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Trickfinger
11/02/22 1:50:00 PM
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Is there?


Discuss.

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discodancer77
11/02/22 1:53:35 PM
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Ya its weird

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EmbraceOfDeath
11/02/22 1:55:21 PM
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discodancer77 posted...
Ya its weird
Being weird isn't a problem.

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NoxObscuras
11/02/22 1:55:35 PM
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Not if they met for the first time after the 18 year old was already of legal age.

But if they met before then and they waited for the 18th birthday, then yeah, that's very questionable.

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MC_BatCommander
11/02/22 1:56:09 PM
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I mean legally no but a 30 year old dating someone fresh out of highschool is weird imo

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Mistere_Man
11/02/22 1:58:03 PM
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As long as it is consensual and not coerced, forced, etc what two or more legal age adults do with, or to each other is not my nor anyone elses business but their own imo.

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Cobra1010
11/02/22 1:58:38 PM
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I personally wouldnt date an 18 year old. But if you're asking if i have problem with others doing that, well its none of my business.

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lww99
11/02/22 1:59:36 PM
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Uh yes. She could still be in high school, and youve started a career.

what could you possibly even have in common? Emotional maturity would be night and day difference.

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Hop103
11/02/22 2:02:51 PM
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Nope, despite deranged people from Twitter and Tik Tok saying otherwise.

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Shabriri
11/02/22 2:05:10 PM
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i mean, not inherently, but it's something to consider as being potentially unwholesome. a 30 year old is generally at a very different place mentally, emotionally, socially, and financially than a fresh adult. i dont really see how it could work out, but that in and of itself isnt enough for me to say it's inherently bad or predatory. it is not something i would want to do, tho

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Mistere_Man
11/02/22 2:08:06 PM
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Shabriri posted...
i mean, not inherently, but it's something to consider as being potentially unwholesome. a 30 year old is generally at a very different place mentally, emotionally, socially, and financially than a fresh adult. i dont really see how it could work out, but that in and of itself isnt enough for me to say it's inherently bad or predatory. it is not something i would want to do, tho
And yet you seduce the many different aged user here with your sexy voice. You dirty dirty birdie! Jk

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
11/02/22 2:08:51 PM
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Nope, she is a legal adult who can do what she wants.

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Prismsblade
11/02/22 2:09:10 PM
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I mean, just because a girls that young doesn't mean they don't have a fair amount of relationship experience.

That and guys that age generally have alot more to offer anyways then most guys hers and in their young or even mid 20s.

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GuerrillaSoldier
11/02/22 2:09:17 PM
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no and who cares

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Shabriri
11/02/22 2:10:56 PM
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Mistere_Man posted...
And yet you seduce the many different aged user here with your sexy voice. You dirty dirty birdie! Jk
listen. aint my fault all the knees go weak when i open my mouth

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IronWolf87
11/02/22 2:12:04 PM
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Both are too young for dating and relationships
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SauI_Goodman
11/02/22 2:12:40 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Nope, she is a legal adult who can do what she wants.
So are you referring to she being the 30 yesr old or the 18 year old.

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electricbugs2
11/02/22 2:13:26 PM
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Nope theres nothing wrong with it. Do we really need this topic every other week?

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GameboyTroy
11/02/22 2:17:57 PM
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No, they are an adult now.

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AP3Brain
11/02/22 2:20:12 PM
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I voted yes but I wouldn't insert myself into the situation unless it was my 18 y/o kid.

At 18 99% of people don't have any real source of income and haven't done any type of trade school or college. Most don't even know what they want to do with their lives. If they got in a relationship with a 30 y/o the power imbalance would just be too huge.

I'd question how a 30 y/o got to know them in the first place and if they were specifically going for an 18 y/o it just sounds predatory.
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Pepys_Monster
11/02/22 2:20:18 PM
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Nope, my 18 y/o girlfriend and I got a hotel room on my 30th birthday. It was great.

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HashtagTartarus
11/02/22 2:20:25 PM
#22:


30 / 2 = 15
15 + 7 = 22
22 - 18 = 4

It is mathematically proven to be problematic by four years.
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Revelation34
11/02/22 2:24:40 PM
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HashtagTartarus posted...
30 / 2 = 15
15 + 7 = 22
22 - 18 = 4

It is mathematically proven to be problematic by four years.


