Current Events > Me and my girlfriend got into an argument last night. Who was right?

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Veggeta_EDGE 08/27/21 3:48:31 PM #1:	So last night I went to go pick my girlfriend from work. I got there about 10 minutes late and she was super mad she had to wait for me. I told her to chill, sometimes when I come to pick her up I had to wait on her ass to come out so it's alright if she waits a few minutes for me sometimes. She says it's different, her waiting on me is harder than me waiting on her. Who is in the right? Shall I just suck it up and apologize? --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_EDGE posted [p:957495312] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>So last night I went to go pick my girlfriend from work. I got there about 10 minutes late and she was super mad she had to wait for me. I told her to chill, sometimes when I come to pick her up I had to wait on her ass to come out so it's alright if she waits a few minutes for me sometimes. She says it's different, her waiting on me is harder than me waiting on her. Who is in the right? Shall I just suck it up and apologize? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MaddenDude-- 08/27/21 3:49:19 PM #2:	The only way to fix the situation is to tell her to calm down, calm her titties, chill out, relax, stop getting so worked up. It works every time. --- I am Dan_Haren <cite>MaddenDude-- posted [p:957495334] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>The only way to fix the situation is to tell her to calm down, calm her titties, chill out, relax, stop getting so worked up. It works every time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 08/27/21 3:51:17 PM #3:	Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up? --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:957495398] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988 08/27/21 3:52:05 PM #4:	Respect women --- "Let's be honest...I'm everybody's type. I just gotta highlight the parts that appeal to her the most" - No_U_L7 <cite>David1988 posted [p:957495419] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Respect women </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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creativeme 08/27/21 3:52:47 PM #6:	bigblu89 posted... Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up? this. but having to wait 10 minutes shouldn't really be a big deal either way. <cite>creativeme posted [p:957495450] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite> <quote>Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up?</quote> this. but having to wait 10 minutes shouldn't really be a big deal either way. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
No_U_L7 08/27/21 3:53:06 PM #7:	No one with vegeta in their name has a girlfriend --- https://imgur.com/QPgN9 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:957495459] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>No one with vegeta in their name has a girlfriend</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 3:53:27 PM #8:	bigblu89 posted... Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up? Had to poop but I feel like it shouldn't matter since I'm cool with waiting for her to come out so she should be cool if I'm a bit late. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495468] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite> <quote>Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up?</quote>Had to poop but I feel like it shouldn't matter since I'm cool with waiting for her to come out so she should be cool if I'm a bit late. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Giant_Aspirin 08/27/21 3:53:29 PM #9:	bigblu89 posted... Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up? this. your tar-d-iness(lol at that legit word being auto-flagged, lrn2english, mods) should not have been a surprise to you, so you should have informed her as soon as you identified that you'd be late. --- Playing: Yakuza 5 Remaster You see it your way, I'll see it mine and I'll be fine <cite>Giant_Aspirin posted [p:957495469] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite> <quote>Did you update her on your lateness once you knew you were going to be late, or did you make her just wait there not knowing where you were or even if you were showing up?</quote> this. your tar-d-iness(lol at that legit word being auto-flagged, lrn2english, mods) should not have been a surprise to you, so you should have informed her as soon as you identified that you'd be late. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dingydang166 08/27/21 3:53:37 PM #10:	Well in the scenario where she waits, how is the place she is waiting? Is she waiting outside? Is it hot/cold? Is it sketchy? <cite>Dingydang166 posted [p:957495474] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Well in the scenario where she waits, how is the place she is waiting? Is she waiting outside? Is it hot/cold? Is it sketchy? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkprince45 08/27/21 3:53:50 PM #11:	My wife does the same thing. Shes late to everything and if Im late its the end of the world --- https://s6.gifyu.com/images/FAA2F70E-9A97-44BC-A273-317FBB843AE2.gif <cite>darkprince45 posted [p:957495482] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>My wife does the same thing. Shes late to everything and if Im late its the end of the world </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 3:53:55 PM #12:	creativeme posted... having to wait 10 minutes shouldn't really be a big deal either way Thanks I need the validation --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495490] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>creativeme posted... </cite> <quote>having to wait 10 minutes shouldn't really be a big deal either way</quote>Thanks I need the validation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 3:54:49 PM #14:	Dingydang166 posted... Well in the scenario where she waits, how is the place she is waiting? Is she waiting outside? Is it hot/cold? Is it sketchy? She has a desk job sitting in the AC in a pretty nice area. She could sit her happy butt there to wait for me just fine. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495510] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Dingydang166 posted... </cite> <quote>Well in the scenario where she waits, how is the place she is waiting? Is she waiting outside? Is it hot/cold? Is it sketchy?