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insomniacRA
12/29/21 7:21:25 AM
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There's a girl I've only known for 2 days. We basically met at a hospital as patients. I'd say I kind of clicked with her pretty well. She liked the same movies as me, and also had a similar taste in youtube videos. We often played board games together and sometimes cards with the staff. Unfortunately, she ended up leaving early, so on the day of departure she came up to me and our conversation went like this:

"Hey I'm leaving, nice to see you"
Me: Yeah nice seeing you too, I'm going to miss ya. Keep in touch
"Do you have discord?"
Me: no but do you have a number?
"Here wait write down your number. I'll text ya when I get back home"
Me: okay sure. Take care! good luck with everything

6 days counting and no text. What happened? Is it possible that she intentionally didn't want to give me her number? Would it have been too presumptuous of me to ask again for it? Can somebody please analyze what happened because my mind is ruminating everywhere.
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Mistere Man
12/29/21 7:23:47 AM
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She probably didnt want to give you her phone number, and just wanted to be online buddies on discord.

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Njolk
12/29/21 7:24:25 AM
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When I traveled a lot this happens all the time in hostels

When you get back to your normal life you realize how that was just a relationship in that weird moment in time and you have no will to continue anything with that person

Just leave it

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bigblu89
12/29/21 7:31:57 AM
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Njolk posted...
When I traveled a lot this happens all the time in hostels

When you get back to your normal life you realize how that was just a relationship in that weird moment in time and you have no will to continue anything with that person

Just leave it
This.

Kinda like when you make 1 week friends when you go on vacation.

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insomniacRA
12/29/21 7:44:48 AM
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Dang...I was kind of fantasizing a rom-comedy scenario where boy meets girl. Girl rejects boy initially, but eventually falls in love when he courts her with his personality.
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gunplagirl
12/29/21 7:48:42 AM
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insomniacRA posted...
Dang...I was kind of fantasizing a rom-comedy scenario where boy meets girl. Girl rejects boy initially, but eventually falls in love when he courts her with his personality.
That isn't real life and thinking it is possible is fine but ruminating on it will only hurt you.

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Tom Clark
12/29/21 7:56:22 AM
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insomniacRA posted...
Dang...I was kind of fantasizing a rom-comedy scenario where boy meets girl. Girl rejects boy initially, but eventually falls in love when he courts her with his personality.


If it was a romcom then the two of you would end up in hospital together again multiple times, usually coinciding with major holidays like Valentine's Day, Christmas, Halloween etc. It would be called "Lovesick", the tagline would be "Can love cure everything?" and everyone would hate it.

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Mistere Man
12/29/21 7:58:54 AM
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insomniacRA posted...
Dang...I was kind of fantasizing a rom-comedy scenario where boy meets girl. Girl rejects boy initially, but eventually falls in love when he courts her with his personality.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x-fkSYDtUY

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superman 2000
12/29/21 8:00:36 AM
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Tom Clark posted...
If it was a romcom then the two of you would end up in hospital together again multiple times, usually coinciding with major holidays like Valentine's Day, Christmas, Halloween etc. It would be called "Lovesick", the tagline would be "Can love cure everything?" and everyone would hate it.

Lmao

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LinkDaLunatic
12/29/21 8:01:56 AM
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insomniacRA posted...
Dang...I was kind of fantasizing a rom-comedy scenario where boy meets girl. Girl rejects boy initially, but eventually falls in love when he courts her with his personality.
dude... wtf? you knew her for two days, chill...

the onitis gets so strong with users here lol
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AsucaHayashi
12/29/21 8:04:37 AM
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>girl
>asks to keep in touch via discord

wut

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superman 2000
12/29/21 8:18:37 AM
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LinkDaLunatic posted...
dude... wtf? you knew her for two days, chill...

the onitis gets so strong with users here lol

I mean, there are still people who believe in love at first sight lol at least TC here had something vaguely akin to an actual date.

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Kitt
12/29/21 8:38:57 AM
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Tom Clark posted...
If it was a romcom then the two of you would end up in hospital together again multiple times, usually coinciding with major holidays like Valentine's Day, Christmas, Halloween etc. It would be called "Lovesick", the tagline would be "Can love cure everything?" and everyone would hate it.
Lmao

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insomniacRA
12/29/21 8:47:28 AM
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AsucaHayashi posted...
>girl
>asks to keep in touch via discord

wut
She kind of gave off the demeanor of an e-thot gamer girl. Visualize a punk looking skinny blonde girl who dyed her hair black with blue highlights. Her favorite movie is the Big Lebowski and she likes to play sudoku and checkers. Apparently her favorite past time is getting stoned and eating taco bell for munchies. She fits the profile of a discord user.

I'm just speculating here but...maybe girls like her are too edgy not to use a phone and would prefer discord instead? Maybe she's too broke and only resorts to using wifi on her phone?

Or maybe she's just not into me and was just being nice =(
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Jiek_Fafn
12/29/21 8:49:54 AM
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Youre describing an updated version of Grease only she's probably not going to attend your school next semester. On the upside, you'll probably get a flying car.

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Strider102
12/29/21 9:39:05 AM
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You were just a hospital fling/buddy.

There was never anything there, it was just the boredom, loneliness, etc.

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Jefejonny
12/29/21 9:44:43 AM
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Strider102 posted...
You were just a hospital fling/buddy.

There was never anything there, it was just the boredom, loneliness, etc.
This time to move on champ youll get her next time

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Cocytus
12/30/21 9:12:37 AM
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You could probably go up and ask her.
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Kiyune
12/30/21 2:28:53 PM
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AsucaHayashi posted...
>girl
>asks to keep in touch via discord

wut
Sounds like me

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insomniacRA
12/30/21 11:39:37 PM
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yup...my rational thought process at the time was... "wow she's so beautiful, I can't believe she's giving me the time of day, this must be a sign from the universe."

Cute girls give me apophenia and I start making connections to things that are completely unrelated. Having shitty low self-esteem really sucks.
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