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frozenstar
11/19/22 8:34:31 PM
#51:


lashing out is usually caused by pain the person is going through

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 8:35:55 PM
#52:


frozenstar posted...
lashing out is usually caused by pain the person is going through

She has been following my potential transition to male for years. Everyone here knew I had gender dysphoria. I think she viewed it as me giving up and she was losing a kindred spirit.

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 8:38:45 PM
#53:


Irony posted...
You must be new to this board it is absolutely not one incident it happens a lot

ThePrinceFish posted...
Yeah Sayoria never runs into moderation trouble, and these topics aren't constantly filled with people going "yeah she broke the rules, but does it really matter? I like her."

That's catboy (so not new) and while he tends to be wrong about plenty of things, he is not wrong here. Sayoria hasn't been in any significant trouble since that incident with Deadpool_18 that left them both in purgatory for months, and that was years ago. She's kept a pretty damn low profile since then. In my opinion, whatever was said should have been said privately to DarkRoast, so this warning is likely fair in context, but isn't something to condemn Sayoria over.

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frozenstar
11/19/22 8:39:33 PM
#54:


I agree with machete

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Sexypwnstar
11/19/22 8:50:35 PM
#55:


Imagine not being understanding of gender fluidity

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frozenstar
11/19/22 8:51:30 PM
#56:


Sexypwnstar posted...
Imagine not being understanding of gender fluidity
I used to dress up as princess zelda for my best male friend

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Flockaveli
11/19/22 8:58:22 PM
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Sexypwnstar posted...
Imagine not being understanding of gender fluidity
Is "Fluid Exclusion Radical Trans" a thing
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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 9:47:10 PM
#58:


frozenstar posted...
I agree with machete



Sexypwnstar posted...
Imagine not being understanding of gender fluidity

I've always presented as male and I likely always will but I consider myself non-binary and in fact I have DarkRoast to thank for really understanding where I fit on the gender spectrum, as I was essentially the inverse. I say was because pregnancy can clearly affect a person and I will never know that firsthand, but prior to DarkRoast's pregnancy, I strongly felt as though my story was the same, just from the opposite perspective. What does that mean going forward? Probably nothing. I'm stubborn and set in my ways. I do have a much further opened mind about gender fluidity, gender in general and what non-binary means now than I did just a few years ago however. The facts that I have a cousin who has come out as non-binary and that my brother has come out as bisexual (probably pansexual if you want to get into semantics) and is currently dating a non-binary person have helped me come to terms with self-perceptions I've had from a very young age that I just kind of buried because I just felt like adapting to what was "normal" was a better option than, whatever the alternative would have been back then. But more than any of that, I appreciate how much times have changed since then so that I can not only understand all of this but also feel comfortable speaking on it.

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 9:52:35 PM
#59:


Everyone has their own journey, and the destination doesn't have to be the same. I found my way back to where my heart was. I love being a female. I love my baby. I love my wife. I'm actually content for once.

Gender is just a construct. You don't have to follow the rules. I was a quasi-guy for 20 years despite not being willing to transition with hormones and surgery. But now I'm glad I didn't.

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Cleo_II
11/19/22 10:02:26 PM
#60:


Wow I missed her posts in that topic (just catching up). Im sorry DarkRoast, that was unwarranted towards you. But Im glad youre keeping your head high and progressing with your journey of self discovery. All that matters is that youre happy.
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Dat_Cracka_Jax
11/19/22 10:04:16 PM
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I had a feeling something like this was going to happen when I saw your posts in your topic about your wife kissing your pregnant belly.

Don't let anyone keep you from being yourself and who you feel happy being.

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ElatedVenusaur
11/19/22 10:07:03 PM
#62:


DarkRoast posted...
Everyone has their own journey, and the destination doesn't have to be the same. I found my way back to where my heart was. I love being a female. I love my baby. I love my wife. I'm actually content for once.

Gender is just a construct. You don't have to follow the rules. I was a quasi-guy for 20 years despite not being willing to transition with hormones and surgery. But now I'm glad I didn't.
Yeah...I don't understand why she would do something like that. Everyone's relationship to their gender and how they express it is unique, and our understanding of ourselves is constantly evolving.

