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Ermac 07/12/21 1:00:14 AM #1:	Dating since september, things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her. Anyone who knows me knows im not a player by any means, ive only been laid a couple times before meeting her, but shes had bad experiences with being cheated on in the past, so im not taking it personally. it got to a point where her dillusion was making her uncomfortable with me. Like we hired a new girl at work whos 6 years younger than me, and she told me she couldnt deal with the idea that she might hit on me even if i wasnt interested. So yeah. Im not really looking for advice, im mature enough to know what im doing. I just wanna share for your notes and because i dont really have anyone to talk to rn --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:955994964] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Dating since september, things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her. Anyone who knows me knows im not a player by any means, ive only been laid a couple times before meeting her, but shes had bad experiences with being cheated on in the past, so im not taking it personally. it got to a point where her dillusion was making her uncomfortable with me. Like we hired a new girl at work whos 6 years younger than me, and she told me she couldnt deal with the idea that she might hit on me even if i wasnt interested. So yeah. Im not really looking for advice, im mature enough to know what im doing. I just wanna share for your notes and because i dont really have anyone to talk to rn </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 07/12/21 1:02:15 AM #2:	Ermac posted... she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her. Anything remotely that could lead to this? A female friend, nights out, etc? Or was it random? IF the latter, that's obviously a dump-her sitch. yeah rough times bud. IMO you dodged a bullet. Your ex seems really insecure and she needs to work that out, and possibly see a therapist to work on the trauma of being cheated on. sorry it didn't work out. --- kernkraft just screams late 90s early 2000s junior hockey in some cold canadian town --Slacking <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:955995013] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her.</quote>Anything remotely that could lead to this? A female friend, nights out, etc? Or was it random? IF the latter, that's obviously a dump-her sitch. yeah rough times bud. IMO you dodged a bullet. Your ex seems really insecure and she needs to work that out, and possibly see a therapist to work on the trauma of being cheated on. sorry it didn't work out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 07/12/21 1:02:32 AM #3:	Sounds like she was probably a cheater --- Common sense baked a funk cookie - some dude <cite>Smackems posted [p:955995018] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like she was probably a cheater </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YourDrunkFather 07/12/21 1:03:37 AM #4:	Cheaters love to accuse the other person of cheating --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer <cite>YourDrunkFather posted [p:955995037] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Cheaters love to accuse the other person of cheating </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 07/12/21 1:09:41 AM #5:	Ermac posted... dillusion --- You got what you asked for Did it fix what was wrong with you? <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:955995156] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>dillusion</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/12/21 1:11:15 AM #6:	Smackems posted... Sounds like she was probably a cheater believe me ive thought about this. My aunt always told me people who accuse are usually the ones doing it. And i guess theres really no way to know, but i have a feeling shes just not very stable mentally, which is pretty sad Naysaspace posted... Your ex seems really insecure and she needs to work that out, and possibly see a therapist to work on the trauma of being cheated on. Yup. I told her id respect her boundaries and give her time. If there is a future between us then itll happen and maybe this era will help establish a trust later on Naysaspace posted... Anything remotely that could lead to this? A female friend, nights out, etc? Or was it random? knowing she had trust issues with people in the past, i was careful to be as transparent as possible. Like id have my snap location on at all times, wouldnt do anything without telling her, never messaged other women, etc --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:955995184] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Smackems posted... </cite> <quote>Sounds like she was probably a cheater</quote>believe me ive thought about this. My aunt always told me people who accuse are usually the ones doing it. And i guess theres really no way to know, but i have a feeling shes just not very stable mentally, which is pretty sad Naysaspace posted... </cite> <quote>Your ex seems really insecure and she needs to work that out, and possibly see a therapist to work on the trauma of being cheated on.</quote> Yup. I told her id respect her boundaries and give her time. If there is a future between us then itll happen and maybe this era will help establish a trust later on Naysaspace posted... </cite> <quote>Anything remotely that could lead to this? A female friend, nights out, etc? Or was it random?