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I4NRulez 09/30/22 10:36:23 PM #1:	I dated this girl in high school and college. 10 years later we see each other and reconnect. Both agree that there's nothing there between us and kinda stay friends. Recently she posted an ig of her in the desert with her boyfriend and they were having a good time. A few weeks later I posted an ig story and she's replying saying we should hangout. I tell her I don't wanna hangout with her because she has a bf and that I'd be uncomfortable if my girl was alone with an ex. She tells me this long intricate story of them breaking up and i think nothing of it. A week or so passes and we run into each other at a bar. It's about 2am and we go out for food and she talks about us in high school and how we've changed. I tried to ask her about her break up and it's vague answers. I'm kinda drunk and didn't pick up red flags. Long story short we hooked up. That was maybe 2 weeks ago and today she's posting them together on vacation. It's possible they broke up and got back together but right after we hooked up she got real distant. We weren't super close but we'd respond to IG stories then she started leaving me on read. I've never been the other man before and I feel awful --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:968408699] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>I dated this girl in high school and college.10 years later we see each other and reconnect. Both agree that there's nothing there between us and kinda stay friends.Recently she posted an ig of her in the desert with her boyfriend and they were having a good time.A few weeks later I posted an ig story and she's replying saying we should hangout. I tell her I don't wanna hangout with her because she has a bf and that I'd be uncomfortable if my girl was alone with an ex.She tells me this long intricate story of them breaking up and i think nothing of it. A week or so passes and we run into each other at a bar. It's about 2am and we go out for food and she talks about us in high school and how we've changed. I tried to ask her about her break up and it's vague answers. I'm kinda drunk and didn't pick up red flags. Long story short we hooked up.That was maybe 2 weeks ago and today she's posting them together on vacation. It's possible they broke up and got back together but right after we hooked up she got real distant. We weren't super close but we'd respond to IG stories then she started leaving me on read.I've never been the other man before and I feel awful </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thx1138 09/30/22 10:38:15 PM #2:	I4NRulez posted... I dated this girl in high school and college. 10 years later we see each other and reconnect. Both agree that there's nothing there between us and kinda stay friends. Recently she posted an ig of her in the desert with her boyfriend and they were having a good time. A few weeks later I posted an ig story and she's replying saying we should hangout. I tell her I don't wanna hangout with her because she has a bf and that I'd be uncomfortable if my girl was alone with an ex. She tells me this long intricate story of them breaking up and i think nothing of it. A week or so passes and we run into each other at a bar. It's about 2am and we go out for food and she talks about us in high school and how we've changed. I tried to ask her about her break up and it's vague answers. I'm kinda drunk and didn't pick up red flags. Long story short we hooked up. That was maybe 2 weeks ago and today she's posting them together on vacation. It's possible they broke up and got back together but right after we hooked up she got real distant. We weren't super close but we'd respond to IG stories then she started leaving me on read. I've never been the other man before and I feel awful i dont think its your fault <cite>thx1138 posted [p:968408737] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>I4NRulez posted... </cite><quote>I dated this girl in high school and college.10 years later we see each other and reconnect. Both agree that there's nothing there between us and kinda stay friends.Recently she posted an ig of her in the desert with her boyfriend and they were having a good time.A few weeks later I posted an ig story and she's replying saying we should hangout. I tell her I don't wanna hangout with her because she has a bf and that I'd be uncomfortable if my girl was alone with an ex.She tells me this long intricate story of them breaking up and i think nothing of it. A week or so passes and we run into each other at a bar. It's about 2am and we go out for food and she talks about us in high school and how we've changed. I tried to ask her about her break up and it's vague answers. I'm kinda drunk and didn't pick up red flags. Long story short we hooked up.That was maybe 2 weeks ago and today she's posting them together on vacation. It's possible they broke up and got back together but right after we hooked up she got real distant. We weren't super close but we'd respond to IG stories then she started leaving me on read.I've never been the other man before and I feel awful</quote>i dont think its your fault </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 09/30/22 10:40:59 PM #3:	I wouldnt worry about it. Anyone that has one night stands or hook ups semi regularly has been the other person. They just aren't aware of it <cite>Axiom posted [p:968408778] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>I wouldnt worry about it. Anyone that has one night stands or hook ups semi regularly has been the other person. They just aren't aware of it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
