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CarrieChan 11/28/21 10:29:41 PM #52:	Tag <cite>CarrieChan posted [p:960443923] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Tag </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Spiderman23JII 11/28/21 10:31:12 PM #53:	TC is hot? --- buss on life <cite>Spiderman23JII posted [p:960443973] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>TC is hot? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ruvan22 11/28/21 10:36:46 PM #55:	Spiderman23JII posted... TC is hot? Dude what the hell? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:960444162] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Spiderman23JII posted... </cite> <quote>TC is hot?</quote>Dude what the hell? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 11/28/21 10:38:13 PM #56:	Spiderman23JII posted... TC is hot? Surprised, this sort of comment took longer than expected. --- I don't do signatures. <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:960444205] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Spiderman23JII posted... </cite> <quote>TC is hot?</quote>Surprised, this sort of comment took longer than expected. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TeaMilk 11/28/21 10:38:21 PM #57:	i dont have anything to add but holy shit, im really glad you were able to get out. Definitely try getting a restraining order at least. --- http://large.horse/ Show icons on posts: https://openuserjs.org/scripts/melon/GameFAQs_Show_Icon <cite>TeaMilk posted [p:960444207] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>i dont have anything to add but holy shit, im really glad you were able to get out. Definitely try getting a restraining order at least. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apolloooo 11/28/21 10:45:19 PM #58:	report to police --- http://i.imgtc.com/iJyp6bF.png http://i.imgtc.com/ZBw36Qh.png Thanks for the peeps that made the pics <3 if i make typos it means i am on phone <cite>apolloooo posted [p:960444405] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>report to police </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 11/28/21 10:46:23 PM #59:	kbelfisBACK posted... Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing. this is a disservice to the next person he dates/beats. --- #BladeGang <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:960444435] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally I feel bad but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing.</quote>this is a disservice to the next person he dates/beats. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrMallard 11/28/21 10:57:38 PM #60:	Assuming this is about Andrew - honestly, fuck that guy. I'm sorry you went through this, but he always gave me a really bad vibe. Sometimes you find someone who's in pain, and you want to help them even as your relationship worsens and falls apart because despite your differences you don't want them to be hurt. But you should always be looking out for your own wellbeing, even as you try to be a good partner and help someone through their troubles. I don't mean to be rude, but what I've seen regarding Andrew has been really discouraging - picking up dudes off the street to have threesomes without asking you, going into rages due to prior experiences that make you hurt due to your sense of empathy wanting to help someone who's emotionally wounded, stuff like that. Dude's been through a lot, sure, but you shouldn't have to give heaping fistfuls of yourself to him in the hopes of easing his pain. While I don't condone cheating, as was the controversy in that discord chatroom we used to share, I felt like I understood in your case. It seemed like you had found someone who was better for you, who probably made you feel better than the relationship with Andrew did, and the prospect of leaving Andrew was probably incredibly uncomfortable due to the reaction he could have to it, both in how it might hurt him and how it might backfire on you. And while the controversy was over you not splitting up with Andrew - considering what he's like and how he just fucking beat you? I can see why that was a move you had trouble making, even if it was the best thing to do. Because he might have fucking beat you. I'm probably out of line to a degree to say what I'm saying, but Andrew was a scary dude and it's absolutely horrific that he reached a point that he thought that beating you was anything approaching the realm of acceptable. The relationship felt like it was degrading for a long time, from my limited external viewpoint, and I'm glad you're at least out of that relationship and free to make the most of your life without having the shadow of this guy's shit to contend with. Dude had problems and I respect that you felt empathy for him and wanted to help him, but someone hitting you should absolutely be a deal-breaker in any relationship and I think you're right to split up with him. I apologize for the end of your relationship, and for being as candid as I have been in this post, but I legitimately think this is for the best in the long run - even if it takes a while for you to get back on your feet, I hope that going forward, you can be in a better position and hopefully heal from what's happened with Andrew. --- Thought I saw a mouse kicking in your beak, it was only a skeleton Now Playing: Persona 3 FES, Minecraft, Oldschool Runescape <cite>MrMallard posted [p:960444724] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Assuming this is about Andrew - honestly, fuck that guy. I'm sorry you went through this, but he always gave me a really bad vibe. Sometimes you find someone who's in pain, and you want to help them even as your relationship worsens and falls apart because despite your differences you don't want them to be