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TendoDRM
10/01/22 6:40:51 PM
#154:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
The blue is demanding that he care about her over himself and saying he's a bad person for wanting sex. How much of a doormat simp can you guys be lmao

Grey is not a nice guy either but blue is definitely the douche

Found the gray texter.

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Mr_hulk88
10/01/22 6:43:06 PM
#155:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
The blue is demanding that he care about her
He didnt demand he cares about her, he only pointed out his hypocrisy.

How much of a doormat simp can you guys be lmao
This is exactly the nice guy mentality, if a girl is nice to me or viceversa that HAS to mean we'll fuck.

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Anony1125
10/01/22 6:51:15 PM
#156:


bsp77 posted...
I am the opposite of a simp


You take stuff from women in the hopes they'll leave you alone?

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ZangsBeard
10/01/22 6:52:22 PM
#157:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
The blue is demanding that he care about her over himself and saying he's a bad person for wanting sex. How much of a doormat simp can you guys be lmao

Grey is not a nice guy either but blue is definitely the douche

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 6:56:51 PM
#158:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
This is exactly the nice guy mentality, if a girl is nice to me or viceversa that HAS to mean we'll fuck.
No, it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex. Acting like frustration that it's not going as planned is some sort of villainy is just ridiculous and a thought that wouldn't be entertained if the roles were reversed

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Mr_hulk88
10/01/22 7:07:50 PM
#159:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
No, it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex.
Lol thats the thing though, the purpose of interacting with the opposite sex isnt strictly sex.

wouldn't be entertained if the roles were reversed

If you had a female friend who you turn for support and have zero attraction for would you think its fair that shed complain about having to "put up with you"?
Basically just pretending to be your friend because she expects something romantic in return where you never showed interest in that way for her
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CanuckCowboy
10/01/22 7:10:20 PM
#160:


Anyone ever watch creepy text theater?


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MI4_REAL
10/01/22 7:14:23 PM
#161:


Cleo_II posted...
A lot of people, regardless of gender, dont handle rejection well. I see this every day as a recruiter.

Recruiter?

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 7:14:39 PM
#162:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
Lol thats the thing though, the purpose of interacting with the opposite sex isnt strictly sex.
Never said it was.

Mr_hulk88 posted...
If you had a female friend who you turn for support and have zero attraction for would you think its fair that shed complain about having to "put up with you"?
Basically just pretending to be your friend because she expects something romantic in return where you never showed interest in that way for her
How would I know about this? This guy isn't complaining to her, but a third person. Anyway, if I found that out of course I'd say it's reasonable, lol. Why am I entitled to an emotional tampon but she isn't entitled to be attracted to me, exactly?

Now that you've reversed the roles you're dangerously close to getting it, careful now

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silverpine
10/01/22 7:18:47 PM
#163:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
No, it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex. Acting like frustration that it's not going as planned is some sort of villainy is just ridiculous and a thought that wouldn't be entertained if the roles were reversed
so.... you've never heard of friends?
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Mr_hulk88
10/01/22 7:20:05 PM
#164:


Well you said : it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex.

Sounds like youre saying the grey text situation was with the purpose of sex.
And it obviously wasn't if she clearly sees him as a friend.
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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 7:21:45 PM
#165:


silverpine posted...
so.... you've never heard of friends?
This board is terrible at reading, truly terrible

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MI4_REAL
10/01/22 7:24:21 PM
#166:


Reading the room or reading?

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 7:26:00 PM
#167:


Mr_hulk88 posted...
Well you said : it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex.

