Current Events > When someone is inoffensively annoying

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You know what I mean? An example would be someone in a group chat who sends way too many dumb memes.

I find myself annoyed with people a lot and it sucks. Just those little things that drive you nuts but you know the other person is just being themselves. I wonder am I just easily annoyed or do the other people in the group secretly feel the same way? Maybe I've always been this way. I think I'm getting better at just swallowing the annoyance and not doing anything about it but occasionally it ends up coming out in a passive aggressive way

Are you sure that you arent that person?

BlueBoy675 posted...

Are you sure that you arent that person?

Clever and totally unexpected response

I'm sure that I absolutely have behaviors that irritate people, and try to moderate them. It can be kinda difficult though because I don't actually know how they make other people feel... so maybe calling stuff out is healthy (but I don't use this reasoning to do it)

Yeah, I have this problem. One guy at work is extremely friendly and loves to make small talk and I fucking hate him.

I immediately check people who annoy me lol. Im like, you have every right to keep doing you and it might just be on my end, but that shits annoying to me.

And I fully believe that. Just cause they're annoying to me, doesn't mean they're the problem. But them not knowing doesn't help anyone

RagOnAStick posted...

I wonder am I just easily annoyed

yup

most annoying behaviors aren't on purpose. there's nothing wrong with you for being annoyed either

I can be annoying by saying the word trifle but what if it isnt a trifle by saying it here?