It can't be mathematically proven if the 7 year formula is made up in the first place.

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yusiko
11/02/22 2:25:22 PM
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would be fine for a one night stand
they are both consenting adults

but an actual relationship? naw that feels predatory to me
the 30 year old is in a completely different place in their life so they wouldnt have much in common with the 18 year old unless they were really far behind in their own real world development

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SauI_Goodman
11/02/22 2:27:17 PM
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HashtagTartarus posted...
30 / 2 = 15
15 + 7 = 22
22 - 18 = 4

It is mathematically proven to be problematic by four years.

HashtagTartarus posted...
30 / 2 = 15
15 + 7 = 22
22 - 18 = 4

It is mathematically proven to be problematic by four years.
Anybody can make up any formula they want. I can make one up saying its ok.

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Flockaveli
11/02/22 2:28:06 PM
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No but there's plenty of context that can be added to make it problematic, like with most relationships between two adults.
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silverpine
11/02/22 2:32:18 PM
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yes. the 30 yr old is a creepy pedo. if they could go younger they would. only evil people defend this
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K181
11/02/22 2:33:14 PM
#30:


It's very weird, but whatever.

I banged and had a threesome with an 18 year-old when i was 24ish, and even that age gap felt weird at first.

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electricbugs2
11/02/22 2:34:56 PM
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silverpine posted...
yes. the 30 yr old is a creepy pedo. if they could go younger they would. only evil people defend this
I dont think you know what that word means. Shut the fuck up.

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SomeGuyUO
11/02/22 2:35:30 PM
#32:


As weird as sending an 18 year old to war.
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Damn_Underscore
11/02/22 2:37:39 PM
#33:


IronWolf87 posted...
Both are too young for dating and relationships

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thx1138
11/02/22 2:38:21 PM
#34:


Legally no, morally yes for some people

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thx1138
11/02/22 2:38:48 PM
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EmbraceOfDeath posted...
Being weird isn't a problem.



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thx1138
11/02/22 2:40:07 PM
#36:


Maybe weird to date but not weird to pound, I mean who would say no to millie bobby brown?

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Trickfinger
11/02/22 2:46:36 PM
#38:


K181 posted...
It's very weird, but whatever.

I banged and had a threesome with an 18 year-old when i was 24ish, and even that age gap felt weird at first.
Yeah, I dated an 18 year old when I was 25 for like a week and everybody was looking at me crazy.

Then after I tried having a serious convo with her I was like wtf am I doing.

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MICHALECOLE
11/02/22 2:47:41 PM
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Everybody should stop worrying where consenting adults put their private parts
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VandorLee
11/02/22 2:49:30 PM
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Yes. Its extremely weird and you will be judged for it. Its legal though.

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Trumble
11/02/22 2:51:41 PM
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Not unless theyve known each other a long time.

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Trickfinger
11/02/22 2:53:19 PM
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Trumble posted...
Not unless theyve known each other a long time.
Like since...6 and 18?

>.>

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Damn_Underscore
11/02/22 2:53:28 PM
#43:


VandorLee posted...
Yes. Its extremely weird and you will be judged for it.

By people who spend their entire day on twitter and CE

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lww99
11/02/22 2:53:37 PM
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I didnt feel like an adult until I was in my mid twenties

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coolcono
11/02/22 2:54:09 PM
#45:


Trickfinger posted...
Yeah, I dated an 18 year old when I was 25 for like a week and everybody was looking at me crazy.

Then after I tried having a serious convo with her I was like wtf am I doing.
I dated a 16 year old when I was 27, but her mom set us up. She was the most boring I have ever met.

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lww99
11/02/22 2:54:46 PM
#46:


Trickfinger posted...
Like since...6 and 18?

>.>

Yes, it is very weird to fuck your family/friends daughter.

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DrPrimemaster
11/02/22 2:55:50 PM
#47:


MICHALECOLE posted...
Everybody should stop worrying where consenting adults put their private parts

My step sister keeps telling me this but I still think we should worry a little.

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VandorLee
11/02/22 2:56:50 PM
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If there wasnt a problem: why would you ask?

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frozenstar
11/02/22 2:56:54 PM
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tc once hit on an 18 year old and never heard back from her lol

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AmericaTheBrave
11/02/22 2:57:16 PM
#50:


Legally no, but I do see the 30 year old as mentally immature.

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