Sounds like youre saying the grey text situation was with the purpose of sex.
And it obviously wasn't if she clearly sees him as a friend.
No I'm saying it was his purpose of the relationship, he's within reason to be annoyed it's not working out. Again, just reverse the roles: Is it wrong for a girl to be annoyed because she wants a relationship and a guy just keeps her around to talk about his feelings and the girls he fucks? Lol of course not, so why is the reverse so wrong. Can't explain it without to resorting to puritanical nonsense

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silverpine
10/01/22 7:32:56 PM
#169:


he's also presumably lying and she thinks that he enjoys their friendship, when he does not
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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 8:05:53 PM
#171:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I knew this would be said at some point and yes, he should probably. Realistically she very likely knows what it is too, based on her telling him about guys she fucks. Unless she was under the impression he's gay, that seems like a power play. If he were savvy that'd be identified as a red flag/no-go sign, Grey should be on blast for being a dumbass not a jerk tbqh

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/01/22 8:16:03 PM
#172:


silverpine posted...
he's also presumably lying and she thinks that he enjoys their friendship, when he does not
Not necessarily, he might enjoy her company to a degree. Assuming his venting frustration means he sees women as onaholes that have gained sentience is based on nothing but interwebz stereotypes

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Nintendo_Porn
10/01/22 8:25:00 PM
#173:


And this is why you shouldn't put women on pedestals...or you will see behavior like that.

At least if they scare women off they won't be taken advantage of later. Simpin' ain't easy.

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NoxObscuras
10/01/22 8:35:08 PM
#175:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
I knew this would be said at some point and yes, he should probably. Realistically she very likely knows what it is too, based on her telling him about guys she fucks. Unless she was under the impression he's gay, that seems like a power play. If he were savvy that'd be identified as a red flag/no-go sign, Grey should be on blast for being a dumbass not a jerk tbqh
lmao "power play"? Have you never talked about sex with people you don't actually want to sleep with? Sometimes people just like for their friends to share in their excitement. I've had friends, both men and women talk to me about their sex lives. Hell, I had a friend confide in me that she tested the waters and had sex with another woman. She trusted me enough to tell me that, without fear of me judging her for it.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 12:04:01 AM
#176:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I wasn't very clear there I guess, I wasn't suggesting she's trying to turn him on lol, rather she maybe brought it up to cue that she's not looking. Similar to when girls tell thirsty fellas they have a boyfriend.

NoxObscuras posted...
lmao "power play"? Have you never talked about sex with people you don't actually want to sleep with?
I don't think that happens that often in the boy -> girl direction, though my area's pretty conservative I guess. Seems more likely that if this guy is just now determining he's "friendzoned" then they probably aren't super duper close. More likely to me is that she picked up on his thirst and decided to nip that shit in the bud lol

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Chances are he doesn't have one if he wants to subject himself to this just for a whiff tbh

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Unknown480
10/02/22 12:09:26 AM
#177:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
No, it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex. Acting like frustration that it's not going as planned is some sort of villainy is just ridiculous and a thought that wouldn't be entertained if the roles were reversed
No wonder girls reject you
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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 12:32:59 AM
#178:


oof gottem I am vanquished haha

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TomClark
10/02/22 7:28:45 AM
#179:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/4/1/9/AAABqgAADN6b.jpg

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 3:52:23 PM
#180:


TomClark posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/4/1/9/AAABqgAADN6b.jpg
Imagine I'm a girl saying this. There, now you have no problem with it

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Bandit_Keith
10/02/22 4:14:34 PM
#181:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Imagine I'm a girl saying this. There, now you have no problem with it
No, everyone would still have a problem with it.

You really are just telling on yourself in this topic.

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TomClark
10/02/22 4:16:06 PM
#182:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Imagine I'm a girl saying this. There, now you have no problem with it

No, I still very much have a problem with it.


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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 4:42:05 PM
#184:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

That's effectively saying it's never ok for guys though, since dating apps are wastes of time for the bottom 90% of guys

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Much like vegans, incels are outnumbered by the people who say they're obnoxious and omnipresent by 3,000,000:1

Bandit_Keith posted...
No, everyone would still have a problem with it.

You really are just telling on yourself in this topic.
Lol stop lying, she'd be seen as a girl boss, don't be so silly

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Bandit_Keith
10/02/22 5:18:06 PM
#185:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Lol stop lying, she'd be seen as a girl boss, don't be so silly
...No.

But it doesn't matter how many people tell you how you're fucked up in the head, you're much too fucked up in the head to realize it.

