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Super_Slash
11/17/22 9:47:35 PM
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I don't have a lot of options. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of emotionally.

Seriously...I'm stuck here. Idk what to do. Something is wrong. Why me?
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Johnny_Nutcase
11/17/22 9:49:11 PM
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Why not?

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Dakimakura
11/17/22 9:51:05 PM
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ask your stepbrother for help

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Super_Slash
11/17/22 9:51:12 PM
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...
Why not?
I made a mistake by moving in with someone I knew nothing about, and my family is in no position to take me back.
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pojr
11/17/22 9:51:55 PM
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Super_Slash posted...
I made a mistake by moving in with someone I knew nothing about, and my family is in no position to take me back.
sorry to hear man. is it just a roommate? significant other? your family cannot take you back whatsoever? no option to live on your own?

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Super_Slash
11/17/22 9:53:34 PM
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pojr posted...
sorry to hear man. is it just a roommate? significant other? your family cannot take you back whatsoever? no option to live on your own?
She is my SO, yes. I think there is a small chance I can be taken back, but I have no job and even if I did, I don't really have the time to save up for anything at this point, and my credit is fucked.
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pojr
11/17/22 9:56:23 PM
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Super_Slash posted...
She is my SO, yes. I think there is a small chance I can be taken back, but I have no job and even if I did, I don't really have the time to save up for anything at this point, and my credit is fucked.
is the relationship salvageable, or is it fucked? are you interested in patching it up, or do you want to GFTO?

surprised to see you're living with someone but you don't have a job, but i dunno the full story. you in school or something? might be worth contacting the family, i cant imagine them not being able to take you in

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Super_Slash
11/17/22 10:10:57 PM
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pojr posted...
is the relationship salvageable, or is it fucked? are you interested in patching it up, or do you want to GFTO?

surprised to see you're living with someone but you don't have a job, but i dunno the full story. you in school or something? might be worth contacting the family, i cant imagine them not being able to take you in
I've BEEN trying to patch it up. The yelling doesn't stop, the verbal abuse doesn't stop, the excuses don't stop. I can't take this anymore. Idk what to do because I've been so close to her for almost three years. I am not enrolled in this semester but I'm going back in the spring. As far as school and work goes there's a lot to that story as well.
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pojr
11/17/22 10:28:37 PM
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Super_Slash posted...
I've BEEN trying to patch it up. The yelling doesn't stop, the verbal abuse doesn't stop, the excuses don't stop. I can't take this anymore. Idk what to do because I've been so close to her for almost three years. I am not enrolled in this semester but I'm going back in the spring. As far as school and work goes there's a lot to that story as well.
yikes man, sorry to hear. what happened? did she cheat? seems like youre trying everything you can to keep the relationship going.

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coolguyjimmy
11/17/22 10:29:58 PM
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Why not ask extended family? You may be surprised who has a couch-free, if it's really that bad...
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Evening_Dragon
11/17/22 10:33:42 PM
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All I can really think of is to speak calmly but assertively, "It's really hurting me when you yell at insult me like this." But I know that can be difficult when you're in a bad state, and I don't really know your whole dynamic, either. This is just a shot in the dark that I hope helps in some way.

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Super_Slash
11/17/22 10:35:26 PM
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pojr posted...
yikes man, sorry to hear. what happened? did she cheat? seems like youre trying everything you can to keep the relationship going.
No she didn't cheat but she has an open phone policy and is now actively deleting conversations where she vents about me to her friend, almost always over something stupid like when I used a glass baking dish for meatloaf instead of a meatloaf pan the other night.

I could write walls and walls of text about what's going on here
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Super_Slash
11/18/22 4:18:24 AM
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Sorry, been busy.

coolguyjimmy posted...
Why not ask extended family? You may be surprised who has a couch-free, if it's really that bad...
Most of them aren't able to do anything. And my uncle I absolutely can't stand.

Evening_Dragon posted...
All I can really think of is to speak calmly but assertively, "It's really hurting me when you yell at insult me like this." But I know that can be difficult when you're in a bad state, and I don't really know your whole dynamic, either. This is just a shot in the dark that I hope helps in some way.
I've tried. Apparently it isn't registering. She rarely blames herself for anything and I rarely get an apology.
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Crimson_Corsair
11/18/22 5:02:54 AM
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I don't know, kind of hard to sympathize without knowing more. Mid 30s, no job, not enrolled in school, it isn't your house/apartment, what are you even offering in this relationship?

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