hurt. But you should always be looking out for your own wellbeing, even as you try to be a good partner and help someone through their troubles. I don't mean to be rude, but what I've seen regarding Andrew has been really discouraging - picking up dudes off the street to have threesomes without asking you, going into rages due to prior experiences that make you hurt due to your sense of empathy wanting to help someone who's emotionally wounded, stuff like that. Dude's been through a lot, sure, but you shouldn't have to give heaping fistfuls of yourself to him in the hopes of easing his pain. While I don't condone cheating, as was the controversy in that discord chatroom we used to share, I felt like I understood in your case. It seemed like you had found someone who was better for you, who probably made you feel better than the relationship with Andrew did, and the prospect of leaving Andrew was probably incredibly uncomfortable due to the reaction he could have to it, both in how it might hurt him and how it might backfire on you. And while the controversy was over you not splitting up with Andrew - considering what he's like and how he just fucking beat you? I can see why that was a move you had trouble making, even if it was the best thing to do. Because he might have fucking beat you. I'm probably out of line to a degree to say what I'm saying, but Andrew was a scary dude and it's absolutely horrific that he reached a point that he thought that beating you was anything approaching the realm of acceptable. The relationship felt like it was degrading for a long time, from my limited external viewpoint, and I'm glad you're at least out of that relationship and free to make the most of your life without having the shadow of this guy's shit to contend with. Dude had problems and I respect that you felt empathy for him and wanted to help him, but someone hitting you should absolutely be a deal-breaker in any relationship and I think you're right to split up with him. I apologize for the end of your relationship, and for being as candid as I have been in this post, but I legitimately think this is for the best in the long run - even if it takes a while for you to get back on your feet, I hope that going forward, you can be in a better position and hopefully heal from what's happened with Andrew. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 11/28/21 11:02:58 PM #61:	Just remember what happened to Gabby Petito. She went back to her abuser. And he killed her. <cite>Zikten posted [p:960444882] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Just remember what happened to Gabby Petito. She went back to her abuser. And he killed her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Spiderman23JII 11/28/21 11:26:58 PM #62:	bulletproofvita posted... Surprised, this sort of comment took longer than expected. TC made a comment about making a account on that site so why wouldn't I ask --- buss on life <cite>Spiderman23JII posted [p:960445457] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>bulletproofvita posted... </cite> <quote>Surprised, this sort of comment took longer than expected.</quote> TC made a comment about making a account on that site so why wouldn't I ask </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Spiderman23JII 11/28/21 11:30:50 PM #63:	kbelfisBACK posted... well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;) --- buss on life <cite>Spiderman23JII posted [p:960445536] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>well some good can come out of this I can make an account on THAT site now ;)</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 11/28/21 11:37:13 PM #64:	I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops. --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:960445713] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rayman2943 11/28/21 11:39:21 PM #65:	dj1200 posted... I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops. Victim blaming <cite>Rayman2943 posted [p:960445764] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite> <quote>I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops.</quote>Victim blaming </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 11/28/21 11:59:44 PM #66:	JimmyFraska posted... While in spirit I agree with "Report him to help someone else." it's also absolutely, 100% NOT on you to report him, an it's NOT on you if he hurts anyone else. Who would it be on to report him? --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:960446256] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted... </cite> <quote>While in spirit I agree with "Report him to help someone else." it's also absolutely, 100% NOT on you to report him, an it's NOT on you if he hurts anyone else.</quote>Who would it be on to report him? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaZooo 11/29/21 12:18:13 AM #67:	MrMallard posted... Not to insert my opinion here, but wow fuck that guy. --- Competing every night, both ends, shoot inside/outside, fast break, transition, Monta Ellis have it all <cite>KaZooo posted [p:960446634] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>MrMallard posted... </cite> Not to insert my opinion here, but wow fuck that guy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kakapo 11/29/21 12:19:53 AM #68:	dj1200 posted... I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops. Wow, way to be a victim-blaming turd. --- Did my singing please you? No, the words you sang were wrong 24 hour party parrot <cite>Kakapo posted [p:960446677] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>dj1200 posted... </cite> <quote>I have no sympathy for you because you didnt call the cops.</quote>Wow, way to be a victim-blaming turd. