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E_S_M_Z
01/05/22 1:15:22 PM
#407:


TC's been killing himself for days, we tell him to talk to her, he does and now the situation is over. Simple as that, don't see what the issue is.

No, she didn't care about NYE after all, so she said so and...the world continued to turn anyway, exactly like I said. I don't get why this is a problem.

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bsp77
01/05/22 1:15:57 PM
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Ideally, it could have been teased out better. I did say this: "He should talk to her in person (I wouldn't text again) and tease out if that's what it is and then apologize if needed. I am good at doing that in person, but I know not everyone is." And you never really recommended that avenue anyway.

If there is potential between them, then I don't think this is a big deal, as they need to talk. She has been acting weird and he isn't happy with it. And she did cut off communication in the middle of a conversation. That is a dick thing to do, and something is wrong. You don't just cut off social media mid conversation and then act like everything is fine a week later. She must know that would have left him hanging. Once again, huge red flag. So I view this whole thing as either fix it or end it, because this is ridiculous.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 1:20:57 PM
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"I feel like I'm crazy right now"

"You kinda are but I still enjoy you lol"

And at one point she giggled, patted my shoulder and said "you overthink things"

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E_S_M_Z
01/05/22 1:24:24 PM
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Doom_Art posted...


And at one point she giggled, patted my shoulder and said "you overthink things"

That would sum up this topic...

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bsp77
01/05/22 1:29:30 PM
#414:


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Yeah, not an argument, at least not in the emotional sense. More of a respectful debate.

I think this type of discussion between us only happened once before? (That was a shitshow and there was no helping that). I actually do learn from you, as my autism and anxiety can sometimes make me force a situation when maybe I shouldn't. On the other hand, I like being able to communicate. I have a lot of confidence (sometimes too much) and self worth, but man anxiety can sometimes be a bitch.

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bsp77
01/05/22 1:29:54 PM
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Doom_Art posted...
"I feel like I'm crazy right now"

"You kinda are but I still enjoy you lol"

And at one point she giggled, patted my shoulder and said "you overthink things"
Good. Now go fuck.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 1:31:30 PM
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The crazy comment was a thing I said after I had repeatedly left and come back to keep asking questions about stuff

But yeah I don't think I'm crazy for being hurt by this but I don't think what she did is irredeemable by any stretch

Regardless I'm stepping back now lol

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bsp77
01/05/22 1:31:59 PM
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Yep. As I said, deciding to cut out social media mid conversation with you is not cool. I still say she could have been annoyed with you, but maybe not. Either way, she had to know she was going to leave you hanging.

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MrKapowski
01/05/22 2:26:54 PM
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What a roller coaster this has been

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 2:47:02 PM
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Yeah I'd be a lot angrier if this were like an actual relationship

As is it's still shitty but she doesn't really owe me anything lol

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KaZooo
01/05/22 3:08:29 PM
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Wow congrats tc. Get in there.

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ghettoraider81
01/05/22 3:29:18 PM
#423:


You need to figure out once and for all what you want with her. Is clear that right now you think more of her than she does of you.

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Shamino
01/05/22 4:08:09 PM
#424:


ghettoraider81 posted...
You need to figure out once and for all what you want with her. Is clear that right now you think more of her than she does of you.
This is the crux of the problem. And I doubt chasing her will win her over.
TC, you've done what you can. Digger further won't help, because the missed messages were her answer.
Just turn this into a strictly professional relationship.
Don't ask to hang out, don't text, don't call.
Better to just go as cold turkey as possible, because the alternative will be you searching for any little sign that she is interested in you still and most likely misreading it.
If you still want to be friends, ask yourself why. Is because you really want to be friends, or is it because you hope it will lead to more?
If it's because you want to be friends, I think that's a mistake, but if it's because you think it will lead to more, it's a trainwreck. Never goes well.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 4:23:09 PM
#425:


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Yeah I didn't wanna poke too much while there. Things seemed to be "fine", and I'm fine with that.

I'm gonna give her some space tbh. She's clearly either not terribly interested in me or has some stuff up. I got other stuff I can do and other folks I can focus on in the meantime.

I asked her if she wants to hangout again then she can reach out. She was receptive to that but eh.

ghettoraider81 posted...
You need to figure out once and for all what you want with her. Is clear that right now you think more of her than she does of you.

Yeah I think I'm fine to do either just friends or maybe another casual thing? This whole experience kinda soured me on the prospect of seriously dating this person.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 4:33:39 PM
#427:


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I had to know lol, it's my flaw.

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Eh that's true lol

Regardless, we'll see where things end up in the end I guess.

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Steve Nick
01/05/22 4:40:50 PM
#428:


I missed pages 6 through 42.

