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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 12:41:30 AM
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I wont have to imagine soon.

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JKwaffle
04/10/23 12:44:10 AM
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I'm only just about to 26, but for some reason I can't help but feel like I'm waiting too long to get married, even tho I know that's dumb. Doesn't help that a lot of my friends around my age are getting married.

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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 12:47:12 AM
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ToteAll posted...
Your constant jumps from awful, mean spirited, hateful posts to self pity posts are insane.
What in the world did I say that was mean-spirited? I try to build depressed people up, because I know what its like.

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Shinnokxz
04/10/23 12:49:38 AM
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if you grew up in an environment like utah where the culture, familial, and religious pressure gets kids married at the age of 19, 20 you grow sort of numb to the concept quickly
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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 12:52:06 AM
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Shinnokxz posted...
if you grew up in an environment like utah where the culture, familial, and religious pressure gets kids married at the age of 19, 20 you grow sort of numb to the concept quickly
Well, I didnt. And here I am, rotting on the vine.

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MetalGearDogma
04/10/23 12:56:29 AM
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32.
In a relationship for 3 years now.

Still too soon. Plus many family members who don't get along so our wedding would end in a Desaster and we don't want that

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gu-gohan
04/10/23 1:02:36 AM
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My girlfriend and me have been together for 7 years, but marriage is not an option. Why? Because in Switzerland, we would end up paying more taxes and getting less pension. Second, we don't want to have children. Last, we are not religious and there is simply no reason to think about getting married (other than for romantic feelings). In case someone of us dies or gets very ill, we made arrangements and testaments.

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VampireCoyote
04/10/23 1:06:54 AM
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I dont think I will ever recover from my divorce

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IronTusk
04/10/23 1:09:09 AM
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Just do whatever makes you happy so long as it doesn't harm others.

Society's judgment doesn't matter.
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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 1:12:12 AM
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IronTusk posted...
Just do whatever makes you happy so long as it doesn't harm others.

Society's judgment doesn't matter.
Youre right. But marriage would make me happy, if it was to a sufficiently hot woman.

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Gritty
04/10/23 1:13:27 AM
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Feels good man
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Razor
04/10/23 1:20:29 AM
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gu-gohan posted...
My girlfriend and me have been together for 7 years, but we don't want to marry. Why? Because in Switzerland, we would end up paying more taxes and getting less pension. Second, we don't want to have children. Last, we are not religious and there is simply no reason to think about getting married (other than for romantic feelings). In case someone of us dies or gets very ill, we made arrangements and testaments.

DINKs! Double income , no kids. nice

Pepys_Monster posted...
Youre right. But marriage would make me happy, if it was to a sufficiently hot woman.

Don't sleep on average women. Hot women come with a lot of their own set of problems. Like getting stared at all the time.
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IronTusk
04/10/23 1:36:37 AM
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Pepys_Monster posted...
Youre right. But marriage would make me happy, if it was to a sufficiently hot woman.

My wife and I have been together for 17 years. I found her extremely attractive when we met, and I find her extremely attractive now.
But that's not really what matters. We respect each other's views, values, tastes, likes and dislikes. I both like and love her as a person.

Look for someone whose personality you can gel with and who likes you back. Happiness is about so much more than "sufficiently hot."
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dj1200
04/10/23 1:44:15 AM
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dude i'm 38 and not married.

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Sonic_Cannon
04/10/23 3:04:42 AM
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IronTusk posted...
My wife and I have been together for 17 years. I found her extremely attractive when we met, and I find her extremely attractive now.
But that's not really what matters. We respect each other's views, values, tastes, likes and dislikes. I both like and love her as a person.

Look for someone whose personality you can gel with and who likes you back. Happiness is about so much more than "sufficiently hot."
this, wtf. Mentioning hotness as the main factor in whether a marriage would make you happy is bad energy

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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 3:06:14 AM
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dj1200 posted...
dude i'm 38 and not married.
My condolences, brother.

Sonic_Cannon posted...
this, wtf. Mentioning hotness as the main factor in whether a marriage would make you happy is bad energy
Hmm.

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KogaSteelfang
04/10/23 3:08:12 AM
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Yeah, imagine that. Imagine being 39, and turning 40 in 5 months. Imagine that you've even had a date or been with anyone. Imagine having to live knowing there's an entire movie making fun of your existence. That would suck.
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MICHALECOLE
04/10/23 3:12:48 AM
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At least youll have Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB to keep you company
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KogaSteelfang
04/10/23 3:12:56 AM
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I saw the deleted posts, and I just want to say situation is definitely worse, and I'm very sorry you had to deal with that.

I deleted my quote and response as well.
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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 3:14:05 AM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
At least youll have Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB to keep you company
Yeahbut all of that is old tech now.

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MICHALECOLE
04/10/23 3:15:55 AM
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Pepys_Monster posted...
Yeahbut all of that is old tech now.
Yeesh

well in that case I guess youll just have to focus on being a better, more positive, and less judgmental person to find happiness
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The_Wheelman1
04/10/23 3:40:17 AM
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One of my coworkers got married recently at 42. So turning 35 not the end. You still have a chance.

