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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 1:59:34 PM
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She slowly forgets you even exist.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:00:23 PM
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That is how it is supposed to work. You should do the same.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:01:36 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
That is how it is supposed to work. You should do the same.
No, that's not how it's supposed to work. A 2 year relationship should go on to marriage.

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Irony
01/22/22 2:02:08 PM
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Shut the fuck up

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BroodRyu
01/22/22 2:02:48 PM
#5:


This gimmick has gotten extremely tired. Like most gimmicks on here.
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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:03:08 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
No, that's not how it's supposed to work. A 2 year relationship should go on to marriage.

Did you ask them to marry you?
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Phantom36
01/22/22 2:03:34 PM
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Think of it as an opportunity for something better, TC. Every time I've ever gone through a bad breakup, years later I've come to find I dodged a bullet each and every time!

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Error1355
01/22/22 2:04:21 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
No, that's not how it's supposed to work. A 2 year relationship should go on to marriage.
Well seems it didn't, so move the fuck on bud.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:04:22 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Did you ask them to marry you?
She wanted me to propose during a specific trip outside of the country. We haven't gone yet.

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ThePrinceFish
01/22/22 2:05:52 PM
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Tfw it hurts more to be forgotten than hated

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Phantom36
01/22/22 2:06:19 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She wanted me to propose during a specific trip outside of the country. We haven't gone yet.

And that kind of thing is a huge red flag, to set the precedent for proposal, bridezilla confirmed, your metaphoric castration confirmed, feel blessed, swear to god

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:06:27 PM
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Phantom36 posted...
Think of it as an opportunity for something better, TC. Every time I've ever gone through a bad breakup, years later I've come to find I dodged a bullet each and every time!
My ex-fiancee was an abuser, so I did dodge a bullet there. She left me because I stood up for myself. But this time is different. This is the only relationship I will ever accept again.

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Heartomaton
01/22/22 2:07:59 PM
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Do these constant topics make you feel any better?

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:09:02 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She wanted me to propose during a specific trip outside of the country. We haven't gone yet.

Why didn't you go?
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:12:43 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
Do these constant topics make you feel any better?
Yes.

WingsOfGood posted...
Why didn't you go?
My manager wouldn't allow me to use PTO for a long time. He said we were too short staffed. Also, my GF planned everything meticulously and had a timeline for everything. I think the proposal wasn't planned yet.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:13:47 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
My manager wouldn't allow me to use PTO for a long time. He said we were too short staffed. Also, my GF planned everything meticulously and had a timeline for everything. I think the proposal wasn't planned yet.

Should have dumped that job I guess.

Why did she leave?
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RenescoStCewl
01/22/22 2:13:51 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
No, that's not how it's supposed to work. A 2 year relationship should go on to marriage.
Not if one of the people doesnt want to stay together.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:15:30 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Should have dumped that job I guess.

Why did she leave?
She said I cheated because I told another girl she was beautiful. Then she immediately got into a new relationship, said she was in love with the new guy and going to marry him.

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Heartomaton
01/22/22 2:16:12 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Yes.

Well then by all means, continue.

You just shouldn't expect to be taken seriously about it forever. There are limits to the sympathy you'll get from others, and your inability to stop will wear that thin, assuming it hasn't already.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:16:29 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She said I cheated because I told another girl she was beautiful. Then she immediately got into a new relationship, said she was in love with the new guy and going to marry him.

If this is true and not you taking liberties on what actually happened, why would you want to marry someone like this? (you implying she cheated on you)
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:16:58 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
If this is true and not you taking liberties on what actually happened, why would you want to marry someone like this? (you implying she cheated on you)
She's the one, plain and simple.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:17:39 PM
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Heartomaton posted...
Well then by all means, continue.

You just shouldn't expect to be taken seriously about it forever. There are limits to the sympathy you'll get from others, and your inability to stop will wear that thin, assuming it hasn't already.
Sympathy is irrelevant. I can't bottle up my depression forever.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:18:02 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She's the one, plain and simple.

Your one is someone who loves another man?
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bsp77
01/22/22 2:18:41 PM
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C'mon, man. Move on. I had a 2 year relationship end in Aug 2020. Did I mope? No. I had a 2 month fling right afterward, and then I started a new serious relationship in Nov 2020. I am still with her.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:19:48 PM
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bsp77 posted...
C'mon, man. Move on. I had a 2 year relationship end in Aug 2020. Did I mope? No. I had a 2 month fling right afterward, and then I started a new serious relationship in Nov 2020. I am still with her.
Good for you. I haven't found anyone compatible enough to take on a date after 4 months.

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bsp77
01/22/22 2:21:25 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Good for you. I haven't found anyone compatible enough to take on a date after 4 months.
Then focus on yourself for a bit and just keep your eyes and options open. Something will happen eventually if you are open to it.