--Zero- 09/30/22 10:41:49 PM #4:	Thats a crappy feeling to have. Im sorry. It seems she waited to relive some old memories and got cold feet after doing so. Makes you wonder if there is issues in the relationship or if you were a special case for her. --- This used to be a worthy sig <cite>--Zero- posted [p:968408792] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Thats a crappy feeling to have. Im sorry. It seems she waited to relive some old memories and got cold feet after doing so. Makes you wonder if there is issues in the relationship or if you were a special case for her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 09/30/22 10:42:23 PM #5:	I4NRulez posted... but right after we hooked up she got real distant Sounds like you got them back together --- Momentai <cite>KainWind posted [p:968408800] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>I4NRulez posted... </cite><quote>but right after we hooked up she got real distant</quote>Sounds like you got them back together</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VampireCoyote 09/30/22 10:42:39 PM #6:	these things happen, dont let it distress you --- She/her <cite>VampireCoyote posted [p:968408805] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>these things happen, dont let it distress you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 09/30/22 10:44:34 PM #7:	KainWind posted... Sounds like you got them back together Nah i dont they ever broke up. Her story was long and detailed but it was very cliche and vague. I'm sure their relationship has issues and she vented about those but i dont think they ever actually broke up. I think she just brought it up because i told her i didnt want to hangout with her because she had a bf. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:968408847] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>KainWind posted... </cite><quote>Sounds like you got them back together</quote>Nah i dont they ever broke up. Her story was long and detailed but it was very cliche and vague. I'm sure their relationship has issues and she vented about those but i dont think they ever actually broke up.I think she just brought it up because i told her i didnt want to hangout with her because she had a bf.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 10/01/22 3:10:56 PM #9:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I like the way you think --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:968420121] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I like the way you think</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 10/01/22 3:13:44 PM #10:	Don't feel bad, man. You did nothing wrong if you didn't know --- Currently playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 3 <cite>bsp77 posted [p:968420165] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Don't feel bad, man. You did nothing wrong if you didn't know </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheShadowViper 10/01/22 3:15:25 PM #11:	If this distresses you probably should listen to those warning signs. Sounds like you already knew she was trouble. <cite>TheShadowViper posted [p:968420200] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>If this distresses you probably should listen to those warning signs. Sounds like you already knew she was trouble. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AloneIBreak 10/01/22 3:41:21 PM #12:	Is she hot? --- As long as politics is the shadow cast on society by big business, the attenuation of the shadow will not change the substance. Libertarian socialist. <cite>AloneIBreak posted [p:968420633] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Is she hot?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lil_Bit83 10/01/22 3:46:54 PM #13:	Uh oh. Well you didn't mean to. --- 2DS FC tempest 1478 9807 1205 <cite>Lil_Bit83 posted [p:968420749] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Uh oh. Well you didn't mean to.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jiek_Fafn 10/01/22 3:52:29 PM #15:	Undeserved guilt sounds awful. Hope you feel better. Not your fault --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:968420844] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Undeserved guilt sounds awful. Hope you feel better. Not your fault</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mia_K97 10/01/22 3:52:40 PM #16:	Axiom posted... I wouldnt worry about it. Anyone that has one night stands or hook ups semi regularly has been the other person. They just aren't aware of it. One time I had sex with this girl I met a party. The next morning, I was driving and saw her walking with her boyfriend walking their dog lol. <cite>Mia_K97 posted [p:968420848] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>Axiom posted... </cite><quote>I wouldnt worry about it. Anyone that has one night stands or hook ups semi regularly has been the other person. They just aren't aware of it.</quote>One time I had sex with this girl I met a party. The next morning, I was driving and saw her walking with her boyfriend walking their dog lol. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 10/01/22 4:32:22 PM #17:	I'm sorry for your distress about this, but it very much isn't your fault. She lied, she cheated. That's not on you, brother. Stop following her on social media and put her out of your mind. <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:968421414] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry for your distress about this, but it very much isn't your fault. She lied, she cheated. That's not on you, brother.Stop following her on social media and put her out of your mind.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prestonluv 10/01/22 4:38:56 PM #18:	You arent the first <cite>prestonluv posted [p:968421531] in I found ou... [t:80183652]...</cite> <quote>You arent the first </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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