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 11/29/21 12:34:42 AM #69:	Call the cops if he baits them its not your problem, if you dont call I hope your parents call, if i had a daughter and this happened that guy would be in jail for sure , or the hospital --- No worries no, dilemmas no <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:960447018] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Call the cops if he baits them its not your problem, if you dont call I hope your parents call, if i had a daughter and this happened that guy would be in jail for sure , or the hospital </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaiganeer 11/29/21 12:39:32 AM #70:	MrMallard posted... Assuming this is about Andrew - honestly, fuck that guy. I'm sorry you went through this, but he always gave me a really bad vibe. Sometimes you find someone who's in pain, and you want to help them even as your relationship worsens and falls apart because despite your differences you don't want them to be hurt. But you should always be looking out for your own wellbeing, even as you try to be a good partner and help someone through their troubles. I don't mean to be rude, but what I've seen regarding Andrew has been really discouraging - picking up dudes off the street to have threesomes without asking you, going into rages due to prior experiences that make you hurt due to your sense of empathy wanting to help someone who's emotionally wounded, stuff like that. Dude's been through a lot, sure, but you shouldn't have to give heaping fistfuls of yourself to him in the hopes of easing his pain. While I don't condone cheating, as was the controversy in that discord chatroom we used to share, I felt like I understood in your case. It seemed like you had found someone who was better for you, who probably made you feel better than the relationship with Andrew did, and the prospect of leaving Andrew was probably incredibly uncomfortable due to the reaction he could have to it, both in how it might hurt him and how it might backfire on you. And while the controversy was over you not splitting up with Andrew - considering what he's like and how he just fucking beat you? I can see why that was a move you had trouble making, even if it was the best thing to do. Because he might have fucking beat you. I'm probably out of line to a degree to say what I'm saying, but Andrew was a scary dude and it's absolutely horrific that he reached a point that he thought that beating you was anything approaching the realm of acceptable. The relationship felt like it was degrading for a long time, from my limited external viewpoint, and I'm glad you're at least out of that relationship and free to make the most of your life without having the shadow of this guy's shit to contend with. Dude had problems and I respect that you felt empathy for him and wanted to help him, but someone hitting you should absolutely be a deal-breaker in any relationship and I think you're right to split up with him. I apologize for the end of your relationship, and for being as candid as I have been in this post, but I legitimately think this is for the best in the long run - even if it takes a while for you to get back on your feet, I hope that going forward, you can be in a better position and hopefully heal from what's happened with Andrew. wait, so this happened because tc was cheating on the dude? doesn't excuse violence obviously but that's still fucked up <cite>Kaiganeer posted [p:960447118] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>MrMallard posted... </cite> <quote>Assuming this is about Andrew - honestly, fuck that guy. I'm sorry you went through this, but he always gave me a really bad vibe. Sometimes you find someone who's in pain, and you want to help them even as your relationship worsens and falls apart because despite your differences you don't want them to be hurt. But you should always be looking out for your own wellbeing, even as you try to be a good partner and help someone through their troubles. I don't mean to be rude, but what I've seen regarding Andrew has been really discouraging - picking up dudes off the street to have threesomes without asking you, going into rages due to prior experiences that make you hurt due to your sense of empathy wanting to help someone who's emotionally wounded, stuff like that. Dude's been through a lot, sure, but you shouldn't have to give heaping fistfuls of yourself to him in the hopes of easing his pain. While I don't condone cheating, as was the controversy in that discord chatroom we used to share, I felt like I understood in your case. It seemed like you had found someone who was better for you, who probably made you feel better than the relationship with Andrew did, and the prospect of leaving Andrew was probably incredibly uncomfortable due to the reaction he could have to it, both in how it might hurt him and how it might backfire on you. And while the controversy was over you not splitting up with Andrew - considering what he's like and how he just fucking beat you? I can see why that was a move you had trouble making, even if it was the best thing to do. Because he might have fucking beat you. I'm probably out of line to a degree to say what I'm saying, but Andrew was a scary dude and it's absolutely horrific that he reached a point that he thought that beating you was anything approaching the realm of acceptable. The relationship felt like it was degrading for a long time, from my limited external viewpoint, and I'm glad you're at least out of that relationship and free to make the most of your life without having the shadow of this guy's shit to contend with. Dude had problems and I respect that you felt empathy for him and wanted to help him, but someone hitting you should absolutely be a deal-breaker in any relationship and I think you're right to split up with him. I apologize for the end of your relationship, and for being as candid as I have been in this post, but I legitimately think this is for the best in the long run - even if it takes a while for you to get back on your feet, I hope that going forward, you can be in a better position and hopefully heal from what's happened with Andrew.