Current Events > My best friend/love interest died 7 years ago today

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yemmy
09/21/22 3:41:11 AM
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We had been friends since we were 12. We dated a few times and hooked up a good bit outside of that but she always had too big of a drug problem to commit to a serious relationship. She was 29 when she died in a head on collision with a coal truck, went under and her car literally blew up.

She doesn't have a gravestone anywhere, or even an urn. One day I will get her a grave stone. Something that says she existed except for a news article saying she died in a fiery crash.

Always a tough day for.me. I always had hope she would get her shit together (me as well really).

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Zikten
09/21/22 3:43:30 AM
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I'm sorry
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g0ldie
09/21/22 3:47:34 AM
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RIP to her

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Arcanine2009
09/21/22 3:47:49 AM
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Damn sorry to hear man. RIP to her.

Reminds me of that Goo Goo Dolls song, "Black Balloon."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=emguA0RIH4k

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MrMallard
09/21/22 3:48:56 AM
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How much is it for a decent headstone?

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MAR10_KarT
09/21/22 3:56:04 AM
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Damn that is so sad...

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yemmy
09/21/22 4:01:34 AM
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Yeah she had her Parents and her brother. She has a son, I haven't seen him since about a month after she died(I tried to still have a relationship with her family after she died but they live 90 minutes away and it was a lot of weird emotions involved, didnt work out well).

And they might have some of her ashes somewhere, I really am not 100% sure. I know that she has no plot or anything and her parents were pretty broke when she died.

MrMallard posted...
How much is it for a decent headstone?

A basic one is a few hundred, the plot of land at a cemetery will be more. If I could have some of her ashes I would bury them next to where I plan on being buried.

It really fucked up my life for a while when I lost her. Unfortunately I had lost her to methamphetamine and iv opioids some 3-4 years before. She had bipolar disorder so the meth really made her psychotic.


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MrMallard
09/21/22 4:11:00 AM
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Would you consider making a GoFundMe for it? I'd chip in some of my Aussiebucks.

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MabusIncarnate
09/21/22 4:15:31 AM
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MrMallard posted...
Would you consider making a GoFundMe for it? I'd chip in some of my Aussiebucks.
This is a good idea, also check local churches, even if you aren't a member. A lot here help the community with food, housing, they have paid to put people into rehab, and can sometimes offer assistance when you lose a loved one. People can be decent sometimes.

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spikethedevil
09/21/22 4:18:00 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
This is a good idea, also check local churches, even if you aren't a member. A lot here help the community with food, housing, they have paid to put people into rehab, and can sometimes offer assistance when you lose a loved one. People can be decent sometimes.


Good shout.

*hugs* to TC.

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yemmy
09/21/22 4:27:35 AM
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MrMallard posted...
Would you consider making a GoFundMe for it? I'd chip in some of my Aussiebucks.

I really appreciate the kindness but I wouldn't feel right. Also this is something I'd want to involve her family in, and I'm not sure that I am up to talking to them right now. In the future I plan on it, but I still feel weird about it(if you knew how her family is youd get it, they are addicts too and were abusive to her).

I guess I could say fuck trying to get ashes(like I said Im not sure they have anything), but I'd feel weird not involving them in a that no matter how I feel.

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UnfairRepresent
09/21/22 4:30:29 AM
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*hugs*

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darkmaian23
09/21/22 4:30:35 AM
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I'm sorry. I hope you are doing OK. =/

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yemmy
09/21/22 12:50:43 PM
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Thanks for a your condolences, I'll be ok it's just a shitty thing to be reminded of tbh

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MedeaLysistrata
09/22/22 9:43:04 AM
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I'm sorry TC

Yesterday I found out an old friend of my died. It was quite shocking. Nobody told me when it happened...

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Ruvan22
09/22/22 10:17:34 AM
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Wow Yemmy... I'm really sorry, that's quite a long entwined history, can tell how much she and her memories means to you.
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Master_Bass
09/22/22 10:21:40 AM
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Yeah, my condolences, TC. I'm so sorry you lost your friend.

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