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Kalk
04/10/23 5:20:57 AM
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Marriage is a trap.

Children are parasites.

Just be single and freeeeee!

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rexcrk
04/10/23 5:25:37 AM
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I dont need to imagine Its not even something I want tbh. Maybe if my life had played out differently


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Glob
04/10/23 6:00:29 AM
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Im 36 and not married. I had no intention of ever getting married until last year.
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imjusthere4fun
04/10/23 6:02:26 AM
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I don't want to get married.
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gildedwings
04/10/23 6:06:55 AM
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I wanna get laid at least.

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rexcrk
04/10/23 6:13:30 AM
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ToteAll posted...
Your constant jumps from awful, mean spirited, hateful posts to self pity posts are insane.


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gu-gohan
04/10/23 7:02:10 AM
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IronTusk posted...
My wife and I have been together for 17 years. I found her extremely attractive when we met, and I find her extremely attractive now.
But that's not really what matters. We respect each other's views, values, tastes, likes and dislikes. I both like and love her as a person.

Look for someone whose personality you can gel with and who likes you back. Happiness is about so much more than "sufficiently hot."
Spot-on.

Razor posted...
DINKs! Double income , no kids. nice
Yeah, we can make a very good living (also living in a wealthy country... we are aware of our luck and appreciate it every day...).

There was a time when I thought hard about whether I'll regret not having kids someday or not, but I came to the conclusion that I won't. I just never had to urge to have children. As an introvert, the time for myself and my needs is too important. I want to enjoy my life as much as possible with the limited time given.

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Vegy
04/10/23 7:03:08 AM
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I still have 4 years left, niiice

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R_Jackal
04/10/23 7:03:51 AM
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Marriage isn't worth it these days anyway, unless you really need the tax breaks.
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Glob
04/10/23 7:04:12 AM
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R_Jackal posted...
Marriage isn't worth it these days anyway, unless you really need the tax breaks.

I need the visa.
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R_Jackal
04/10/23 7:05:21 AM
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True, that's another one.
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Ryven
04/10/23 7:13:03 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/5/5/AAAd6MAAEXlD.jpg

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asdf8562
04/10/23 7:13:29 AM
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You don't need marriage to be happy with a woman, or man (whatever your tastes are).
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Celestial_Red
04/10/23 7:16:32 AM
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Will be 35 next month and I haven't been in a relationship in over a decade.

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Lvaneede
04/10/23 7:19:31 AM
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Im 33 and have never been in a relationship

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Flash
04/10/23 7:29:29 AM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
I saw the deleted posts, and I just want to say situation is definitely worse, and I'm very sorry you had to deal with that.

I deleted my quote and response as well.
Tell us what the deleted post said and by who
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_____Cait
04/10/23 7:30:16 AM
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I dont need to imagine it

im living it

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
04/10/23 7:37:37 AM
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It is better for men financially to not get married, and if they do marry they should start thinking about it mid 30s.

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Prismsblade
04/10/23 7:45:47 AM
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Loneliness can be overcome by one's self the same as all other negative emotions. So idk why it's treated differently in the sense that it can only be treated by companionship.


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KogaSteelfang
04/10/23 8:21:17 AM
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Flash posted...
Tell us what the deleted post said and by who
It was from Pepys_monster, but its not my place repeat it. If he's comfortable sharing again, he will.
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R1masher
04/10/23 8:41:40 AM
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Maybe someone here will propose to you

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_Rinku_
04/10/23 8:45:22 AM
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VampireCoyote posted...
I dont think I will ever recover from my divorce
Same. I'm currently battling some nascent feelings for a woman because I can't put myself through the heartache again.
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gu-gohan
04/10/23 9:11:13 AM
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Lvaneede posted...
Im 33 and have never been in a relationship
It's never too late. In the end, the only thing that matters is that you are happy - with or without partner.

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brestugo
04/10/23 10:03:51 AM
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gu-gohan posted...
My girlfriend and me have been together for 7 years, but we don't want to marry. Why? Because in Switzerland, we would end up paying more taxes and getting less pension. Second, we don't want to have children. Last, we are not religious and there is simply no reason to think about getting married (other than for romantic feelings). In case someone of us dies or gets very ill, we made arrangements and testaments.
Similar, but not in CHE.

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Spiderman23J
04/10/23 10:07:41 AM
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im 32 and i'm too broke to afford a relationship

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crayola555
04/10/23 10:08:07 AM
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Pepys_Monster posted...
What in the world did I say that was mean-spirited? I try to build depressed people up, because I know what its like.

Well I'm 35 and not married, and you're building my depression up. So fuck you.

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Pepys_Monster
04/10/23 10:10:31 AM
#52:


crayola555 posted...
Well I'm 35 and not married, and you're building my depression up. So fuck you.
Stop victim blaming

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