Current Events > Girl is pissed because I was Date Camping...am I in the wrong?

Topic List
Page List: 1, 2, 3
Chunkey Simmons
10/10/21 8:50:34 PM
#1:


I made a topic about this girl a couple years ago. She got out of a nasty relationship in 2018. Due to her and I talking a lot, I was the expected successor for her next boyfriend. However, when she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship yet, I was cool with it. I'm fine with waiting until she is ready, and again, I'm the expected successor so I didn't mind.

However, she betrayed her promise by dating this other guy. I was pissed. Not only was I expected to succeed her bad bf from 2018, but she didn't tell me about this other guy at all. Due to her being in a relationship, there was nothing I could do except wait until she is single again so I can fulfill the role I was promised.

Every few months I would text her seeing how she was doing, just to see if she was still dating that guy or not (also known as Date Camping). The first 3 months her and I would make small talk here and there, but after the 4th month she stopped responding. A few months after that, her boyfriend texted me to back off and leave her alone. Obviously I don't want a physical confrontation so I left it there, never contacted her or him again.

She broke my heart by saying she wasn't ready yet, and being ready for someone else even though I was supposed to be the successor. So I decided to wait out the relationship (Date Camping) until it ended so I could snoop in. Am I in the wrong here? Or was my strategy smart?

---
The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it!
President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016.
... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli
10/10/21 8:52:02 PM
#2:


You sound pathetic.

---
The Handsomest Man in O-Town.
... Copied to Clipboard!
MarshallStack
10/10/21 8:52:04 PM
#3:


nobody take the bait

---
"it's a flaming wonder, telepath"
... Copied to Clipboard!
Smashingpmkns
10/10/21 8:54:25 PM
#4:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
I was the expected successor for her next boyfriend.

Lmao
---
... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking
10/10/21 8:54:46 PM
#5:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
I was the expected successor

Chunkey Simmons posted...
I'm the expected successor

Chunkey Simmons posted...
I expected to succeed her bad bf

Chunkey Simmons posted...
even though I was supposed to be the successor.

You need a copy editor if you want people to bite.

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
blakenbl00
10/10/21 8:55:30 PM
#6:


I think your strategy was brilliant and you should keep it up.
... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate
10/10/21 8:56:19 PM
#7:


Keep on clinging buddy, it sounds promising. Maybe she's practicing so she can be a worthy partner to you.

---
Above us lay the burdens, Below us lay the truths. We're somewhere in the middle, and we're all discontent too.
Slayer_22 picked waifu - https://ibb.co/WD8p1Kz
... Copied to Clipboard!
EmbraceOfDeath
10/10/21 8:57:27 PM
#8:


Is this a copypasta?

---
PSN/GT: BigDaffej
... Copied to Clipboard!
Laserion
10/10/21 8:58:04 PM
#9:


expected successor

---
There's no "would of", "should of" or "could of".
It's "would've", "should've" and "could've".
... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton
10/10/21 8:59:25 PM
#10:


Thinking anyone at any time has ever been the "expected successor" to a relationship is the dumbest thing I've read all week.

---
https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton
Heartomaton for President 2028.
... Copied to Clipboard!
VigorouslySwish
10/10/21 9:00:24 PM
#11:


(Date Camping)

---
i'm just some guy yellin' about apple sauce
... Copied to Clipboard!
#12
Post #12 was unavailable or deleted.
K181
10/10/21 9:07:29 PM
#13:


Woof...

---
Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less.
... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiritSephiroth
10/10/21 9:09:15 PM
#14:


I swear, CE is getting even weirder and I didn't think that would be possible.

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
RickyTheBAWSE
10/10/21 9:09:21 PM
#15:


sigh...
---
Never let those intent on misunderstanding you be the narrator to YOUR story!
Context? Context!? CONTEXT!!!
... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster
10/10/21 9:10:59 PM
#16:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
However, she betrayed her promise by dating this other guy. I was pissed.
What promise? lol

---
Ryzen 3700X | Evga GTX 1070 Ti | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB
... Copied to Clipboard!
CommonStar
10/10/21 9:11:33 PM
#17:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
However, she betrayed her promise by dating this other guy. I was pissed. Not only was I expected to succeed her bad bf from 2018, but she didn't tell me about this other guy at all.
Where you should've taken the hint and moved on. Just stop pursuing it.
... Copied to Clipboard!
MedeaLysistrata
10/10/21 9:12:47 PM
#18:


Girl problems man

---
"Why is ontology so expensive?" - JH
[Is this live?][Joyless planet...]
... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen
10/10/21 9:13:04 PM
#19:


You act as if she can't just change her mind. People do it all the time. That said...

Anteaterking posted...
You need a copy editor if you want people to bite.

Agreed.

---
Why do nerds always get caught up on the details?
Michael Jordan is both the greatest and most overrated basketball player of all time.
... Copied to Clipboard!
ModLogic
10/10/21 9:13:50 PM
#20:


... Copied to Clipboard!
blakenbl00
10/10/21 9:15:13 PM
#21:


You should text her back and remind her that she promised and if she makes excuses you should stand by your word and your stance. Make her see reason by writing her some poetry and then trying to tell it to her in pieces when she doesn't want to hear it.
... Copied to Clipboard!
obsolete
10/10/21 9:16:21 PM
#22:


Great topic. Got me at first not gonna lie.
... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988
10/10/21 9:19:27 PM
#23:


Nah you did nothing wrong, date camping is a thing lot of guys do and I'm glad the phrase is becoming more acceptable to use

---
"Let's be honest...I'm everybody's type. I just gotta highlight the parts that appeal to her the most" - No_U_L7
... Copied to Clipboard!
St0rmFury
10/10/21 9:21:06 PM
#24:


Wait, title said girl was pissed but TC later said he's the one who's pissed.

