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Hypocrisy is the quickest way to turn me off. Like if someone has this strong opinion on something that I can see they're also kinda guilty of(usually in a different, less obvious way so they don't realise) it triggers me hard

Not wanting to go out with me

Not fucking on the 1st date-ness

I don't know what you would call it but Lying. That's the thing that turns me completely off. I've been on dates with women who have told me to my face that they weren't smokers, but then they would pull out a cigarette and light it, or ask where the nearest gas station is so they can grab a pack of smokes.

Fuck that. I have no time for that. I don't want to date a smoker. I hate the habit, and I'm actually allergic to stuff inside cigarettes. But it goes past that. I've had women tell me their hobby is lets say gaming, and clearly they have never played the game before in their life.

Hypocrisy easily wins this.

Flippancy isn't a negative trait for me at all though.

Ivany2008 posted...

I don't know what you would call it but Lying. That's the thing that turns me completely off. I've been on dates with women who have told me to my face that they weren't smokers, but then they would pull out a cigarette and light it, or ask where the nearest gas station is so they can grab a pack of smokes.

Fuck that. I have no time for that. I don't want to date a smoker. I hate the habit, and I'm actually allergic to stuff inside cigarettes. But it goes past that. I've had women tell me their hobby is lets say gaming, and clearly they have never played the game before in their life.

I don't know how I forgot lying lol. You're right it's the worst crime. I tend to give people a benefit of the doubt with this though, for some reason. I probably shouldn't

Ving_Rhames posted...

Hypocrisy easily wins this.

Flippancy isn't a negative trait for me at all though.

In my mind it's referring to like... casual rudeness with zero tact or concern with other's feelings. Maybe not the idea of "treating things without seriousness" like the google description is. I got the terminology wrong

Being talked down to or otherwise treated like Im stupid.

I haven't dated anybody that was overtly anything like in the poll, but the worst thing for me was people just being boring. No hint of weirdness, no interesting takes, no fun stories.