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
That's effectively saying it's never ok for guys though, since dating apps are wastes of time for the bottom 90% of guys

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Much like vegans, incels are outnumbered by the people who say they're obnoxious and omnipresent by 3,000,000:1
Everything you're posting in this topic is sad as fuck. And looking more and more like you're identifying with the "nice guys" because you are one.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 7:16:41 PM
#187:


Bandit_Keith posted...
...No.
I can already see it.

"Guys do it all the time, why can't girls? Something something gender norms"

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

It hasn't, many experiments have been done showing this. Guys get WAY less swipes/messages/etc.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I don't think that's true though. Or rather, I should say it doesn't really matter. Guys that seem to do the best are the ones that go for sheer numbers, there are a lot of actually ugly dudes that get shitloads of tail with that strategy. Social proof also plays into this, women are naturally attracted to guys that they've seen or heard have gotten women

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I mean, she literally is telling him which guys she fucks and why. Hard to do better than that as far as that kind of info goes, lol.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 7:21:10 PM
#188:


Also you guys keep misinterpreting what I meant by

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
No, it's just normal and reasonable to interact with the opposite sex for the sole purpose of sex.

I don't mean every single interaction you ever have with that gender, I mean a particular interaction. People do it all the time, nothing abnormal about it. Some people you meet you just wanna get in their pants, you don't care about their taste in music or their politics or whatever lol

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NoxObscuras
10/02/22 7:35:04 PM
#189:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Also you guys keep misinterpreting what I meant by

I don't mean every single interaction you ever have with that gender, I mean a particular interaction. People do it all the time, nothing abnormal about it. Some people you meet you just wanna get in their pants, you don't care about their taste in music or their politics or whatever lol
And what you keep misunderstanding, is that meeting someone with the sole intent of hooking up, is normal, only when that intent is made clear by both parties. As in, both people want sex and nothing else.

But if you're someone's "friend" only because you're waiting for a chance to sleep with them and you don't actually care about being their friend, then that's shitty behavior. That's why that guy in the text got called out, and why you're being called out.

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 7:56:03 PM
#190:


NoxObscuras posted...
But if you're someone's "friend" only because you're waiting for a chance to sleep with them and you don't actually care about being their friend,
People are assuming for some reason that the guy was tricking her somehow, that's really not based on anything. All he said is that he's in the friendzone, only thing that can be gleaned by that is that he doesn't wanna be just friends with her. the assumption being made is that he's been trying to trick her into thinking he's her friend and nothing more.

Also a lot of relationships start off as friendships, it's nonsensical acting like someone trying to segue that into romance is shady

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GameboyTroy
10/02/22 8:33:25 PM
#191:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
People are assuming for some reason that the guy was tricking her somehow, that's really not based on anything. All he said is that he's in the friendzone, only thing that can be gleaned by that is that he doesn't wanna be just friends with her. the assumption being made is that he's been trying to trick her into thinking he's her friend and nothing more.

Also a lot of relationships start off as friendships, it's nonsensical acting like someone trying to segue that into romance is shady
There's nothing wrong with being friends first I guess.

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Number090684
10/02/22 8:54:45 PM
#192:


Has there ever been any nice girl texts to guys?
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rexcrk
10/02/22 8:57:43 PM
#193:




I miss when this was a fun topic about sharing funny pictures of guys texting girls in a cringey way


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josifrees
10/02/22 8:59:35 PM
#194:


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Ruvan22
10/02/22 9:13:25 PM
#195:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Some people you meet you just wanna get in their pants, you don't care about their taste in music or their politics or whatever lol

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
People are assuming for some reason that the guy was tricking her somehow, that's really not based on anything. All he said is that he's in the friendzone, only thing that can be gleaned by that is that he doesn't wanna be just friends with her. the assumption being made is that he's been trying to trick her into thinking he's her friend and nothing more.

Also a lot of relationships start off as friendships, it's nonsensical acting like someone trying to segue that into romance is shady

So he didn't want to be friends with her? Or he had the purpose of starting a friendship hoping to segue it into a romance/sexual interaction?

