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No_U_L7 03/05/22 7:56:59 PM #1: |
they're just manipulative people that abused and lied to you your entire life and don't actually care about you --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Valjackal 03/05/22 8:03:09 PM #2: |
Yep. Every single parent in the world is like that. No one can possibly have a stable healthy relationship with them. You nailed it. This topic can end now. --- Remember...remember us. Remember...that we once lived... The artist (formerly?) known as Citrik ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TMOG 03/05/22 8:04:29 PM #3: |
Nah, my mom's cool as hell. Once I got older our relationship kind of pivoted from parent and child to genuine friends. I play games online with her and everything. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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haloiscoolisbak 03/05/22 8:08:01 PM #4: |
I used to be kinda distant with them, then I worked in a nursing home and saw so many depressed 50-60 yr old sons and daughters with so much obvious regret watching their parents fade away, that I decided to treasure them a lot more and actively see them often --- Started from the bottom now we here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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UnfairRepresent 03/05/22 8:08:21 PM #5: |
A lot of parents aren't like that and if you're cold, even one's who are might still leave you money --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! http://i.imgur.com/yPw05Ob.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gamer167 03/05/22 8:10:39 PM #6: |
Cuz mine didnt suck. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gunplagirl 03/05/22 8:10:45 PM #7: |
Valjackal posted... Yep. Every single parent in the world is like that. No one can possible have a stable healthy relationship with them. You nailed it. This topic can end now.Imagine having a healthy homelife growing up and getting mad at others who didn't have the privilege Oh wait I can't imagine that because I developed some empathy while growing up as a result of my homelife growing up --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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No_U_L7 03/05/22 8:11:16 PM #8: |
UnfairRepresent posted... A lot of parents aren't like that my dad has already informed me that he has cut me out of his will my mom still has me in hers, but all she has is the family home, about 1m but i have to split that with my sister --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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UnfairRepresent 03/05/22 8:11:21 PM #9: |
gunplagirl posted... Imagine having a healthy homelife growing up and getting mad at others who didn't have the privilegehe didn't seem mad or unempathetic --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! http://i.imgur.com/yPw05Ob.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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stahlbaum 03/05/22 9:28:25 PM #10: |
No_U_L7 posted... my dad has already informed me that he has cut me out of his will I don't even know you but I would probably cut you out of my will too. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mooreandrew58 03/05/22 9:33:09 PM #11: |
Valjackal posted... Yep. Every single parent in the world is like that. No one can possibly have a stable healthy relationship with them. You nailed it. This topic can end now. This. Except I don't play games with her and every once and again she'll try using she's my mom card to get over on me (in all fairness when she does that I am fucking up at something) but I generally put my foot down and remind her I pay the bills so imma do what I want --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta_MAX 03/05/22 9:37:43 PM #12: |
Starting to see why TC comes to this websight to act like his life is the best thing in the world. Just another classic case of using this place as a coping mechanism. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SauI_Goodman 03/05/22 9:38:48 PM #13: |
Enjoy it while you can op. They will be gone one day. --- Italian, French, German. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BilalPowell 03/05/22 9:39:58 PM #14: |
Same reason to be close to anyone in your life. Boring to be alone. --- Former #1 Birmingham Iron Fan. RIP AAF ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mooreandrew58 03/05/22 9:45:15 PM #15: |
BilalPowell posted... Same reason to be close to anyone in your life. Boring to be alone. It ain't boring. It's depressing. And that's coming from a introvert. --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rideshort 03/05/22 9:57:43 PM #16: |
No_U_L7 posted... they're just manipulative people that abused and lied to you your entire life and don't actually care about you If that's the case, they could've put you up for adoption or let social services deal with you. --- I believe in the Golden Rule and you should too! http://i.imgur.com/63HCN.gif http://i.imgur.com/aaTUdOx.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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No_U_L7 03/05/22 9:58:33 PM #17: |
rideshort posted...
they don't care about me as an individual, they view me as an extension of themselves --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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What_ 03/05/22 10:00:31 PM #18: |
I think this is the only real topic TC has ever made ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BreezyExcursion 03/05/22 10:01:38 PM #19: |
i have a close relationship with OP's mom --- gm ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BilalPowell 03/05/22 10:02:00 PM #20: |
No_U_L7 posted... they don't care about me as an individual, they view me as an extension of themselvesdoes anyone care about you if your parents dont? --- Former #1 Birmingham Iron Fan. RIP AAF ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 03/05/22 10:02:14 PM #21: |
As someone without parents, (even when they were alive, they werent great) it sure would be nice to have people who loved me unconditionally and supported me. Having parents to bounce ideas off of or ask for advice is also something Ive always wanted --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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No_U_L7 03/05/22 10:02:47 PM #22: |
BilalPowell posted...
