Current Events > I often think about times I failed with hot girls who seemed interested.

(+) Yeah! (+)

And my conclusion is almost always that I did nothing wrong.

People can do everything right and still fail

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/6/4/AAWfh3AADnaY.jpg Should of striked a victory pose, that gets them every time

Don't. You'll only make yourself sad.

Well, I screwed it up in my cases.
Don't know what's worse.

See the issue is they just like the attention.

They don't actually want you.

I've had too many experiences with this.

Maybe you can take a few lessons from this then:

https://youtu.be/1Y_6fZGSOQI

When I was a teenager, I used the "headache" excuse to not go get laid lol. I did have a headache, but it was super minor. I dunno tho. Me being more sexually driven could of put me in a spot today where I have no freedom and am taking care of a few kids. People tend to only apply the good when they want to rewrite history. I was young and dumb, I could of knocked that chick up for all I know. There's also the side of me that thinks I could of excelled with kids tho. Found a reason to be more driven

Sex is fleeting. You wouldn't even remember it eventually had you banged.

Or you married and had a kid and realized that is also not the meaning of life.

When I was 14, a girl literally said to me "you're cute!' and all I said was "thanks." :\

Ivynn posted...

When I was 14, a girl literally said to me "you're cute!' and all I said was "thanks." :\

Hot take: 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex. Lol

WingsOfGood posted...

Sex is fleeting. You wouldn't even remember it eventually had you banged.

This is also part of it. I think back and realize it means nothing in the grand scheme. It only means something if you never had sex in general. Cause then you might of gained confidence from it that you used moving forward

Lost_All_Senses posted...

Hot take: 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex. Lol

No they shouldn't, but horny 14 year old me would not have listened. >_>

Anyway, I wasn't thinking about that, just that if I had played my cards right, I could have had a first girlfriend 2 years earlier!

The one time your sister was nice to you doesnt count.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/8/5/AAfTzuAADnat.png "Dwelling in the past is futile"

Ivynn posted...

No they shouldn't, but horny 14 year old me would not have listened. >_>

Anyway, I wasn't thinking about that, just that if I had played my cards right, I could have had a first girlfriend 2 years earlier!

On the brightside you got to be a child 2 years longer! Right?

Ivynn posted...

No they shouldn't, but horny 14 year old me would not have listened. >_>

Anyway, I wasn't thinking about that, just that if I had played my cards right, I could have had a first girlfriend 2 years earlier!

Word. I had gfs at that age, but I wasn't trying to do anything more than kiss/makeout. I just wasn't ready and the pressure never really got to me. They'd be like "Hey, we should go on this room over here" and Id be like "Neh, Im cool here" lol. I just was enjoying my life as it was and felt sex would overcomplicate my feelings at the time. Plus, I was slightly nervous. Being nervous didn't stop me from doing other stuff as a teenager tho.

I gotta say though, I get why women sometimes flirt with men and don't give them none. Just knowing you could is a confidence boost without any of the risks that come with actually having sex >_>.

WingsOfGood posted...

On the brightside you got to be a child 2 years longer! Right?

I was a child for wayyy too long, I only kissed a girl a for the first time when I was like 18/19
Lost_All_Senses posted...

They'd be like "Hey, we should go on this room over here"

That happened to me a few times in highschool and the girl would stare at me and I was just awkwardly staring at her because I had no idea of what I was supposed to do. Didnt realize they wanted me to kiss them. I remember this happening with at least three separate girls.

Lost_All_Senses posted...

Hot take: 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex. Lol

You know you can tell someone they're cute without fucking them, right?

dioxxys posted...

That happened to me a few times in highschool and the girl would stare at me and I was just awkwardly staring at her because I had no idea of what I was supposed to do. Didnt realize they wanted me to kiss them. I remember this happening with at least three separate girls.

I always initiated kissing. I was oddly a natural at reading that vibe. It was like instinctually for me. I never thought about it but never mistepped and got rejected.

Interstella5555 posted...

You know you can tell someone they're cute without fucking them, right?

Word? Imma write that down.