Someone tl;dr me. 10 words or less, I'm on a schedule.

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E_S_M_Z
01/05/22 4:43:40 PM
#429:


Steve Nick posted...
I missed pages 6 through 42.

Someone tl;dr me. 10 words or less, I'm on a schedule.

CE argues. TC talks to girl, feels better and gets one of those endings where hardly anything is actually resolved but the movie just kind of runs out of events and ends. Potential sequel??? Unknown.

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E_S_M_Z
01/05/22 4:44:40 PM
#430:


E_S_M_Z posted...
CE argues. TC talks to girl, feels better and gets one of those endings where hardly anything is actually resolved but the movie just kind of runs out of events and ends. Potential sequel??? Unknown.

By 10 words or less, you meant 35 words, right? OK, then we're cool.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 4:57:13 PM
#431:


E_S_M_Z posted...
CE argues. TC talks to girl, feels better and gets one of those endings where hardly anything is actually resolved but the movie just kind of runs out of events and ends. Potential sequel??? Unknown.


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gamepimp12
01/05/22 5:14:08 PM
#432:


This is why being direct and address something bothering you as direct as possible as quickly as you feel comfortable is the way to go.

Bruh stressed over being ignored for 3 days when it was obvious from the jump it probably had nothing to do with him.

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Steve Nick
01/05/22 5:51:49 PM
#433:


gamepimp12 posted...
This is why being direct and address something bothering you as direct as possible as quickly as you feel comfortable is the way to go.

Bruh stressed over being ignored for 3 days when it was obvious from the jump it probably had nothing to do with him.

I attract a lot of depressed chicks so I see this sort of behavior all the time. Not unusual for them to just drop off the map for 3 months and then holla at you like nothing was wrong.

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gamepimp12
01/05/22 5:54:16 PM
#434:


Steve Nick posted...
I attract a lot of depressed chicks so I see this sort of behavior all the time. Not unusual for them to just drop off the map for 3 months and then holla at you like nothing was wrong.


Same.

which is why you either bring it up immediately, or leave the whole situation alone.

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bulletproofvita
01/05/22 7:14:10 PM
#435:


Doom_Art posted...
My only issue with being more vague about it or demanding an explanation in person is that I feel like it could blow up into a bigger thing, which at work would be a bad idea.
If it blows up to a bigger thing she is either really immature and can't handle communication or is really trying hard to hide something bad from you.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 8:30:50 PM
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Steve Nick posted...
I attract a lot of depressed chicks so I see this sort of behavior all the time. Not unusual for them to just drop off the map for 3 months and then holla at you like nothing was wrong.
I mean I'm not a doctor but she definitely gave those vibes today

Her talking about how she moves in phases, how she lately just literally goes home after work and plays NMS and avoids contact and does nothing else

I'm like, that's depression yo

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littlebro07
01/05/22 8:32:40 PM
#438:


can someone sum up the last 9 pages with some cliff notes

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 8:38:16 PM
#440:


I can never tell if she's joking tbh

She had mentioned "not for like 3-6 months" in a joking tone in response to hanging out

Then when I mentioned how if she wanted some space she could've just said so she said something like "that'd be too uncomplicated for me" but again in a joking tone

Regardless I'm steering clear for a long ass time lol

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KaZooo
01/05/22 8:39:16 PM
#441:


So is she like, hot?

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 8:40:28 PM
#442:


KaZooo posted...
So is she like, hot?
I mean I think so lol

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ModLogic
01/05/22 8:44:26 PM
#443:


invite her over to make some soup

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 8:45:16 PM
#444:


ModLogic posted...
invite her over to make some soup
"Good soup" is actually an inside joke between us lol

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Turtlebread
01/05/22 8:45:34 PM
#445:


Why tf 500 posts


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Doom_Art
01/05/22 8:47:10 PM
#446:


Turtlebread posted...
Why tf 500 posts


Everyone jumped in to help and the saga kept going

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Steve Nick
01/05/22 8:59:40 PM
#447:


Turtlebread posted...
Why tf 500 posts

people on this board have a fanatical love for doom art for some reason

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 9:01:38 PM
#448:


Steve Nick posted...
people on this board have a fanatical love for doom art for some reason


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Doom_Art
01/05/22 9:06:53 PM
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It is unconnected

To

"Let's make some soup"

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E_S_M_Z
01/05/22 9:07:19 PM
#451:


Steve Nick posted...
people on this board have a fanatical love for doom art for some reason

It's true. We really do.

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 9:09:35 PM
#452:


https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-doom-art-inc

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Doom_Art
01/05/22 9:21:54 PM
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Flatterer

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