</quote>wait, so this happened because tc was cheating on the dude? doesn't excuse violence obviously but that's still fucked up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrMallard 11/29/21 1:09:43 AM #72:	Kaiganeer posted... wait, so this happened because tc was cheating on the dude? doesn't excuse violence obviously but that's still fucked up No, I don't know what led to the guy hitting her. They had some troubles earlier this year, which is what I'm referring to. And yeah, in hindsight this was definitely a bit much. I apologize. Just know going forward that without belf talking about what happened, we don't know what led to the incident itt. Please don't assume it was cheating, because frankly her boyfriend was a sketchy, angry dude the entire time I knew him, even before they had their troubles. --- Thought I saw a mouse kicking in your beak, it was only a skeleton Now Playing: Persona 3 FES, Minecraft, Oldschool Runescape <cite>MrMallard posted [p:960447714] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Kaiganeer posted... </cite> <quote>wait, so this happened because tc was cheating on the dude? doesn't excuse violence obviously but that's still fucked up</quote>No, I don't know what led to the guy hitting her. They had some troubles earlier this year, which is what I'm referring to. And yeah, in hindsight this was definitely a bit much. I apologize. Just know going forward that without belf talking about what happened, we don't know what led to the incident itt. Please don't assume it was cheating, because frankly her boyfriend was a sketchy, angry dude the entire time I knew him, even before they had their troubles. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teep_ 11/29/21 1:12:24 AM #73:	Stay safe TC There are valid reasons for not reporting him, but "I don't want him to suffer" is not one of them imo --- teep does not dream of logical witch <cite>teep_ posted [p:960447757] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Stay safe TC There are valid reasons for not reporting him, but "I don't want him to suffer" is not one of them imo</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aitz 11/29/21 1:38:55 AM #74:	Damn, sorry to hear that TC. I hope you are doing better now. I get that you dont want to involve cops because you dont want him to suffer but he may try to hurt you again. At least get a restraining order and stay safe --- Fire Emblem Heroes: 1691818076 Target: Get all Celicas <3 at +10 Celica counts: OG! Celica +2 - F!Celica +1 - B!Celica x1 - L!Celica +10! <cite>Aitz posted [p:960448228] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Damn, sorry to hear that TC. I hope you are doing better now. I get that you dont want to involve cops because you dont want him to suffer but he may try to hurt you again. At least get a restraining order and stay safe </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 11/29/21 1:41:15 AM #75:	:'( Remember that time when Alfred told Bruce Wayne that one day he'd be right and wouldn't want to say "I told you so" when it finally happened? That day came. I told you for such a long time that you needed to leave him. And I knew this was going to happen. I'm not surprised it happened. I'm just really, really sad and worried about you because you have to live with the aftermath now. Stay safe and never go near him alone. You need to be looking forward. Just... I'm so sorry. :'( --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:960448262] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>:'( Remember that time when Alfred told Bruce Wayne that one day he'd be right and wouldn't want to say "I told you so" when it finally happened? That day came. I told you for such a long time that you needed to leave him. And I knew this was going to happen. I'm not surprised it happened. I'm just really, really sad and worried about you because you have to live with the aftermath now. Stay safe and never go near him alone. You need to be looking forward. Just... I'm so sorry. :'( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ProudlyHated87 11/29/21 2:56:14 AM #77:	Conflict posted... What's wrong with you? Who walks into a topic like this and says "I told you so" Jesus. sometimes people need to face the music. --- Ryzen 9 5900X \| EVGA RTX 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| ASUS ROG Strix X570 \| 32GB 3600Mhz Corsair Vengeance \| Corsair RM1000X PSU \| 2TB Samsung EVO 970 \| LianLi o11 Dynamic <cite>ProudlyHated87 posted [p:960449352] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Conflict posted... </cite> <quote>What's wrong with you? Who walks into a topic like this and says "I told you so" Jesus.</quote> sometimes people need to face the music. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rittenhouse_Yes 11/29/21 3:03:05 AM #78:	kbelfisBACK posted... Nt goes in the topic title K <cite>Rittenhouse_Yes posted [p:960449429] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>Nt goes in the topic title</quote>K </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