</quote> knowing she had trust issues with people in the past, i was careful to be as transparent as possible. Like id have my snap location on at all times, wouldnt do anything without telling her, never messaged other women, etc </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 07/12/21 1:13:18 AM #7:	Ermac posted... believe me ive thought about this. My aunt always told me people who accuse are usually the ones doing it. And i guess theres really no way to know, but i have a feeling shes just not very stable mentally, which is pretty sad Yup. I told her id respect her boundaries and give her time. If there is a future between us then itll happen and maybe this era will help establish a trust later on knowing she had trust issues with people in the past, i was careful to be as transparent as possible. Like id have my snap location on at all times, wouldnt do anything without telling her, never messaged other women, etc This sounds like just a bad relationship. No trust from her = giant red flag --- Common sense baked a funk cookie - some dude <cite>Smackems posted [p:955995238] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>believe me ive thought about this. My aunt always told me people who accuse are usually the ones doing it. And i guess theres really no way to know, but i have a feeling shes just not very stable mentally, which is pretty sad Yup. I told her id respect her boundaries and give her time. If there is a future between us then itll happen and maybe this era will help establish a trust later on knowing she had trust issues with people in the past, i was careful to be as transparent as possible. Like id have my snap location on at all times, wouldnt do anything without telling her, never messaged other women, etc</quote>This sounds like just a bad relationship. No trust from her = giant red flag </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 07/12/21 1:13:57 AM #8:	You seem really even-keeled thru all this. Kudos, maybe you're keeping the tears personal. It's a shitty sitch no matter how you cut it. But it seems like you have a solid view on what is actually going on. You sound like you did a lot to help appease her anxiety, but at the end of the day....people move on. Grow apart. Sever it at the neck. Etc etc etc. --- kernkraft just screams late 90s early 2000s junior hockey in some cold canadian town --Slacking <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:955995253] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>You seem really even-keeled thru all this. Kudos, maybe you're keeping the tears personal. It's a shitty sitch no matter how you cut it. But it seems like you have a solid view on what is actually going on. You sound like you did a lot to help appease her anxiety, but at the end of the day....people move on. Grow apart. Sever it at the neck. Etc etc etc. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/12/21 5:32:23 AM #9:	im def hiding it. I dont know what to do. I just want time to pass. Fast forward to a time where its ok. I dont want to date anymore. Everytime i put my dick in someone they dick me back emotionally and im left alone again. Last time i was no sex for 3 years. Please set my dick on fire, i dont wanna use it anymore its gonna be restless nights replaying the same shit over and over --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:955998516] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>im def hiding it. I dont know what to do. I just want time to pass. Fast forward to a time where its ok. I dont want to date anymore. Everytime i put my dick in someone they dick me back emotionally and im left alone again. Last time i was no sex for 3 years. Please set my dick on fire, i dont wanna use it anymore its gonna be restless nights replaying the same shit over and over </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 07/12/21 5:35:11 AM #10:	Ermac posted... things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her She was either cheating on you herself or she's a nutcase Either way looks like you dodged a bullet --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:955998556] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her</quote> She was either cheating on you herself or she's a nutcase Either way looks like you dodged a bullet </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 07/12/21 5:45:14 AM #11:	Since Ive been involved in a shitty relationship where this happened as far as the cheating accusations coming from a girl who very likely cheated herself, the best advice is that you shouldnt waste energy on trying to fix the girl - shes doing exactly what she wants. You can fire back, like just going ahead and rolling the dice and do all the shit shes accusing you of already. But yeah, ultimately you can only control your actions and your response. Do stand up for yourself though, dont let accusations like that fly. --- To/fro from-towards <cite>masticatingman posted [p:955998684] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Since Ive been involved in a shitty relationship where this happened as far as the cheating accusations coming from a girl who very likely cheated herself, the best advice is that you shouldnt waste energy on trying to fix the girl - shes doing exactly what she wants. You can fire back, like just going ahead and rolling the dice and do all the shit shes accusing you of already. But yeah, ultimately you can only control your actions and your response. Do stand up for yourself though, dont let accusations like that fly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Back_Stabbath 07/12/21 7:57:12 AM #12:	my first partner was like this and she ended up cheating on me lel other girls out there that dont have this issue at all dw man --- https://imgur.com/Iv5fRLt <cite>Back_Stabbath posted [p:956000300] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>my first partner was like this and she ended up cheating on me lel other girls out there that dont have this issue at all dw man </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Frosted_Midna 07/12/21 8:02:05 AM #13:	You should have used a teleslam in the break up! --- It's more than good, it's alive! Warning: May contain stone hat pieces https://imgur.com/N6v5qZx <cite>Frosted_Midna posted [p:956000375] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>You should have used a teleslam in the break up! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/12/21 8:23:36 AM #14:	Sorry TC. She clearly has some issues and dating overly jealous people never works. I get it still hurts, but don't let it get you down too long, because it often takes many tries to find the right one. --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:956000680] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Sorry TC. She clearly has some issues and dating overly jealous people never works. I get it still hurts, but don't let it get you down too long, because it often takes many tries to find the right one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 07/12/21 8:37:02 AM #15:	Don't worry TC you're better off without her. --- I don't do signatures. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:956000877] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Don't worry TC you're better off without her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kylo_Ren_ 07/12/21 8:39:02 AM #16:	Ermac posted... Dating since september, things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her. Anyone who knows me knows im not a player by any means, ive only been laid a couple times before meeting her, but shes had bad experiences with being cheated on in the past, so im not taking it personally. it got to a point where her dillusion was making her uncomfortable with me. Like we hired a new girl at work whos 6 years younger than me, and she told me she couldnt deal with the idea that she might hit on me even if i wasnt interested. So yeah. Im not really looking for advice, im mature enough to know what im doing. I just wanna share for your notes and because i dont really have anyone to talk to rn Easy. That was her excuse to leave you. She wanted to leave you and this was her strategy. Something wasn't clicking with her. Most times it's because you don't have the funds to keep up with her, ie: someone more stabled. Or you aren't as good in bed as she hoped for. --- A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under control of his mind. <cite>Kylo_Ren_ posted [p:956000909] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>Dating since september, things were good but she started accusing me of wanting to cheat on her. Anyone who knows me knows im not a player by any means, ive only been laid a couple times before meeting her, but shes had bad experiences with being cheated on in the past, so im not taking it personally. it got to a point where her dillusion was making her uncomfortable with me. Like we hired a new girl at work whos 6 years younger than me, and she told me she couldnt deal with the idea that she might hit on me even if i wasnt interested. So yeah. Im not really looking for advice, im mature enough to know what im doing. I just wanna share for your notes and because i dont really have anyone to talk to rn</quote> Easy. That was her excuse to leave you. She wanted to leave you and this was her strategy. Something wasn't clicking with her. Most times it's because you don't have the funds to keep up with her, ie: someone more stabled. Or you aren't as good in bed as she hoped for. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kylo_Ren_ 07/12/21 8:41:17 AM #17:	Ermac posted... im def hiding it. I dont know what to do. I just want time to pass. Fast forward to a time where its ok. I dont want to date anymore. Everytime i put my dick in someone they dick me back emotionally and im left alone again. Last time i was no sex for 3 years. Please set my dick on fire, i dont wanna use it anymore its gonna be restless nights replaying the same shit over and over Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart. --- A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under control of his mind. <cite>Kylo_Ren_ posted [p:956000951] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>im def hiding it. I dont know what to do. I just want time to pass. Fast forward to a time where its ok. I dont want to date anymore. Everytime i put my dick in someone they dick me back emotionally and im left alone again. Last time i was no sex for 3 years. Please set my dick on fire, i dont wanna use it anymore its gonna be restless nights replaying the same shit over and over</quote> Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 07/12/21 8:42:23 AM #18:	Kylo_Ren_ posted... Easy. That was her excuse to leave you. She wanted to leave you and this was her strategy. Something wasn't clicking with her. Most times it's because you don't have the funds to keep up with her, ie: someone more stabled. Or you aren't as good in bed as she hoped for. Or maybe she was a cheater hmm --- I don't do signatures. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:956000972] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Kylo_Ren_ posted... </cite> <quote>Easy. That was her excuse to leave you. She wanted to leave you and this was her strategy. Something wasn't clicking with her. Most times it's because you don't have the funds to keep up with her, ie: someone more stabled. Or you aren't as good in bed as she hoped for.</quote>Or maybe she was a cheater hmm </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kylo_Ren_ 07/12/21 8:47:56 AM #19:	Yea, sometimes they feel so guilty that they'll use it against you themselves. Truth is there's a real reason and I don't think she'll ever tell him. --- A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under control of his mind. <cite>Kylo_Ren_ posted [p:956001072] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Yea, sometimes they feel so guilty that they'll use it against you themselves. Truth is there's a real reason and I don't think she'll ever tell him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedJackson 07/12/21 8:50:16 AM #20:	Its not even worth pondering over, go and enjoy your life, mostly because she will undoubtedly go and do the same --- https://imgur.com/ibuqBTh - https://imgur.com/L5vXdS5 https://imgur.com/bve6U7T - <cite>RedJackson posted [p:956001106] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Its not even worth pondering over, go and enjoy your life, mostly because she will undoubtedly go and do the same </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ROOTFayth 07/12/21 8:51:08 AM #21:	Kylo_Ren_ posted... Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart. great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40 <cite>ROOTFayth posted [p:956001124] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Kylo_Ren_ posted... </cite> <quote>Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart.</quote>great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 07/12/21 9:11:26 AM #22:	ROOTFayth posted... great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40 He might not be looking to have anything serious, some people do not move past casual dating and if that works for them leave them be. Not everyone wants a serious relationship and even less now want to marry. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:956001403] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>ROOTFayth posted... </cite> <quote>great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40</quote>He might not be looking to have anything serious, some people do not move past casual dating and if that works for them leave them be. Not everyone wants a serious relationship and even less now want to marry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 07/12/21 9:18:54 AM #23:	RedJackson posted... Its not even worth pondering over, go and enjoy your life, mostly because she will undoubtedly go and do the same This But she might not be out there enjoying life because honestly she sounds crazy. TC, you don't sound crazy which means you can do better. Good luck, bro --- PSN: Jiek <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:956001541] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>RedJackson posted... </cite> <quote>Its not even worth pondering over, go and enjoy your life, mostly because she will undoubtedly go and do the same</quote>This But she might not be out there enjoying life because honestly she sounds crazy. TC, you don't sound crazy which means you can do better. Good luck, bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/12/21 9:44:30 AM #25:	Kylo_Ren_ posted... Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart. That wouldn't work for me. And this sounds like you are protecting yourself more than anything, which is a form of living in fear. I would rather take my chances. But I will admit that I oftentimes question whether most humans, including myself, were built for lifelong monogamy. --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:956002063] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>Kylo_Ren_ posted... </cite> <quote>Dude. My advice is, don't do relationships. Just do FWB. That way they'll never waste your time and more importantly, never break your heart.</quote>That wouldn't work for me. And this sounds like you are protecting yourself more than anything, which is a form of living in fear. I would rather take my chances. But I will admit that I oftentimes question whether most humans, including myself, were built for lifelong monogamy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ROOTFayth 07/12/21 9:47:29 AM #26:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... He might not be looking to have anything serious, some people do not move past casual dating and if that works for them leave them be. Not everyone wants a serious relationship and even less now want to marry. it's like saying not everyone wants real friends, that's just not true, they're just afraid of being hurt, they still want it though <cite>ROOTFayth posted [p:956002120] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>He might not be looking to have anything serious, some people do not move past casual dating and if that works for them leave them be. Not everyone wants a serious relationship and even less now want to marry.</quote>it's like saying not everyone wants real friends, that's just not true, they're just afraid of being hurt, they still want it though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kylo_Ren_ 07/12/21 4:13:13 PM #27:	bsp77 posted... That wouldn't work for me. And this sounds like you are protecting yourself more than anything, which is a form of living in fear. I would rather take my chances. But I will admit that I oftentimes question whether most humans, including myself, were built for lifelong monogamy. Relationships aren't for everyone. Men and Women getting their heartbroken and onto depression doesn't sound good at all. Half the time they'll end up hurting themselves. Sure, take that risk and move on with another and start all over again or enjoy your life and money without them. ROOTFayth posted... great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40 I have children. Got family members, a couple of close friends and by that age own a small business + a guaranteed FWB, miserable you say? --- A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under control of his mind. <cite>Kylo_Ren_ posted [p:956012726] in Well CE, s... [t:79560476]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>That wouldn't work for me. And this sounds like you are protecting yourself more than anything, which is a form of living in fear. I would rather take my chances. But I will admit that I oftentimes question whether most humans, including myself, were built for lifelong monogamy.</quote> Relationships aren't for everyone. Men and Women getting their heartbroken and onto depression doesn't sound good at all. Half the time they'll end up hurting themselves. Sure, take that risk and move on with another and start all over again or enjoy your life and money without them. ROOTFayth posted... </cite> <quote>great advice if you want to end up miserable at 40</quote> I have children. Got family members, a couple of close friends and by that age own a small business + a guaranteed FWB, miserable you say? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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