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Blade_Trinity
11/19/22 10:07:54 PM
#63:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFBWPcaMKeo&list=RDMM&index=4

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frozenstar
11/19/22 10:08:41 PM
#64:


dont demonize sayoria

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Blade_Trinity
11/19/22 10:12:48 PM
#65:


frozenstar posted...
dont demonize sayoria
Lol.
Fuck off.

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frozenstar
11/19/22 10:14:32 PM
#66:


Blade_Trinity posted...
Lol.
Fuck off.

DarkRoast posted...
She has been following my potential transition to male for years. Everyone here knew I had gender dysphoria. I think she viewed it as me giving up and she was losing a kindred spirit.

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:15:47 PM
#67:


DarkRoast posted...
Everyone has their own journey, and the destination doesn't have to be the same. I found my way back to where my heart was. I love being a female. I love my baby. I love my wife. I'm actually content for once.

Gender is just a construct. You don't have to follow the rules. I was a quasi-guy for 20 years despite not being willing to transition with hormones and surgery. But now I'm glad I didn't.

I had thoughts about something being off as young as 3 or 4, but by the time I got into elementary school and realized how unusual those thoughts were, I essentially trained myself to steer away. It was overcompensation, but I went so hard with it that it stuck, and it stuck harder than any thoughts to the contrary every could have. For most of my life, I never even thought about it. Then in a selfie topic on this board years ago I did one of those gender-swap app pic things and I thought the female version of me looked actually pretty good, which I really did not expect at all... but more importantly, that version of me looked happy, and I never look happy in any real pics. That's what made the gears start turning, and to clarify, that swapped picture of me looked like someone I had always felt I could have been, not just "hurr durr gender face swap"

At this point, changing anything I'm used to would be overwhelmingly inconvenient and I just don't want to deal with any of that, but understanding myself more is always a good thing, so we'll see where that goes. I appreciate my form and stature as they are, don't get me wrong. I could see other variations being equally desirable, but I'm not complaining about how I am now.

For you, I'm sorry that you had a misunderstanding with Sayoria. I've known her for a while. I agree with much, but not all of her views. I'm from her state. It sounds like you had a revelation that she felt may have been clouded and she reacted to it harshly. That is unfortunate. I'm glad you responded the way you did and I hope that when she comes back, she can reflect on this and look at it more from your perspective than any other. The important thing is you love your wife and you are carrying a child who is hers and yours and that was a decision you both willfully made and that you both want. Pregnancy is a sacrifice, period.
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JlM
11/19/22 10:17:10 PM
#68:


DarkRoast being pure class as usual.


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--Zero-
11/19/22 10:17:47 PM
#69:


Shes been pretty chill lately hasnt she? I used to get her and gunpla mixed up. Wasnt Say under some heat some years back for offensive racial stuff they said was because of their upbringing?

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 10:20:01 PM
#70:


Thank you for the kind words, FoS

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Blade_Trinity
11/19/22 10:20:53 PM
#71:


DarkRoast posted...
Thank you for the kind words, FoS
Care cup empty.

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:21:57 PM
#73:


DarkRoast posted...
Thank you for the kind words, FoS

You're welcome, and thank you for sharing your story when it impacted me (a few years ago) :)

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 10:23:53 PM
#74:


Nothing forces you to wonder if you're female quite like being fucking pregnant lol.

And you're welcome too. It's been a long journey for me - it's been like ten years on CE alone dealing with my gender issues.

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Azardea
11/19/22 10:26:25 PM
#75:


FigureOfSpeech posted...
since that incident with Deadpool_18 that left them both in purgatory for months, and that was years ago.
Tbf that was incredibly fucked up of her.
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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:30:03 PM
#76:


DarkRoast posted...
Nothing forces you to wonder if you're female quite like being fucking pregnant lol.

And you're welcome too. It's been a long journey for me - it's been like ten years on CE alone dealing with my gender issues.

Oh believe me I know it. From the opposite side, but I know it. I've never wanted kids and I never will. Based on that, it's a lot easier to feel comfortable in my own skin >_>
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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:31:47 PM
#77:


Azardea posted...
Tbf that was incredibly fucked up of her.
It was fucked up of both of them. She blatantly lied and fabricated PMs. He was blatantly guilty of sexual harassment (outside of the fabricated PMs). The mutual verdict was fair.
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Blade_Trinity
11/19/22 10:33:07 PM
#79:


DarkRoast posted...
Nothing forces you to wonder if you're female quite like being fucking pregnant lol.