greyfox747 11/29/21 3:06:13 AM #79:	God, Im so sorry --- Officially Certified Gamer Girl in 23 states <cite>greyfox747 posted [p:960449458] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>God, Im so sorry </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sLaCkEr408___RJ 11/29/21 3:08:17 AM #80:	Report your ex to save him and potentially others from a similar or worse fate <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:960449480] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Report your ex to save him and potentially others from a similar or worse fate </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kbelfisBACK 11/29/21 10:24:45 AM #84:	I'm just going between numb and crying today. I love him so much but I already finalized everything with work. It's over I guess. <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960455163] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I'm just going between numb and crying today. I love him so much but I already finalized everything with work. It's over I guess. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ElatedVenusaur 11/29/21 11:18:22 AM #86:	Could ya'll not turn this topic into a warzone? For the woman who just escaped an abusive relationship and doesn't need more goddamned petty drama? Please? --- I'm Queen of Tomorrow baby! She/her <cite>ElatedVenusaur posted [p:960456386] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Could ya'll not turn this topic into a warzone? For the woman who just escaped an abusive relationship and doesn't need more goddamned petty drama? Please? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MutantJohn 11/29/21 11:24:03 AM #88:	I wouldn't recommend coming to CE with this kind of stuff --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:960456525] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I wouldn't recommend coming to CE with this kind of stuff </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 11/29/21 11:28:14 AM #89:	kbelfisBACK posted... Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy And how much mercy did he show as he was bouncing your head off a fucking wall? Abusers do not deserve your mercy bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail. Real winner you're protecting there. Lemme guess, he has prior for beating the shit out of women He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally Boo fucking hoo. His mental health is not your responsibility. And again, he didn't show much consideration for your wellbeing while beating your ass. I feel bad Don't. Guarantee he doesn't fell bad about what he did. but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing. And in what world does facing zero consequences for beating the shit out of you teach him a lesson that that's beyond unacceptable and not to do that? Not that woman abusers change, but you're leaving the door wide open for him to do it to his next gf. Why wouldn't he? Last one didn't care enough to report it. --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:960456627] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>Hey y'all sorry everyone's been pretty much been blowing me up all day. I don't want to get the cops involved also partially bc it's my last act of mercy</quote> And how much mercy did he show as he was bouncing your head off a fucking wall? Abusers do not deserve your mercy <quote>bc he's absolutely afraid of going back to jail.</quote> Real winner you're protecting there. Lemme guess, he has prior for beating the shit out of women <quote>He's just as fragile as I am right now mentally</quote> Boo fucking hoo. His mental health is not your responsibility. And again, he didn't show much consideration for your wellbeing while beating your ass. <quote>I feel bad</quote> Don't. Guarantee he doesn't fell bad about what he did. <quote>but I cant personally keep putting myself at risk for someone who doesn't want to put effort into growing and changing.</quote> And in what world does facing zero consequences for beating the shit out of you teach him a lesson that that's beyond unacceptable and not to do that? Not that woman abusers change, but you're leaving the door wide open for him to do it to his next gf. Why wouldn't he? Last one didn't care enough to report it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 11/29/21 11:39:09 AM #90:	You should absolutely involve the cops. He doesn't deserve any mercy from you whatsoever, send that fucker back to jail. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:960456933] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>You should absolutely involve the cops. He doesn't deserve any mercy from you whatsoever, send that fucker back to jail. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 11/29/21 12:08:16 PM #91:	Turbam posted... You should absolutely involve the cops. He doesn't deserve any mercy from you whatsoever, send that fucker back to jail. This. People who are "afraid of going back to jail" don't continue to break the law by beating the shit out of people who love them. If nothing else, when (not if) he does it to his next partner hopefully they do the right thing and report it. The prosecutor can cite your case as he has a history of DV and give a harsher sentence. Otherwise the defense will claim it was a onevtie isolated incident, totally out of character blah blah. Doing nothing helps nobody and puts his next partner in greater danger since you've established this behavior is OK in his mind. --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:960457776] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Turbam posted... </cite> <quote>You should absolutely involve the cops. He doesn't deserve any mercy from you whatsoever, send that fucker back to jail.</quote> This. People who are "afraid of going back to jail" don't continue to break the law by beating the shit out of people who love them. If nothing else, when (not if) he does it to his next partner hopefully they do the right thing and report it. The prosecutor can cite your case as he has a history of DV and give a harsher sentence. Otherwise the defense will claim it was a onevtie isolated incident, totally out of character blah blah. Doing nothing helps nobody and puts his next partner in greater danger since you've established this behavior is OK in his mind. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 11/29/21 12:17:41 PM #92:	Conflict posted... What's wrong with you? Who walks into a topic like this and says "I told you so" Jesus. ... You're shitting me --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:960457988] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Conflict posted... </cite> <quote>What's wrong with you? Who walks into a topic like this and says "I told you so" Jesus.</quote>... You're shitting me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lokison 11/29/21 12:51:56 PM #94:	Tag for after work. My current GF went through something similar with her ex. I'm sorry to hear that TC and I hope you have the support you need. --- Word from the wise: Don't run in the shower. <cite>Lokison posted [p:960458941] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>Tag for after work. My current GF went through something similar with her ex. I'm sorry to hear that TC and I hope you have the support you need. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 11/29/21 12:54:04 PM #95:	metallica846 posted... Did you REALLY think an I told ya so was appropriate right now? Who give a shit if you were right or wrong? Read the room. That's not what I said at all and portraying it as that is pretty fucking sad --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:960459004] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>metallica846 posted... </cite> <quote>Did you REALLY think an I told ya so was appropriate right now? Who give a shit if you were right or wrong? Read the room.</quote>That's not what I said at all and portraying it as that is pretty fucking sad </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Machete 11/29/21 12:56:37 PM #96:	jesus christ. sorry to hear that :( --- I do not receive notifications, so using the @ feature will not do anything. I might see your post and respond though if I have already been in the topic. <cite>Machete posted [p:960459076] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>jesus christ. sorry to hear that :( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 11/29/21 12:57:35 PM #97:	The police should be told about what happened. Even if you don't file charges I think it would be best to make an incident report of some kind, just so they know that it happened. You want to have a case against him in the event of needing a restraining order or some sort of protection. Also, he should have a mark against him for this. It's never, never okay to physically abuse a romantic partner. That's criminal shit, like literally criminal. It's a horrific thing to do. It's worse than lying, it's worse than cheating, it's worse than shouting. Actual physical abuse should at least be written down in a case file someplace. Like others are saying, you see it as mercy not to report this to the police, but really it's just giving him a chance to do it again, either to you or somebody else. It's your choice in the end, but I would highly encourage you to contact police (at least as a means to collect your belongings, preferably while he's at work or someplace else). --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:960459101] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>The police should be told about what happened. Even if you don't file charges I think it would be best to make an incident report of some kind, just so they know that it happened. You want to have a case against him in the event of needing a restraining order or some sort of protection. Also, he should have a mark against him for this. It's never, never okay to physically abuse a romantic partner. That's criminal shit, like literally criminal. It's a horrific thing to do. It's worse than lying, it's worse than cheating, it's worse than shouting. Actual physical abuse should at least be written down in a case file someplace. Like others are saying, you see it as mercy not to report this to the police, but really it's just giving him a chance to do it again, either to you or somebody else. It's your choice in the end, but I would highly encourage you to contact police (at least as a means to collect your belongings, preferably while he's at work or someplace else). </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kbelfisBACK 11/29/21 1:00:18 PM #99:	I have a myriad of other reasons for not reporting him. Those are mine and mine alone and I'm not gonna do it just to appease CE sorry. <cite>kbelfisBACK posted [p:960459187] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>I have a myriad of other reasons for not reporting him. Those are mine and mine alone and I'm not gonna do it just to appease CE sorry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 11/29/21 1:02:54 PM #100:	kbelfisBACK posted... I have a myriad of other reasons for not reporting him. Those are mine and mine alone and I'm not gonna do it just to appease CE sorry. In the end, it's your decision, always. Handle it however you feel is right, just be careful about him down the road. At the very least, I say that you should never let him talk you into getting back together with him. He burned that bridge. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:960459271] in (ex)bf bea... [t:79784399]...</cite> <quote>kbelfisBACK posted... </cite> <quote>I have a myriad of other reasons for not reporting him. Those are mine and mine alone and I'm not gonna do it just to appease CE sorry.</quote>In the end, it's your decision, always. Handle it however you feel is right, just be careful about him down the road. At the very least, I say that you should never let him talk you into getting back together with him. He burned that bridge. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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