</quote>She has a desk job sitting in the AC in a pretty nice area. She could sit her happy butt there to wait for me just fine. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheOtherMike 08/27/21 3:54:56 PM #15:	Ten minutes is nothing to get upset over, but if you're replying with basically "deal with it because sometimes I wait too" it sounds like you're both egging for a fight and may have some underlying issues. Trivial shit like this shouldn't be a point of contention for either of you. <cite>TheOtherMike posted [p:957495515] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Ten minutes is nothing to get upset over, but if you're replying with basically "deal with it because sometimes I wait too" it sounds like you're both egging for a fight and may have some underlying issues. Trivial shit like this shouldn't be a point of contention for either of you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/27/21 3:54:58 PM #16:	Tell her she's being crazy and she'll settle down. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:957495519] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Tell her she's being crazy and she'll settle down. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 3:58:43 PM #18:	TheOtherMike posted... Ten minutes is nothing to get upset over, but if you're replying with basically "deal with it because sometimes I wait too" it sounds like you're both egging for a fight and may have some underlying issues. Trivial shit like this shouldn't be a point of contention for either of you. I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495612] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>TheOtherMike posted... </cite> <quote>Ten minutes is nothing to get upset over, but if you're replying with basically "deal with it because sometimes I wait too" it sounds like you're both egging for a fight and may have some underlying issues. Trivial shit like this shouldn't be a point of contention for either of you.</quote>I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 3:59:35 PM #19:	OdafeOweh posted... Why is TC using an alt to respond to posts ITT? You can only make 10 topics on a board per 24 hours. I've already made 10 topics for the day on this account so I use my alt to make another topic. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495634] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>OdafeOweh posted... </cite> <quote>Why is TC using an alt to respond to posts ITT?</quote>You can only make 10 topics on a board per 24 hours. I've already made 10 topics for the day on this account so I use my alt to make another topic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PG_Era 08/27/21 4:00:03 PM #20:	OdafeOweh posted... Why is TC using an alt to respond to posts ITT? Why would a woman abuser like yourself even be doing in here? --- Parental Guidance Some material may not be suitable for children under 10. <cite>PG_Era posted [p:957495648] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>OdafeOweh posted... </cite> <quote>Why is TC using an alt to respond to posts ITT?</quote> Why would a woman abuser like yourself even be doing in here? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheOtherMike 08/27/21 4:00:35 PM #21:	Veggeta_MAX posted... I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice. Great reading comprehension there, buddy. <cite>TheOtherMike posted [p:957495660] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice.</quote> Great reading comprehension there, buddy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VanananaHeyHey 08/27/21 4:01:15 PM #22:	Veggeta_MAX posted... I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice. He's saying that anyone old enough to be in a relationship should be able to sit ten minutes waiting, that you both need to keep each other posted and that neither of you has meaningful grounds to turn ten minute waits into fights. Whataboutism always eggs on fights. --- https://imgur.com/vA0mIdX Vanai CE's official linguist, War-tor-le and Charizard <cite>VanananaHeyHey posted [p:957495680] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>I see. I should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me. That's great relationship advice.</quote>He's saying that anyone old enough to be in a relationship should be able to sit ten minutes waiting, that you both need to keep each other posted and that neither of you has meaningful grounds to turn ten minute waits into fights. Whataboutism always eggs on fights. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 4:01:49 PM #24:	TheOtherMike posted... Great reading comprehension there, buddy. Hey man one great assumption deserves another. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495691] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>TheOtherMike posted... </cite> <quote>Great reading comprehension there, buddy.</quote>Hey man one great assumption deserves another. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheOtherMike 08/27/21 4:04:17 PM #25:	Veggeta_MAX posted... Hey man one great assumption deserves another. I didn't make an assumption, and this response doesn't address the fact that in no way did I say or even suggest you "should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me." <cite>TheOtherMike posted [p:957495772] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>Hey man one great assumption deserves another.</quote> I didn't make an assumption, and this response doesn't address the fact that in no way did I say or even suggest you "should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bad_Mojo 08/27/21 4:06:39 PM #26:	She's right. I assume she had to wait outside, and you have to wait in your car. She's more at risk waiting for you than you are waiting for her. But I knew you were in the wrong when I first saw the topic and you put yourself first. "Me and my girlfriend," and not, "My girlfriend and I." --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:957495857] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>She's right. I assume she had to wait outside, and you have to wait in your car. She's more at risk waiting for you than you are waiting for her. But I knew you were in the wrong when I first saw the topic and you put yourself first. "Me and my girlfriend," and not, "My girlfriend and I." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 4:07:57 PM #27:	She could have easily waited in her place of work. And thank goodness, now I know telling someone "Hey I do this for you, can you please do the same for me too" is promoting a fight. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495893] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>She could have easily waited in her place of work. And thank goodness, now I know telling someone "Hey I do this for you, can you please do the same for me too" is promoting a fight. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spikethedevil 08/27/21 4:08:54 PM #28:	shockthemonkey posted... Dont you do that when one of your accounts get suspended for talking about when you sexually assaulted someone? Wait WTF? --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! <cite>spikethedevil posted [p:957495916] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted... </cite> <quote>Dont you do that when one of your accounts get suspended for talking about when you sexually assaulted someone?</quote> Wait WTF? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bad_Mojo 08/27/21 4:09:03 PM #29:	Veggeta_MAX posted... She could have easily waited in her place of work. And thank goodness, now I know telling someone "Hey I do this for you, can you please do the same for me too" is promoting a fight. Not if she didn't know you were going to be late. Now she's locked out --- https://i.imgtc.com/hQ5SuG6.gif https://i.imgtc.com/QrhAq36.gif https://i.imgtc.com/Yjov9DU.gif <cite>Bad_Mojo posted [p:957495921] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>She could have easily waited in her place of work. And thank goodness, now I know telling someone "Hey I do this for you, can you please do the same for me too" is promoting a fight.</quote> Not if she didn't know you were going to be late. Now she's locked out </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 4:10:00 PM #30:	Bad_Mojo posted... Not if she didn't know you were going to be late. Now she's locked out She has keys to her work LMAO. You're prolly thinking she works at BK and has to wait outside for me. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957495954] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Bad_Mojo posted... </cite> <quote>Not if she didn't know you were going to be late. Now she's locked out</quote>She has keys to her work LMAO. You're prolly thinking she works at BK and has to wait outside for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta_MAX 08/27/21 4:12:12 PM #32:	TheOtherMike posted... I didn't make an assumption, and this response doesn't address the fact that in no way did I say or even suggest you "should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me." You made the assumption that my response to her was purposely to instigate and further escalate the issue. So I made an assumption back. Thus "Hey man one great assumption deserves another.". --- I'm Veggeta X's alt <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:957496026] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>TheOtherMike posted... </cite> <quote>I didn't make an assumption, and this response doesn't address the fact that in no way did I say or even suggest you "should wait for her but she shouldn't have to wait for me."</quote>You made the assumption that my response to her was purposely to instigate and further escalate the issue. So I made an assumption back. Thus "Hey man one great assumption deserves another.". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheOtherMike 08/27/21 4:17:19 PM #33:	Veggeta_MAX posted... You made the assumption that my response to her was purposely to instigate and further escalate the issue. Wrong. <cite>TheOtherMike posted [p:957496188] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>You made the assumption that my response to her was purposely to instigate and further escalate the issue.</quote> Wrong. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananana 08/27/21 4:20:18 PM #34:	why do you sometimes have to wait? if work finishes a little late sometimes for her thats not necessarily her fault. if you know youre gonna be ten minutes late and dont just let her know, thats pretty lousy on your end but overall none of this matters literally at all. who cares about whats fair? if either of you are more concerned with getting even than you are with doing whats best for the other thats pretty wack, as tiny as this is --- http://error1355.com/ce/Bananana.html <cite>Bananana posted [p:957496270] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>why do you sometimes have to wait? if work finishes a little late sometimes for her thats not necessarily her fault. if you know youre gonna be ten minutes late and dont just let her know, thats pretty lousy on your end but overall none of this matters literally at all. who cares about whats fair? if either of you are more concerned with getting even than you are with doing whats best for the other thats pretty wack, as tiny as this is </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
One_Day_Remains 08/27/21 4:28:50 PM #35:	You got this from Luelinks didn't you --- Ten sounds sound like bloated constipated arena rock - GhettoFlip <cite>One_Day_Remains posted [p:957496525] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>You got this from Luelinks didn't you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigDD67 08/27/21 4:41:02 PM #36:	Show up 20 minutes late next time and ask her how bad that 10 minute wait was now --- Am I evil? Yes I *** am!! <cite>BigDD67 posted [p:957496910] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Show up 20 minutes late next time and ask her how bad that 10 minute wait was now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 08/27/21 5:17:16 PM #37:	Veggeta_MAX posted... Had to poop but I feel like it shouldn't matter since I'm cool with waiting for her to come out so she should be cool if I'm a bit late. Well, as the person doing the pickup, I feel it's your obligation to be there at the time she says to be there. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:957498060] in Me and my ... [t:79634391]...</cite> <quote>Veggeta_MAX posted... </cite> <quote>Had to poop but I feel like it shouldn't matter since I'm cool with waiting for her to come out so she should be cool if I'm a bit late.</quote>Well, as the person doing the pickup, I feel it's your obligation to be there at the time she says to be there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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