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https://youtube.com/shorts/5WnGoJVLijg?feature=share

Lol. There's exceptions to the rule, but yeah, that's how it goes.

That's how most things in life are. The assholes ruin things for everyone else because we have to deal with how we might be perceived as one of them even if we're genuine. Women deal with this in other ways too. Having to move different because shitty women fuck up things that could be perceived as more genuine from the right person

a lot of men act like women are some unapproachable alien species and that's what sinks their chances most of all. Like omg you're closing in on 30 years old and you act like a 13 year old if a girl is nearby thats why you can't get a date

Akagami_Shanks posted...

a lot of men act like women are some unapproachable alien species and that's what sinks their chances most of all. Like omg you're closing in on 30 years old and you act like a 13 year old if a girl is nearby thats why you can't get a date

This has nothing to do with the video. This topic isn't about those men

True.

A lot of the "respect women" stuff is misaimed at guys already respecting women enough to leave them the hell alone. >_>

LongJohnSilvers posted...

https://youtube.com/shorts/5WnGoJVLijg?feature=share

>f***ing andrew tate
no

Dragon239 posted...

>f***ing andrew tate
no

I don't know who that is but what he just said is true

Akagami_Shanks posted...

Like omg you're closing in on 30 years old and you act like a 13 year old if a girl is nearby thats why you can't get a date

Probably because they never leveled up their dating skill.

dioxxys posted...

I don't know who that is but what he just said is true

You'll soon realize why that guy hates him if you watch any video of him with more context. They really found him in a moment in that clip. He's not who that clip depicts him as. He treats life likemen are in a war against women

She's not wrong but that's also why the "nice guys" need to work on their confidence and discernment. So they can tell when a woman can/should be approached.

I want a nice guy!
Dates nice guy
Hes too boring dump

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Its also just the same tired argument weighing the unhappiness of being lonely against being unhappy for other reasons such as being objectified, used, or downright abused. Were living in a sickened society, which breeds a pandemic of individuals with a sickness of the self, entirely incapable of creating their own happiness. I think the framing it as a contest of which gender has it worse is a completely misguided, sure fire way of expounding loneliness and misery; whereas fostering compassion and understanding is crucial to building healthy relationships.

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Yeah. I actually didn't even catch that part lol. But my boys deal with lonely women all the time. Not deal as in a bad thing. But just talk about women they have encounters with looking for companionship the same as men. It's so dumb how many guys are too shallow to understand that just getting sex whenever you want isn't people's endgame >_<. Especially when they also are the same guys who constantly complain about being used by women. They're basically saying they know how it sucks to feel used but then somehow still think women being used for just sex is somehow a good outcome for them.

Not to mention some women deal with similar anxieties to men where they become too shy to pursue sex when they want it as well. It's not just a male thing to be shy or intimidated around the opposite sex.

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You should watch Everything Everywhere All at Once. There's a character in there that has a speech near the end that put a lot of perspective on how people like us choose to live. People who try to make others livesmore convenient when and where you can. Being outspoken also helps with this. As,I use to be too timid to offer help

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Oh stop it with your holier then thou attitude like I have committed some heinous crime.
Guys are lonely, there aint nothing wrong with agreeing with that.