/21/21 11:18:17 AM #28:	You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move in. --- <insert sig here> <cite>Jabodie posted [p:954147269] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move in. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwiggitySwoogit 05/21/21 11:18:40 AM #29:	Jabodie posted... You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move it. He doesn't want solutions. Let him be unhappy. <cite>SwiggitySwoogit posted [p:954147285] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Jabodie posted... </cite> <quote>You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move it.</quote> He doesn't want solutions. Let him be unhappy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rathinor 05/21/21 11:18:51 AM #30:	You are seriously still with the girl you've been posting about for years who beats you up and emasculates you? Wtf dude? Isn't she fat too? So it's not like you're giving up your dignity to bang a supermodel or something. That wouldn't be much better, but still. <cite>Rathinor posted [p:954147290] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>You are seriously still with the girl you've been posting about for years who beats you up and emasculates you? Wtf dude? Isn't she fat too? So it's not like you're giving up your dignity to bang a supermodel or something. That wouldn't be much better, but still. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Buzz Killjoy 05/21/21 11:21:03 AM #31:	Welcome to Austin, I'll buy you a beer when you get here. --- *Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?* <cite>Buzz Killjoy posted [p:954147358] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Welcome to Austin, I'll buy you a beer when you get here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 05/21/21 11:21:31 AM #32:	dump her man; you'll thank yourself in a few years also consider moving to dfw - cheaper, less insane traffic, and the gender ratio is less skewed --- https://imgur.com/A0TAfek <cite>TheMikh posted [p:954147369] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>dump her man; you'll thank yourself in a few years also consider moving to dfw - cheaper, less insane traffic, and the gender ratio is less skewed </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:21:46 AM #33:	Jabodie posted... You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move in. That would require finding another roommate. I think its sad its gotten to this point but we got into a fight so bad the other night she slapped me, and then this morning this all escalated because I asked her if she packed all our hand-towels when I needed them last week. Which turned into You dont help me do anything, and you tell me Im doing a bad job when I literally never said that. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147373] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Jabodie posted...</cite> <quote>You can probably sublease the place if you want to back out. Either replacing you or her when they can move in. </quote> That would require finding another roommate. I think its sad its gotten to this point but we got into a fight so bad the other night she slapped me, and then this morning this all escalated because I asked her if she packed all our hand-towels when I needed them last week. Which turned into You dont help me do anything, and you tell me Im doing a bad job when I literally never said that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 05/21/21 11:21:51 AM #34:	Vermander posted... Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move. Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit. --- Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon <cite>rexcrk posted [p:954147379] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Yep. I mean she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness. Not really sure what to do in this situation. Doesnt seem interested in making up and is probably about to make me look like an idiot in front of my friends and family who are helping us move.</quote>Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:22:56 AM #35:	rexcrk posted... Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit. As I said its not really as simple as dumping her, because on some level she right we are pretty locked into this --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147412] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>rexcrk posted...</cite> <quote> Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit. </quote> As I said its not really as simple as dumping her, because on some level she right we are pretty locked into this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:23:47 AM #36:	rexcrk posted... Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit. Sounds like a financial issue at the moment. But for fuck's sake TC, why did you let this go on for years? --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954147438] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>rexcrk posted... </cite> <quote>Christ. You people know that being alone isnt that bad right? I see so many people in shitty relationships because they cant seem to handle being alone but, trust me, its a million times better than this bullshit.</quote>Sounds like a financial issue at the moment. But for fuck's sake TC, why did you let this go on for years? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 05/21/21 11:24:02 AM #37:	Vermander posted... she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness what the fuck? you really want to be sharing your life with someone who is only with you to avoid being homeless? --- NFLB 2021 Summersim mk.2 Roster (Drafting in progress): https://imgur.com/LBxVtiv Me courtesy of BlueMage279: https://imgur.com/gWKaLHC <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:954147446] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>she literally just said the only reason she is staying with me at this point is sunk cost and to avoid homelessness</quote>what the fuck? you really want to be sharing your life with someone who is only with you to avoid being homeless? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LincolnDuncan 05/21/21 11:24:36 AM #38:	how's the sex life though? --- "I'm not a very nostalgic person, I neither have regrets nor occasions for self-congratulations." - Leonard Cohen <cite>LincolnDuncan posted [p:954147459] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>how's the sex life though? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:24:42 AM #39:	bsp77 posted... Sounds like a financial issue at the moment. But for fuck's sake TC, why did you let this go on for years? It was on-off again. She started getting therapy and was improving a bit, but I think this is all just stressful for someone who is mentally ill to deal with. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147460] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted...</cite> <quote> Sounds like a financial issue at the moment. But for fuck's sake TC, why did you let this go on for years? </quote> It was on-off again. She started getting therapy and was improving a bit, but I think this is all just stressful for someone who is mentally ill to deal with.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vermander 05/21/21 11:25:06 AM #41:	LincolnDuncan posted... how's the sex life though? Like once a week since she started getting therapy. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147477] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>LincolnDuncan posted...</cite> <quote>how's the sex life though? </quote> Like once a week since she started getting therapy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:26:26 AM #42:	The reality she probably does genuinely feel like she is pulling all the weight, and that I am being useless. The issue is I dont know what to even do about that. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147532] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>The reality she probably does genuinely feel like she is pulling all the weight, and that I am being useless. The issue is I dont know what to even do about that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rathinor 05/21/21 11:26:32 AM #43:	Vermander posted... Like once a week since she started getting therapy. Does she beat you during sex too? <cite>Rathinor posted [p:954147537] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Like once a week since she started getting therapy.</quote>Does she beat you during sex too? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LincolnDuncan 05/21/21 11:28:22 AM #44:	Vermander posted... Like once a week since she started getting therapy. I've heard worse.. I was mostly being glib and I apologize. Over a decade ago I moved to Philly with my now longtime ex-gf. We moved into the new apartment and never even unpacked. So, I can relate to this in a way, and I'll just say that sometimes it's easier to have the difficult ending BEFORE moving to a new city. --- "I'm not a very nostalgic person, I neither have regrets nor occasions for self-congratulations." - Leonard Cohen <cite>LincolnDuncan posted [p:954147597] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>Like once a week since she started getting therapy.</quote> I've heard worse.. I was mostly being glib and I apologize. Over a decade ago I moved to Philly with my now longtime ex-gf. We moved into the new apartment and never even unpacked. So, I can relate to this in a way, and I'll just say that sometimes it's easier to have the difficult ending BEFORE moving to a new city. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 05/21/21 11:28:59 AM #45:	Vermander posted... The reality she probably does genuinely feel like she is pulling all the weight, and that I am being useless. The issue is I dont know what to even do about that. You probably aren't pulling your weight is my guess. Doesn't excuse her behavior though. --- Currently playing: Monster Hunter Rise <cite>bsp77 posted [p:954147614] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Vermander posted... </cite> <quote>The reality she probably does genuinely feel like she is pulling all the weight, and that I am being useless. The issue is I dont know what to even do about that.</quote>You probably aren't pulling your weight is my guess. Doesn't excuse her behavior though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Laserion 05/21/21 11:31:44 AM #47:	krazychao5 posted... she with you to have a place to live? Tell her she can keep the old place, and move without her. (Not you still paying it, though.) --- There is no "would of", "should of" or "could of". There is "would've", "should've" and "could've". <cite>Laserion posted [p:954147696] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>krazychao5 posted... </cite> <quote>she with you to have a place to live?</quote>Tell her she can keep the old place, and move without her. (Not you still paying it, though.) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:33:12 AM #48:	Rathinor posted... Does she beat you during sex too? She doesnt beat me. bsp77 posted... You probably aren't pulling your weight is my guess. Doesn't excuse her behavior though. I literally asked her how I can help. If I try to touch any of her stuff and pack to she will yell at me cause I am doing it wrong. If I try to pack any of my stuff, she will redo it and say I am doing it inefficiently. If I do nothing she says I am not helping. If I try to call for trash pickups, or schedule logistics shell get mad when I ask her details to coordinate appropriately. --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147738] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Rathinor posted...</cite> <quote> Does she beat you during sex too? </quote> She doesnt beat me. bsp77 posted...</cite> <quote> You probably aren't pulling your weight is my guess. Doesn't excuse her behavior though. </quote> I literally asked her how I can help. If I try to touch any of her stuff and pack to she will yell at me cause I am doing it wrong. If I try to pack any of my stuff, she will redo it and say I am doing it inefficiently. If I do nothing she says I am not helping. If I try to call for trash pickups, or schedule logistics shell get mad when I ask her details to coordinate appropriately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/21/21 11:33:37 AM #49:	Laserion posted... Tell her she can keep the old place, and move without her. (Not you still paying it, though.) She cant, a new person has signed the lease already --- Nintendo Switch FC: SW-0807-8653-6885 "Blue has the most anti-oxygens." <cite>Vermander posted [p:954147758] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>Laserion posted...</cite> <quote> Tell her she can keep the old place, and move without her. (Not you still paying it, though.) </quote> She cant, a new person has signed the lease already</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rathinor 05/21/21 11:33:45 AM #50:	TC should bookmark this website https://texaslawhelp.org/domestic-violence-assistance-programs <cite>Rathinor posted [p:954147762] in I'm moving... [t:79471130]...</cite> <quote>TC should bookmark this website https://texaslawhelp.org/domestic-violence-assistance-programs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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