Wtf
---
"Average Joe" is a trolling term since it's completely an opinion. "Overachieving" is also an opinion. - SBAllen (Hellhole: 52458377)
... Copied to Clipboard!
David1988
10/10/21 9:22:19 PM
#25:


St0rmFury posted...
Wait, title said girl was pissed but TC later said he's the one who's pissed.

Wtf

He's not pissed, just heartbroken. She's pissed he's date camping so her bf tried to confront him or something

---
"Let's be honest...I'm everybody's type. I just gotta highlight the parts that appeal to her the most" - No_U_L7
... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk
10/10/21 9:22:35 PM
#26:


Anteaterking posted...
You need a copy editor if you want people to bite.
Got em

---
Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon
... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons
10/11/21 8:06:47 PM
#27:


Pepys Monster posted...
What promise? lol
it was basically a guarantee that i was going to be her next boyfriend

---
The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it!
President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016.
... Copied to Clipboard!
#28
Post #28 was unavailable or deleted.
AwesomeFawful
10/11/21 8:08:05 PM
#29:


"expected successor" lmfao

---
"Socialism is when the government does stuff, and it's more socialism the more stuff it does, and when it does a real lot of stuff, that's communism!"
... Copied to Clipboard!
spikethedevil
10/11/21 8:09:56 PM
#30:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
it was basically a guarantee that i was going to be her next boyfriend

So she never actually outright promised anything and you took it the wrong way to then decide to go the route that ends in a restraining order.

---
A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod!
... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons
10/11/21 8:17:49 PM
#31:


spikethedevil posted...
So she never actually outright promised anything and you took it the wrong way to then decide to go the route that ends in a restraining order.
Did you read above? When she broke up with her boyfriend, her an I were talking a LOT, and it was basically common knowledge among out friend group. I was "on deck" for when she was ready to be in a relationship again.

---
The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it!
President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016.
... Copied to Clipboard!
ModLogic
10/11/21 8:20:00 PM
#32:


... Copied to Clipboard!
DocileOrangeCup
10/11/21 8:20:56 PM
#33:


... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2
10/11/21 8:21:20 PM
#34:


Chunkey Simmons posted...
I was the expected successor for her next boyfriend.

peak satire lmao
... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumble
10/11/21 8:21:24 PM
#35:


Heartomaton posted...
Thinking anyone at any time has ever been the "expected successor" to a relationship is the dumbest thing I've read all week.


---
As you change your Trumble, the Trumble on all your posts will be updated to your new Trumble.
... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy
10/11/21 8:22:09 PM
#36:


I'm always torn between "this is obviously fake" and "this is sadly believable" when topics like this come up.

---
"Mr. Fatass. Mr ugly cat! Mr can't even sell for 2 bucks!" ~ Jim Lahey
https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze.
... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace
10/11/21 8:22:47 PM
#37:


is this a copypasta or

---
#BladeGang
... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12
10/11/21 8:23:54 PM
#38:


Lotta responses for a bait topic, tbh

---
I write Naruto Fanfiction.
But I am definitely not a furry.
... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury
10/11/21 8:25:49 PM
#39:


EmbraceOfDeath posted...
Is this a copypasta?

I really hope so

---
Occasionally s***posting in a dead gaming forum
... Copied to Clipboard!
CoolMaskGuy
10/11/21 8:27:57 PM
#40:


DocileOrangeCup posted...
This is like some game of thrones shit

TC went from expected successor to banished to the Wall
... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons
10/12/21 8:09:18 PM
#41:


Heartomaton posted...
Thinking anyone at any time has ever been the "expected successor" to a relationship is the dumbest thing I've read all week.
You don't know my friend group. It was literally expected since day 1. Her and I were VERY close, and all of our friends knew it, even if we never mentioned it or talked about it.

---
The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it!
President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016.
... Copied to Clipboard!
#42
Post #42 was unavailable or deleted.
cjsdowg
10/12/21 8:13:04 PM
#43:


I hope to heaven this isn't real.

I know people really do this. But I would hope that they are this self aware of their actions.


---
To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships.
W.E.B. Du Bois
... Copied to Clipboard!
karmageddon28
10/12/21 8:19:17 PM
#44:


Really, your only option is to challenge the new boyfriend to a duel.
... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac
10/12/21 8:23:35 PM
#45:


did she promise you she would be your next gf? If not you have no right to expect it, none of your business who she dates and she doesnt have to inform you of anything, maybe she should ask you who you think you are , I mean thats my question

---
To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive
... Copied to Clipboard!
Pitlord_Special
10/12/21 8:30:01 PM
#46:


Sounds like you dont have what it takes you press your weak claim on this girl. Youre only of a lowly house and your titles, such as they are, could be easily usurped by this king she has pledged herself to. You would be wise to abandon this scheme my good lord and find another fair lady to make the object of your passions.


---
Posted from my iPhone 13
... Copied to Clipboard!
UndefeatedGOAT
10/12/21 8:33:51 PM
#47:


Wtf she owed you a piece o dat

Dont change a thing, in fact start asking if you ca. be the subsequent successor boyfriend
... Copied to Clipboard!
What_
10/12/21 8:37:21 PM
#48:


MarshallStack posted...
nobody take the bait
Its pretty tasty though; shits mad pathetic
... Copied to Clipboard!
CommunismFTW
10/12/21 8:40:13 PM
#49:


tagged TC as expected successor

---
Since only from below can one better see the heights.
https://imgur.com/OhZgm
... Copied to Clipboard!
CARRRNE_ASADA
10/12/21 9:16:45 PM
#50:


Lmao with this

---
SEXY SEXY!
... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List
Page List: 1, 2, 3