Current Events > Women are still faking orgasms to make men feel less fragile

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https://nypost.com/2022/01/31/women-fake-orgasms-to-make-men-feel-less-fragile-study/

New research suggests women are still faking orgasms to make their fragile male partners feel more like macho men but some sexually fulfilled females told The Post this study is an outdated turn-off. The academic investigation published in the January issue of the journal of Social Psychological and Personality Science collected data from over 600 women, many of whom admit forsaking their own erotic pleasure in order to placate insecure men. Women are prioritizing what they think their partners need over their own sexual needs and satisfaction, said lead study author Jessica Jordan, doctoral student at the University of South Florida, in a statement. The new study which, by the way, was co-authored by three men sought to answer that age-old question, theorizing that long-held cultural ideas about masculinity may be responsible for the fakery. The researchers first collected data from 283 women, asking them about the perceived masculinity of their partners. Interestingly, they found that the more women saw their partners masculinity was precarious, the more anxiety they had. This in turn lowered their own sexual pleasure and the rate at which they orgasmed. Next, the researchers quizzed an additional 196 women, discovering that participants who assumed their male partners manhood was fragile were less likely to provide honest sexual communication due to anxiety. Meanwhile, a third component of the study asked 157 straight women in relationships to complete an anonymous survey about their sex lives.

In an impromptu poll of dozens of East Coast women, some told The Post that faking it was indeed a common phenomenon of yore. However, one said fragile is the wrong word for a man who cant deliver a mind-blowing bedroom experience. Fragile? What about incompetent? said Virginia Sherry, 72, a writer and native botany expert from Staten Island. The definition for that word is apt: Lacking qualities (such as knowledge, skill, or ability) required to do a job.' Meanwhile, several females said they steadfastly refuse to fake the big O. One gratified gal who wished to remain anonymous told The Post that a contrived climax was absolutely off the table. Why would I? the 26-year-old Brooklyn-based copywriter bluntly asked. Laura Alix, a 36-year-old Boston-based financial journalist, was even more direct: I have never faked one. Their ego can take the hit thats not my problem! Interestingly, the new study results showed that women who made more money than their partners were twice as likely to fake orgasms giving new meaning to the expression Fake it til you make it. The researchers theorized that these women possibly felt they were emasculating their husbands in a financial sense, and therefore had to make it up to them in the bedroom. But while some women may believe they are protecting their male partners by faking ecstasy, Jordan believes that the deception inadvertently ends up hurting men as well. When society creates an impossible standard of masculinity to maintain, nobody wins, she said. In short, honest communication and putting effort into understanding your partners sexual needs will also benefit men when it comes to getting off at peak levels.

Least surprising thing. Too many dudes just slam it away and bust. No fun

I have no clue why the article is worded like it expected otherwise.

what's even more funny is the dudes claiming it's a turn off. if your partner needs to fake an orgasm, you are doing it wrong. simple as.
you should take all the fake acting you can get because it's never gonna get any better

Why do women date and hook up with inadequate dudes like this? Can't they just find a chad?

Dudes need to learn to use toys for assist. Makes the experience better for both parties. Get out of the dumb mindset.

Thankfully never had to do that with my husband. Sometimes I just cant get there and he doesnt pressure me. And the times where it may take longer than usual, hes very patient. Normally it isnt a problem and I get there easily enough but I have my off days and hes confident to know it has nothing to do with him. I had an ex who would give me shit if I didnt O fast enough and it just made it even more difficult to get there because I would worry too much. And yes Id fake it with him.

As a dude, I've faked my own orgasms with women before too. Sometimes, the girl just sucks at fucking and you just wanna get it over with.

People need to take the guesswork out of sex, and just flat out tell their partner what works for them.

Take away the taboo that you can't tell your partner "I like it when _____". Especially if it's something you've never done yet as a couple, as it then elicits the response of "If she likes that, and we never did it, that means she did it with someone else"

Who cares? She there doing it with you now.

There are people who lie and claim to still be virgins. That's probably even worse than this.

Lebronwon posted...

Fragile? What about incompetent? said Virginia Sherry, 72

God damn, Granny out here throwing haymakers

Gwynevere posted...

God damn, Granny out here throwing haymakers

You get in bed with Virginia, you best not miss.

Did they do this study expecting to get a different result or something?

too bad a lot of guys get jealous of vibrators too.

you think i came? it's just pee

I can't orgasm if women fake or have real orgasms. I get off on the bored look on their faces.

Some guys are too small to please a woman.

bigblu89 posted...

People need to take the guesswork out of sex, and just flat out tell their partner what works for them.

Take away the taboo that you can't tell your partner "I like it when _____". Especially if it's something you've never done yet as a couple, as it then elicits the response of "If she likes that, and we never did it, that means she did it with someone else"

Who cares? She there doing it with you now.

True that communication is a large part of the problem

Of course this can back fire when you find out she is into scat play and you're like

https://i.imgur.com/rMNaDqp.gif

Axiom posted...

True that communication is a large part of the problem

Of course this can back fire when you find out she is into scat play and you're like

Back Fire.

I like what you did there.

Too many dudes try to copy what they see everyday on pornhub

AdrianBeterson posted...

As a dude, I've faked my own orgasms with women before too. Sometimes, the girl just sucks at fucking and you just wanna get it over with.

I always keep a tub of hot yogurt ready in case I gotta dip.