Because if the first, it really doesn't seem he was clear up front about "just wanting to get into her pants", and if the second - that seems to be what people are saying is dishonest (being friends with the hope of it ending in sex)
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Mr_hulk88
10/02/22 9:51:40 PM
#198:


rexcrk posted...
I miss when this was a fun topic about sharing funny pictures of guys texting girls in a cringey way

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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/02/22 11:25:52 PM
#200:


Ruvan22 posted...
So he didn't want to be friends with her? Or he had the purpose of starting a friendship hoping to segue it into a romance/sexual interaction?

Because if the first, it really doesn't seem he was clear up front about "just wanting to get into her pants", and if the second - that seems to be what people are saying is dishonest (being friends with the hope of it ending in sex)
Well the thing is that you can't just go "Hi my name is ____ I'd like to have sex with you if you agree to these terms, let the mating commence" because that gets you nowhere
You have to be in some sort of casual relationship in the start unless you're dealing with a hooker. So wtf is a guy supposed to do? People keep acting like it's an either/or where a guy either wants to have sex with her dead or alive, or is a completely selfless altruist who wants to be her bestie and help her out with boy advice. Quite a bit of inbetween there and I reckon he's in it

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Those are all good points tbqh but I still stand by my statement that dating sites are not useful for men. If they're bad for women too that doesn't negate that.

I take it that your contention is with the "bottom 90%" part, but I don't think you're considering that most guys would struggle to ever get the kind of experience with girls that you're talking about that you need to do well on dating sites. I know the joke is that "charming" guys are actually just handsome but it's kind of both. It's a lot easier to figure out what behaviors work when women are already receptive from the get-go.

But even then, dating sites obviously don't work the way IRL does, how tf are guys supposed to know women hate selfies and shirtless mirror pics lol that's some fucking arcane knowledge. So it's still like the bottom 80-90% of men I'm talking about, just in terms of savviness instead of looks. The fact is that if men improved in this regard it'd still always be pointless for most because standards would rise accordingly. I stand by what I said.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

They probably ignored that because it's an anecdote which isn't really worth much. I can meet that with my own anecdote of an (informal) experiment where a male model's photo was used for a dating profile that was abhorrent in every other way and women still threw themselves at him left and right. The dude pretended to be a convicted child rapist and it didn't deter them, lol.

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ApherosyLove
10/03/22 1:10:14 AM
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Ruvan22
10/03/22 5:33:36 PM
#202:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Well the thing is that you can't just go "Hi my name is ____ I'd like to have sex with you if you agree to these terms, let the mating commence" because that gets you nowhere
You have to be in some sort of casual relationship in the start unless you're dealing with a hooker. So wtf is a guy supposed to do? People keep acting like it's an either/or where a guy either wants to have sex with her dead or alive, or is a completely selfless altruist who wants to be her bestie and help her out with boy advice. Quite a bit of inbetween there and I reckon he's in it

1) Hmm... what in his text indicates he's in that grey area you define? From what is quoted, it looks like he only wanted to sleep with her and thus was "pretending" to be a friend ("I'm so in the friendzone"). Unless you are saying it's okay to spend time acting like a friend as a way to sleep with someone.
2) To clarify, I'm not discussing "being friendly", which is being a good human being around (hopefully) all others. Becoming a friend is where you've spent so much time with another person they feel comfortable sharing their stress/struggles with you.
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Giblet_Enjoyer
10/03/22 6:39:50 PM
#203:


Ruvan22 posted...
1) Hmm... what in his text indicates he's in that grey area you define? From what is quoted, it looks like he only wanted to sleep with her and thus was "pretending" to be a friend ("I'm so in the friendzone"). Unless you are saying it's okay to spend time acting like a friend as a way to sleep with someone.
2) To clarify, I'm not discussing "being friendly", which is being a good human being around (hopefully) all others. Becoming a friend is where you've spent so much time with another person they feel comfortable sharing their stress/struggles with you.
Again, you're acting like it's an either/or. He probably wanted to bang this girl from the start, that doesn't necessarily mean he hates her and just puts up with her for the occasional sneaky sniffs of her hair and her chair.

Persistence can go a long way, in HS I knew a dude who confessed his love to this girl and was hounding her for years prior to and (presumably) after that. Fast-forward a few years and they're a couple. Not sure how long after HS that happened but they're still together afaik

They were friends for a long fucking time before he got what he wanted.

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