And you're welcome too. It's been a long journey for me - it's been like ten years on CE alone dealing with my gender issues.
Fuck off. All you ever talk about is you or your money. Don't pretend to care.

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:35:07 PM
#80:


Yikes what the fuck at 79
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frozenstar
11/19/22 10:36:56 PM
#81:


Blade_Trinity posted...
Fuck off. All you ever talk about is you or your money. Don't pretend to care.
jesus christ bro touch grass

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JlM
11/19/22 10:38:06 PM
#82:


Blade_Trinity posted...
Fuck off. All you ever talk about is you or your money. Don't pretend to care.

Go snort dried dog shit.

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 10:39:36 PM
#83:


He's mad because Ryan Reynolds was not funny enough for that sort of role when Blade Trinity came out... and it was a fucking worthless garbage movie that should have never happened.
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DarkRoast
11/19/22 10:39:47 PM
#84:


None of that made sense so I'm just gonna ignore it

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Ruvan22
11/19/22 10:47:26 PM
#85:


Blade_Trinity posted...
Fuck off. All you ever talk about is you or your money. Don't pretend to care.

She.. talks about a LOT of other things.. (computer parts, video games, politics, public health, etc) and very rarely about her money? Are you getting her mixed up with someone else?
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DarkRoast
11/19/22 10:50:12 PM
#86:


I never talk about money because people who boast about their wealth are shallow and just trying to make people less well-off jealous. It's immature and sad.

I'm blessed to be able to buy the things I want, but I don't flaunt it. I consider myself very fortunate.

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 10:55:21 PM
#88:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


The best choice is just not to play along. There's nothing to gain by engaging except for anger and resentment.

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DarkRoast
11/19/22 11:01:14 PM
#89:


At the risk of sounding corny... I love you guys so much.

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Flockaveli
11/19/22 11:07:33 PM
#90:


DarkRoast posted...
At the risk of sounding corny... I love you guys so much.
happy for you beanz. Don't stop loving yourself and keep trying and going after things that make it easier for you to do.
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MarcyWarcy
11/19/22 11:15:25 PM
#91:


Blade_Trinity posted...
Fuck off. All you ever talk about is you or your money. Don't pretend to care.

wtf are you talking about
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DarkRoast
11/19/22 11:17:44 PM
#92:


MarcyWarcy posted...
wtf are you talking about

Best I can figure is he has me confused with someone else

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FigureOfSpeech
11/19/22 11:20:59 PM
#93:


DarkRoast posted...
Best I can figure is he has me confused with someone else

,maybe that was some half assed House reference?
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frozenstar
11/19/22 11:29:40 PM
#94:


i bet he was drunk

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MrMallard
11/20/22 12:28:23 AM
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DarkRoast posted...
At the risk of sounding corny... I love you guys so much.

Thank you so much for all these years of helping me through my craziness.
I'm glad you got over your right-wing shitposting. It's always neat to see you around

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DarkRoast
11/20/22 12:29:20 AM
#96:


MrMallard posted...
I'm glad you got over your right-wing shitposting. It's always neat to see you around

I can't change the past. I can only learn from it.

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ChildOfHades
11/20/22 12:40:40 AM
#97:


Cpt_Pineapple posted...
DarkRoast is a better person than I'll ever be
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CEvillain
11/20/22 12:48:07 AM
#98:


DarkRoast posted...
There's too much hatred and desire for retribution in this world, and not enough forgiveness. If we can learn to forgive each other, we can learn so much from each other.

This needs to be posted in a new topic, locked, and then pinned for everyone to see.

I am happy for your personal progress.
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DarkRoast
11/20/22 1:30:11 AM
#99:


Thanks so much guys holy shit Im having a hard time fighting back the tears.

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CEvillain
11/20/22 1:32:08 AM
#100:


DarkRoast posted...
holy shit Im having a hard time fighting back the tears.

You can do it!
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DarkRoast
11/20/22 7:32:25 AM
#101:


Just want to add that Blade Trinity was kind of a bad movie imo

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