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Heartomaton
01/22/22 2:21:58 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Sympathy is irrelevant. I can't bottle up my depression forever.

Not bottling it up doesn't enter into it, because it is literally impossible for that well to be bottomless. At some point, you will have to grow up, get over it, and
bsp77 posted...
Move on.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:22:06 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Good for you. I haven't found anyone compatible enough to take on a date after 4 months.

I doubt that is the issue. You literally said you ex was "The One". No self-respecting woman wants to date a guy with this mindset.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 2:23:38 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
I doubt that is the issue. You literally said you ex was "The One". No self-respecting woman wants to date a guy with this mindset.
I also don't want to date them.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 2:30:54 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
I also don't want to date them.

What is so great about your ex that you want to date no other woman but her?
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 3:00:54 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
What is so great about your ex that you want to date no other woman but her?
She saved my life, and put my broken heart back together.

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EnvoyOfTheLight
01/22/22 3:03:29 PM
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Okay, but it's over, shut the fuck up.

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bsp77
01/22/22 3:03:47 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She saved my life, and put my broken heart back together.
That is awesome. That was the reason she came into your life. Nothing more. Someone else can be your eventual wife.

I believe in focusing on the positive that each relationship gives. You have that and that is great. But she doesn't have to be the be-all-end-all.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 3:38:50 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She saved my life, and put my broken heart back together.

That it?

What did she do that was so great. What did you have in common. What life goals did you both want to accomplish together?
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Tryhaptaward
01/22/22 3:44:48 PM
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The worst part is getting these topics from TC.
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Vermander
01/22/22 3:45:46 PM
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Go find someone else to pork; youll feel better.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 3:46:16 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
That it?

What did she do that was so great. What did you have in common. What life goals did you both want to accomplish together?
We had a lot in common. We played video games together. We watched Netflix together. We enjoyed vegan food together. We loved our dog. We wanted to get married and have a family.

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RenescoStCewl
01/22/22 3:53:06 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
We had a lot in common. We played video games together. We watched Netflix together. We enjoyed vegan food together. We loved our dog. We wanted to get married and have a family.
If she really wanted to marry you she wouldn't have left you man.

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bsp77
01/22/22 3:56:06 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
She said I cheated because I told another girl she was beautiful. Then she immediately got into a new relationship, said she was in love with the new guy and going to marry him.
Can you explain this? Calling someone beautiful isn't cheating. But were you trying to get with this person?

I told one of my female friends recently that she is gorgeous, right after she broke up with a guy because he made her feel bad about herself. My gf didn't care that I said that.

In others words, the words don't matter, but your intent at the time does. So I feel like that's not the whole story.

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Kiyune
01/22/22 3:57:13 PM
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You should block her too and see how she likes it

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 3:58:40 PM
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bsp77 posted...
So I feel like that's not the whole story.

pretty much

he is implying she was cheating on him secretly and using this as an excuse, but yet he cannot get over such a terrible person

which makes me suspect he is lying and their relationship had already gone down hill and he is denial
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VigorouslySwish
01/22/22 4:03:09 PM
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looks like Sor Eddie found a new spot to troll

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:04:02 PM
#43:


bsp77 posted...
Can you explain this? Calling someone beautiful isn't cheating. But were you trying to get with this person?

I told one of my female friends recently that she is gorgeous, right after she broke up with a guy because he made her feel bad about herself. My gf didn't care that I said that.

In others words, the words don't matter, but your intent at the time does. So I feel like that's not the whole story.
It's not the whole story. There were times where I was mean to her, and I regret it very much. There's also more to the story that I don't know.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:07:23 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
There were times where I was mean to her, and I regret it very much.

Please elaborate.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:13:08 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Please elaborate.
Sometimes, I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!" One time, I got really mad at her and told her to get out, even though she lives there too. It breaks my heart, and makes me hate myself to think about it.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:16:22 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!"

wtf

you have deep issues

go see a therapist
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Smiffwilm
01/22/22 4:18:06 PM
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BroodRyu posted...
This gimmick has gotten extremely tired. Like most gimmicks on here.
First time seeing it and I'm already tired of it.

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cardoor123
01/22/22 4:18:09 PM
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With you bitching and moaning constantly, I can see why she dumped you and why you're alone. Pathetic.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:18:33 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
wtf

you have deep issues

go see a therapist
I did, and she said I can attend a class on depression that starts in March. That's the quality of help you can expect from the VA. Anyway, I hate my ex-fiancee. I wasn't myself during that time. I was drinking too much, and I don't know what was wrong with me.

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bsp77
01/22/22 4:19:21 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Sometimes, I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!"
That is worse than cheating IMO. Being drunk doesn't make you say things you don't harbor within. You meant that. Unless your only goal was to be hurtful then it is possible you didn't mean it.

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