Current Events > What makes you instantly lose respect for a woman?

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I'm married hoss, my wife and I have been together 8 years. It's just I think your 10 or more partners idea is asinine, and misogynistic.

I dont know what kind of sheltered lifestyle you live, but thinking more than 10 partners means the girl sleeps with anyone who shows interest in her is absurd. Unless your looking for a woman who has never had any sort of social life.

People are allowed preferences, no ones arguing against that. It's just if you have any type of realistic outlook on life, you'd realize how absurd the idea of 10 partners over your lifetime means you "lack impulse control" is.

People who are upset about womens' "body counts" are just insecure. They look at a number they deem as high and feel threatened, like at any point they could be replaced with the next guy. It has nothing to do with "value" or anything else.

It's absolutely not misogynistic in any way. I also look down on men who do the same thing. It's not gender-specific.

If your idea of a social life is having sex, you have some seriously messed up ideas on what "social life" is.

This one depends on your age, actually. I'm at an age where I absolutely can think this way. The older you get, the more lax you have to be on the idea.

You'd look down on me too then I guess because I went to college. Having sex isn't what a social life is, but it's absolutely a byproduct of an active social life.

I dont how old you are, but for millenials and gen z, we are absolutely a "hook-up culture" Plenty of people "find their person" and settle down or get into long term relationships, but most of us went through a point where we were looking for casual hookups.

I will assert again it's asinine to think that 10 people over your lifetime is some type of high number, and means you lack impulse control or are "easy" like you said.

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Ehh, not sure about the other guy, but thats a faaar off assessment of me.

Regardless, Ill stand on that emotional baggage hill. Its always the case. Depression. Anxiety. Misandry. Inability to pair bond. Propensity for divorce. Pick one or two, and Im probably missing several more anyway. But Im sure there are exceptions somewhere.

Not for anyone with self-control it's not.

Just because a generation has no morals doesn't mean that what they're doing is acceptable because "everyone is doing it." The age-old question remains: if everyone was jumping off a bridge, would you do it, too?

Again, just because "everyone is doing it" doesn't mean they're not easy.

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I disagree entirely with your assertion of "self control."

I would argue your insanely rigid outlook on sex doesn't make you a moral person. Especially since you say you look down on people who don't adhere to your personal social standards. So if anything it makes you immoral to judge others.

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It's not immoral to look down on others with loose or non-existent morals. If that were the case, you'd have to be perfectly fine with murderers.

Being Republican.

It absolutely is when in this instance your view of someone's morals are subjective. Whereas murder is clearly objective.

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Being Republican.

A deep commitment to astrology.

You guys probably aren't even in a relationship and are thirsty enough to sleep with anyone who offers. It's pathetic, really. Raise your standards.

Number of sex partners is not a moral issue.

They look at a number they deem as high and feel threatened, like at any point they could be replaced with the next guy.

Buying into astrology, which unfortunately is most of them

Close to double-digit or higher body count.

having sex with anyone before meeting me

What makes you instantly lose respect for a woman?

• an allergy to accountability to the point nothing is ever her fault; it's always someone else to blame
• preaching for "equality" between the sexes when her intentions really demand "equity" of outcome without putting in the same work
• she makes false allegations
• hypocrisy and arbitrary double standards she employs whenever it benefits her, regardless of detriment to others
• she cherry picks what counts as sexism (she's offended by being told to be more lady-like, but casually uses the sexist phrase: "man up")
• she blames 100% of men for the abuse of male privileges only the top 15% will ever have access to
• she's too stupid to understand the irony of stating variations of "men are useless" while living in a modern infrastructure predominately built and maintained by men taking dirty jobs women simply do not shoot for
• she suffers from confirmation bias related to toxic men in her past and uses that as an excuse to discriminate against men in general
• she's fine with promoting dangerous military interventions in other countries, but would refuse to ever enlist
• she exploits and treats other women like disposable crap too, particularly my friends
• she expects modern men of today to pay reparations for the crimes committed before their time by men long dead (that's sexism, folks)
• she willfully forgets that the grand majority of pro-life supporters and activists are other women, while branding it a male issue
• she demands men behave traditionally for her benefit, but does not understand that's reserved for women with traditional principles
• she is well aware of the explicit bias of court systems against non-wealthy men and is fine exploiting any institutional policies that clearly benefit her as a woman
• she treats her girl friends like a jury that has to weigh in on every one of her life decisions, including her dating relationships (so much for independence)
• she gets irritable at the mention of male victims of domestic or sexual violence and refuses to acknowledge their seat at the table
• she presumes I'm inherently against straight men just because I'm a gay guy
• she assumes I hate all women because I hold them equally accountable for their actions just as I do the men
• her brain blows a fuse when I gently explain the obvious correlation between me respecting woman's rights while also intrinsically supporting men's rights as a homosexual man who values the freedoms of his life partner
• she flips out in rage when any of this is pointed out to her calmly as a response to her inquiry.