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Solid Sonic
01/01/22 9:08:34 PM
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Sometimes I really think some people need to know that they're bothering me and I wish they wouldn't but then I'm worried that I said something too far and I start trying to walk it back.

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Lost_All_Senses
01/01/22 9:10:00 PM
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You could just stop talking about stuff that you know pisses people off. You probably know by now from personal experience that it doesn't change people.

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Solid Sonic
01/01/22 9:13:49 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You could just stop talking about stuff that you know pisses people off. You probably know by now from personal experience that it doesn't change people.

I'm talking about in real life, not this zoo.

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Lost_All_Senses
01/01/22 9:15:59 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
I'm talking about in real life, not this zoo.

It's done nothing but served me IRL. What is it stopping you from getting or doing in every day life? I don't understand the negative in avoiding conflict. That's usually seen as being the bigger person

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Solid Sonic
01/01/22 9:18:59 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
It's done nothing but served me IRL. What is it stopping you from getting or doing in every day life? I don't understand the negative in avoiding conflict. That's usually seen as being the bigger person

Mostly because I have to interact with those people later and I'd rather not have a lingering sense of how annoyed I am.

Like I'm talking about people I might consider "friends" here. It's just their personality has a high chance of getting on my nerves.

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nfearurspecimn
01/01/22 9:19:50 PM
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Who needs friends?

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Guide
01/01/22 9:20:49 PM
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The smelly coworker will appreciate being told, in confidence, that they smell, at least past the initial embarrassment.

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Lost_All_Senses
01/01/22 9:34:08 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
Mostly because I have to interact with those people later and I'd rather not have a lingering sense of how annoyed I am.

Like I'm talking about people I might consider "friends" here. It's just their personality has a high chance of getting on my nerves.

I don't see how the TT connects tho. You continuing to confront them would probably just make them less annoying. Unless you mean over little things. Then, yeah, I guess try to be less empathetic and more assertive. In my experience, that doesn't piss people off if you're overall a friendly and helpful person.

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MabusIncarnate
01/01/22 9:45:09 PM
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No one is gonna get along with you 100% of the time, its just how much and often it gets to you decides if they are still gonna be your friend. Adapt and deal or move on. This is why I have like 2 friends and I've moved on from many over the years.

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Solid Sonic
01/01/22 9:57:58 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
No one is gonna get along with you 100% of the time, its just how much and often it gets to you decides if they are still gonna be your friend. Adapt and deal or move on. This is why I have like 2 friends and I've moved on from many over the years.

I get that but it's when I need to be firm about my own conviction in a conversation I don't like is where I get gun-shy. Some people can just be assertive with people in their lives but I'm always dwelling on how hard I'm being towards others.

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