Current Events > I dont see how you could want kids if your life is poppin for real

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NoxObscuras posted...

The entire thing is a shit post. Just because we didn't specifically call out that part, doesn't mean we agree with it

all the people calling this a shitpostwould yall say your lives are poppin tho???? maybe yall do need a stable family life to feel it? Im not hating

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would you say your life is poppin

It ain't salt to point out that you have an objectively incorrect and idiotic viewpoint that may influence people's impressions on your other views overall, but if it makes you feel better to say that is then go ahead, sport.

I have a child and I can still do probably 70% of what you consider pros of not having a child. It's all about managing your time properly. Plus conserving your herb is not a bad thing. Break down that tolerance so you only have to smoke every so often. Blowing blunts all day is expensive unless you're the plug. I didn't think I could handle a child but here I am, 5 years later, doing just that.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

im married, work from home and have fun going out to bars yeah id say thats poppin

Your original examples seemed more like a lazy single person

Nasty_Nitro posted...

Pregnant women look gross to me.

I think my lady would look disgusting gaining all of that weight. Thats not sexist thats an opinion.

Third trimester sex is awesome

Anyway, I like my balance now. I have daughters but am divorced now. I have them a third of the time, but otherwise can do whatever I want. And I live with my fiance.

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that would be so rude

"I'm married and work from home" is the ultimate stfu

bsp77 posted...

Your original examples seemed more like a lazy single person

thats the thing I get to do whatever I want. I can smoke all day and then go to a bar. No babysitter needed

Third trimester sex is awesome

yuck its just not for me. I like to do prone position i cannot imagine thats good for the baby.

Also the way my mind works.I dont want to bang her while shes got my child in there.

Anyway, I like my balance now. I have daughters but am divorced now. I have them a third of the time, but otherwise can do whatever I want. And I live with my fiance.

Sorry to hear that. I cant imagine raising a child then the break up happens and then you dont get to see them often.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

Sorry to hear that. I cant imagine raising a child then the break up happens and then you dont get to see them often.

Nah, my divorce was the best thing that could happen. Appreciate it though.

And I am happy with having them a third of the time, especially because of how crazy my social and dating life was after my divorce. More settled now, but I am admittedly not selfless enough to want to care for them everyday. So I do get where you are coming from, but I also love them to death and it is very rewarding. But to me, my ideal life is like 25% kids, 25% fiance, 25% friends and 25% alone. And I am about at that.

These are stupid arguments. Someone without a child is talking about a hypothetical child they dont have literally they dont matter or exist versus when you have a child your entire mentality changes.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

im married, work from home and have fun going out to bars yeah id say thats poppin.

That actually sounds incredibly basic to me.

lolife67 posted...

That actually sounds incredibly basic to me.

City of Atlanta has some pretty awesome bars and clubs. I really like going out now that im married its actually way more fun and social i used to be so focused on attracting a woman now its literally just hang out and vibe. I dont drink anymore so i usually take blunt breaks and hang out with new people. I also dont have to worry about an uber or DUI because I dont drink.

Im also working on my creative pursuit which is a sci fi novel. But also basic is still poppin

Some ppl get so obsessed with being an adult they need to take it all the way

Lairen posted...

These are stupid arguments. Someone without a child is talking about a hypothetical child they dont have literally they dont matter or exist versus when you have a child your entire mentality changes.

yeah but I dont want that mentality.

All the other couples in my friend group are married with kids they look atleast 10 years older and have way more wrinkles. They are also stressed TF out from the finances.

bsp77 posted...

Nah, my divorce was the best thing that could happen. Appreciate it though.

And I am happy with having them a third of the time, especially because of how crazy my social and dating life was after my divorce. More settled now, but I am admittedly not selfless enough to want to care for them everyday. So I do get where you are coming from, but I also love them to death and it is very rewarding. But to me, my ideal life is like 25% kids, 25% fiance, 25% friends and 25% alone. And I am about at that.

see atleast you see what im saying.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

City of Atlanta has some pretty awesome bars and clubs. I really like going out now that im married its actually way more fun and social i used to be so focused on attracting a woman now its literally just hang out and vibe. I dont drink anymore so i usually take blunt breaks and hang out with new people. I also dont have to worry about an uber or DUI because I dont drink.

Im also working on my creative pursuit which is a sci fi novel. But also basic is still poppin

I've been living in Atlanta since '94, so I know. Hell, I used to bartend in Buckhead. What you're talking about is pretty average here.

And "basic" is literally not "poppin" by definition lol

lolife67 posted...

I've been living in Atlanta since '94, so I know. Hell, I used to bartend in Buckhead. What you're talking about is pretty average here.

And "basic" is literally not "poppin" by definition lol

Well its good enough for me maybe im too basic to start a family? I can live with that.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

Well its good enough for me maybe im too basic to start a family? I can live with that.

Oh that's certainly fine. If you don't want kids, cool. But you were trying to make it seem like you had big things going on, so having a kid would infringe on that. I know plenty of people with kids who still do what you do. More, in fact, since they also travel domestically and internationally.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

see atleast you see what im saying.

However, I do think your mindset would change if you had kids and you would find it rewarding and love a lot of it. You will still want your own time though

Have a p decent life right now, but i deffo dont want kids, I really dont want to bring them into this kind of world with a recession, and with the way the USA is heading right now, just seems sorta selfish for me, in my opinion

Drrobotniks posted...

Have a p decent life right now, but i deffo dont want kids, I really dont want to bring them into this kind of world with a recession, and with the way the USA is heading right now, just seems sorta selfish for me, in my opinion

Same here i also would die of shame if my kid got wrapped up in the 4chan incel andrew tate loserverse.

Nasty_Nitro posted...

yeah but I dont want that mentality.

All the other couples in my friend group are married with kids they look atleast 10 years older and have way more wrinkles. They are also stressed TF out from the finances.

It wont make any sense cause you dont have a child. As long as you dont regret it later: dont have children.

Lairen posted...

It wont make any sense cause you dont have a child. As long as you dont regret it later: dont have children.

we recognize that our finances arent right and our mindsets arent either. I cannot imagine my parents smoking pot and listening to the new lil uzi vert (whenever it drops). My parents set the standard for parenting so high IMO. Ive never seen my dad complain or cry or do anything to take the edge off just a hard working man with the strongest christian values. my mother was like a doctor, coach, therapist and a full time job during the day and cooked dinner every night.

my partner and I are not that
I think it would be cruel and disgusting to be anything less. My partner does not even cook lol WE dont cook.

Alright pal, you've had enough posts

bsp77 posted...

However, I do think your mindset would change if you had kids and you would find it rewarding and love a lot of it. You will still want your own time though

Thats part of why I like working with kids. You get a lot of the benefits and then get to give them back at the end of the day.