Current Events > Is a 30 years old dating a 21 years old predatory?

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VioletMassacre posted...

In a bad way?

To me, yes. She gets upset we dont go out enough when we go out plenty. These arent cheap dates. I mean like NFL games and amusement parks and shit. I make it a priority to do something with her at least once a week then other days we just chill.

Sometimes you can just tell were at different phases of life. I had my party phase. Im over it. Thats still like the most important thing to her is going out, having fun and Im just at a different place.

I get how she feels but that shit just isnt important to me anymore. I often feel like shes trying to keep up with people who post their whole life on social media. Thats not real life though.

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No. I personally would prefer a woman closer to my age (I'm 32), but if someone wants a relationship like that, nothing wrong with it. They're both adults.

It would be questionable if it was a just barely 18 year old that he'd been talking to since she was like 15. But this one is a non-issue.

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epik_fail1 posted...

The funny thing is that a woman named Trisha Ptasse in her late 30s claimed the age of consent should be 25 years old, but she did onlyfans collab with a 22 years old.

https://youtu.be/_AFuQdmYlIo

Post wall women who are no longer getting male attention hate their younger replacements. That is why they want the age of consent to be older so they have a chance even though most men will still date the younger women.

Notice she will be doing the whole where did all the good men go ? song and dance all these women do being mad that the good men are already married or looking for a woman who is not a single mother as they do not want to be step daddy nor should they be.

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My 33 year old best friend just married his 21 year old girlfriend that he started dating just before COVID lockdowns starting in March 2020. Do I consider that relationship predator? Nope because he's a manchild and she was a single mom with a 3 year old (now 5). They met at church.

Unless we're talking "one person below age of consent, one person above it" I'm judging every relationship on a case by case basis. Trying to black and white pigeonhole almost anything is fucking stupid
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

Post wall women who are no longer getting male attention hate their younger replacements. That is why they want the age of consent to be older so they have a chance even though most men will still date the younger women.

Notice she will be doing the whole where did all the good men go ? song and dance all these women do being mad that the good men are already married or looking for a woman who is not a singlhierarchy.

Only losers and simps take these women. I spent the last 6 years in a relationship with a 8/10 woman who is also compassionate and smart too and she made a shit ton of money, more than me.

My bro is pretty much still a loser, though finally working on it. Very low paying job, broken teeth, overweight, etc. He gets the 35+ year old rejects just looking for a safe landing. The latest one had herpes and only told him after they had sex. He still went on one more date with her before we all made him ghost her.

I recently broke up with my girl, and have only been with 22 to 25 year olds since. Nothing serious yet, but I will not even bother testing the stagnant 35+ waters. A few women at my job are trying to charm me now, even though they know I do not date co-workers, but they're older and shooting shots. They also talk shit about younger women, sad really.

One of them actually thinks I'm going to meet up with her when I get back to NY, lol. Not sure why she thinks that.

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VioletMassacre posted...

That's a bit sad. You'd think you'd be at the same place since there's not a huge gap between you age wise.

Not a huge age gap but there is a huge lifestyle difference between 21-24 and being 27-30. Going out having fun isnt the #1 on thing on my mind. The number one thing is how can I become financially stable and free.

I dont think its sad at all. I support what she wants and she supports what I want. At the end of the day we find a way to balance it out. Life is about balance. Youre not always going to want the exact same thing as your partner. If you did itd be boring.


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Fony posted...

My bro is pretty much still a loser, though finally working on it. Very low paying job, broken teeth, overweight, etc. He gets the 35+ year old rejects just looking for a safe landing. The latest one had herpes and only told him after they had sex. He still went on one more date with her before we all made him ghost her.

50% of the adult population has some form of herpes.

Correction:Estimates say anywhere from two thirds to 80% of the population under 50 has herpes.

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