probably my sister and friends --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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No_U_L7 03/05/22 10:03:11 PM #23: |
Harpie posted... As someone without parents, (even when they were alive, they werent great) it sure would be nice to have people who loved me unconditionally and supported me. Having parents to bounce ideas off of or ask for advice is also something Ive always wanted that's not what parents do at all tho lol --- http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gunplagirl 03/05/22 10:03:17 PM #24: |
Harpie posted... As someone without parents, it sure would be nice to have people who loved me unconditionally and supported me. Having parents to bounce ideas off of or ask for advice is also something Ive always wanted@Harpie If you would be okay with it then I will your mommy from now on --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JimmyFraska 03/05/22 10:03:18 PM #25: |
Cause it's the right thing to do ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 03/05/22 10:09:06 PM #27: |
gunplagirl posted... Imagine having a healthy homelife growing up and getting mad at others who didn't have the privilegeBut the topic was disingenuous to begin with. I can empathize with people but this was NOT the way to do it. It doesn't help that I am a father, and I would never manipulate, abuse or lie to my daughters, so I do not appreciate the blanket statement. --- Currently playing: Horizon Forbidden West ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sictis 03/05/22 10:12:14 PM #28: |
What_ posted... I think this is the only real topic TC has ever madeoof --- who f***ing cares ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Harpie 03/05/22 10:12:36 PM #29: |
No_U_L7 posted... that's not what parents do at all tho lolMy parents didnt do any of those things either, but there are some that actually care. My ex had the most loving, supportive parents Ive ever seen. Seeing him and his mom interact would sometimes make it hard to keep the tears at bay. It was such a sweet, loving and warm relationship. I didnt know until then that I wanted something like that so badly. gunplagirl posted... @HarpieWhats in it for you qt --- no ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BilalPowell 03/05/22 10:13:30 PM #30: |
My parents came over today and bought me some furniture for my new home. They're doing a great job acting like they care. --- Former #1 Birmingham Iron Fan. RIP AAF ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gunplagirl 03/05/22 10:40:14 PM #31: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Every damn time. "They beat sense into me that's why I know I'm a good parent to my kids who are all half siblings and also my current bf cheats on me just like dad cheated on mom!" bsp77 posted... But the topic was disingenuous to begin with. I can empathize with people but this was NOT the way to do it. It doesn't help that I am a father, and I would never manipulate, abuse or lie to my daughters, so I do not appreciate the blanket statement.I sure hope so but most parents who abused their kids don't think they did anything wrong. So please be sure to constantly analyze your parenting. Not that I doubt you mean it when you say your intentions. Harpie posted... Whats in it for you qtI would have a qt daughter without the costs or hassle of adoption --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 03/05/22 10:50:52 PM #32: |
gunplagirl posted... I sure hope so but most parents who abused their kids don't think they did anything wrong. So please be sure to constantly analyze your parenting. Not that I doubt you mean it when you say your intentions.Yeah, I am aware. And when I make a mistake, I apologize to them after. But my mistakes are typically along the lines of not listening properly or making a poor assumption, not abuse or manipulation. --- Currently playing: Horizon Forbidden West ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Machete 03/05/22 10:56:25 PM #33: |
I'm adopted, so I don't really know how this even works. I never bonded with either parent. I fought with my mother a lot when I was younger. We rarely agreed on anything and trust was always limited on my end. Things have improved but only distance has allowed that. I stayed with her at the beginning of covid and that was rough, and then again last year when my apartment was being renovated and that was also rough. My father on the other hand, I have not spoken to in several years. He was very toxic and a prime example of how mental illness can be transmitted through trauma even with no genetic connection. A part of me wants to reach out, forgive him and move on... but at the same time, I have no faith that he could actually understand the magnitude of what he has done and learn from it. Trust is limited with my mother. It doesn't exist with my father, and I have no cause to believe it ever could. That's just the tip pf the iceberg too lol. --- I do not receive notifications, so using the @ feature will not do anything. I might see your post and respond though if I have already been in the topic. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gunplagirl 03/05/22 11:00:00 PM #34: |
bsp77 posted... Yeah, I am aware. And when I make a mistake, I apologize to them after. But my mistakes are typically along the lines of not listening properly or making a poor assumption, not abuse or manipulation.That's more than most parents, unfortunately. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pitlord_Special 03/05/22 11:14:27 PM #35: |
My parents have helped me out with a lot of stuff even when I've been an adult and I visit them at least once a week (since we live in the same city). Only thing I find disagreeable with them is that they've both become fully indoctrinated Redhats. So, I try to avoid the topic of politics and let the stupid shit they say roll off like water off a duck's back because I believe blood runs thicker than the kool-aid. --- Posted from my iPhone 13 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 03/05/22 11:27:50 PM #37: |
gunplagirl posted... That's more than most parents, unfortunately.That makes me sad. Unhappy children really gets to me. --- Currently playing: Horizon Forbidden West ... Copied to Clipboard!
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