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Intro2Logic
04/12/22 6:05:41 PM
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That's fine, it's definitely not driving my anxiety through the roof, it's fine.

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YeahBecauseWow
04/12/22 6:07:07 PM
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With dating its best to assume things wont happen until they do.

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bsp77
04/12/22 6:22:08 PM
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More often than not, the date still happens. Just stay cool no matter what

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Llaeto7
04/12/22 6:23:46 PM
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bsp77 posted...
More often than not, the date still happens. Just stay cool no matter what

Why lie to the man. As far as we know the date is cancelled.
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AloneIBreak
04/12/22 6:24:49 PM
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The lady I was talking to, I realized I was initiating 99% of conversation and just decided to stop. Havent heard from her since. Somewhat disappointing, but not the end of the world. Dont stress too hard, TC. Most people you meet arent the love of your life.

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bsp77
04/12/22 6:25:27 PM
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Llaeto7 posted...
Why lie to the man. As far as we know the date is cancelled.
I'm not lying. In my experience, when a date said she had to reschedule, it would still happen. This happened multiple times, including what led to a 2 year relationship.

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Intro2Logic
04/12/22 6:27:10 PM
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This will be our third date, and we already set new plans for Friday, so I'm not worried about that. My brain just fucks with me anyways.

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bsp77
04/12/22 6:28:41 PM
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Intro2Logic posted...
This will be our third date, and we already set new plans for Friday, so I'm not worried about that. My brain just fucks with me anyways.
Ah, then tell your brain to stfu.

And third date, eh? :)

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shironinja
04/12/22 6:29:45 PM
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limitless Chad ----.

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Intro2Logic
04/12/22 6:30:30 PM
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bsp77 posted...
And third date, eh? :)
I don't know what you're getting at

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bsp77
04/12/22 6:31:55 PM
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Intro2Logic posted...
I don't know what you're getting at
Uh huh. Although in all seriousness, I have not seen any evidence to suggest that the 3rd date is something special. Sex can happen anywhere from the 1st to the 10th date. The mean is probably about 3 though

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Starks
04/12/22 6:32:37 PM
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As someone who works in IT, I worry about doing this to people when shit hits the fan.

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JimmyFraska
04/12/22 6:41:10 PM
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Within what time frame. The day before? 8 hours before?

Or is it more like 2 - 4 hours...

The answer will let you know how big of a flag it is.

And did they give an exact time/date for meeting up again?
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Intro2Logic
04/12/22 6:48:27 PM
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4 hours or so, and we'd sorted out a new day within a few minutes' texting

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bsp77
04/12/22 6:51:08 PM
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Intro2Logic posted...
4 hours or so, and we'd sorted out a new day within a few minutes' texting
So why is this a topic?

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haloiscoolisbak
04/12/22 6:51:21 PM
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People who flake with dating last minute are fucked.

Then again online dating is just stupid. I've been ghosted after agreeing to be exclusive with someone and deleting the app with them(we were only a month in, probably moving too fast, but to actually be ghosted after the conversations we had still fucked up my trust - the deleting the app was her suggestion too)

Treat everything as fragile with online dating until you're well into a serious relationship

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Intro2Logic
04/12/22 6:53:03 PM
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bsp77 posted...
So why is this a topic?

Intro2Logic posted...
my anxiety


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JimmyFraska
04/12/22 6:57:24 PM
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Intro2Logic posted...
4 hours or so, and we'd sorted out a new day within a few minutes' texting
It's a minor flag but yeah in this case you gotta give em benefit as long as they've set the date for the reschedule.
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bsp77
04/12/22 7:01:43 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
People who flake with dating last minute are fucked.

Then again online dating is just stupid. I've been ghosted after agreeing to be exclusive with someone and deleting the app with them(we were only a month in, probably moving too fast, but to actually be ghosted after the conversations we had still fucked up my trust - the deleting the app was her suggestion too)

Treat everything as fragile with online dating until you're well into a serious relationship
It's a third date though and stuff happens sometimes. I always give people the benefit of the doubt and it usually works out.

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Llaeto7
04/12/22 7:40:13 PM
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bsp77 posted...
I'm not lying. In my experience, when a date said she had to reschedule, it would still happen. This happened multiple times, including what led to a 2 year relationship.

So they cancelled on you then dumped you?
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bsp77
04/12/22 7:46:54 PM
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Llaeto7 posted...
So they cancelled on you then dumped you?
I have had 2 second dates cancel on me because some other guy they were dating asked to be exclusive. Meh, move on. Surprisingly I have never had a first date flat out cancel or no show. And I have had 30 something first dates, I think? With most in the span of one year during my midlife crisis, post divorce, man whore phase.

And I have only been dumped twice I think. Not sure how many times I have dumped women though. A much higher number.

I hope I am done with all that though. My gf is perfect for me.

You ask, I answer. With TMI.

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