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Kurumiee
06/09/23 10:29:35 PM
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So I'm this kind of person who seeks new adventures in life, always wanting to try new things. I think of myself as very confident in my own sexuality. However, that didn't make me less curious.

I was trying to fine out the following: "could I find enjoyment out of it, despite experiencing no attraction?"

The answer to that was "..no?" Not a solid no. I did everything that you could imagine during funky time: I gave and received oral, was penetrated, had him finish in my mouth, and my unsuccessful attempt at swallowing it.

It was just kind of "meh?" As I was doing oral, I kept imagining that the person was some hot celebrity that even straight men would acknowledge as hot.

The penetrative stuff wasn't too bad either. However, I just felt a bit bored, and kissing a dude somehow felt like cardboard.

Would I do it again? Well, I need some time to recollect my thoughts. It's not something I'd be jumping to try again. However, seeing others happy makes me happy, so perhaps I might, under the right circumstances, despite getting little enjoyment out of it whatsoever.

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Chicken
06/09/23 10:31:13 PM
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https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM

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Kurumiee
06/09/23 10:34:04 PM
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Chicken posted...
https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM

Maybe, I don't know. However, I didn't quite enjoy it, so it's a bit up for debate.

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AldousIsDead
06/09/23 10:37:02 PM
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It's only gay if you want it to be.

Your sexuality belongs to you and you get to label it how you like.

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Jagr_68
06/09/23 10:38:12 PM
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AldousIsDead posted...
It's only gay if you want it to be.

Your sexuality belongs to you and you get to label it how you like.

but Ice-T said

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emblem-man
06/09/23 10:38:40 PM
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How did the other person feel about this experiment?

Were you sober?

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BewmHedshot
06/09/23 10:39:18 PM
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Sometimes a hole is just a hole
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Solar_Crimson
06/09/23 10:39:47 PM
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AldousIsDead posted...
It's only gay if you want it to be.

Your sexuality belongs to you and you get to label it how you like.


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Kurumiee
06/09/23 10:41:27 PM
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emblem-man posted...
How did the other person feel about this experiment?

Were you sober?

Well he obviously enjoyed it, so he said.

I was pretty sober. Haven't had a single drop of alcohol in me that evening.

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Raikuro
06/09/23 10:44:02 PM
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So the only issue was the guy wasn't hot enough?
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yusiko
06/09/23 10:45:06 PM
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so you experimented in your sexuality and didnt enjoy it
thats fine
thats actually pretty normal and i wish we had less of a stigma of men admitting when they experiment


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Mew
06/09/23 10:46:27 PM
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Chicken posted...
https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM


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Kurumiee
06/09/23 10:46:28 PM
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Raikuro posted...
So the only issue was the guy wasn't hot enough?

Well, that contributed to it.

I also didn't quite like looking at the d, let alone putting it in my mouth. Closing my eyes helped though

And the penetrative stuff was quite uninteresting to me.

Kissing him felt like cardboard. His skin was rough and hairy.

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emblem-man
06/09/23 10:50:42 PM
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Did you prep before hand for the penetrative stuff?

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CSCA33
06/09/23 10:56:06 PM
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About 67% of adults have herpes simplex virus.

Practice safe sex. Get tested if you didnt use protection. And you should always talk about testing with a prospective partner, like when they were last tested, if theyve had any encounters since then, etc.

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R_Jackal
06/09/23 10:58:14 PM
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Never understood the sex without finding someone attractive thing, but that's just a me thing.

Guys catch a lot of shit for doing things like this that they really shouldn't(by that, I mean they shouldn't ridicule people for experimenting), so good on you for looking in to your curiosities and being brave enough to talk about it.
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R1masher
06/09/23 10:59:53 PM
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He went ass to mouth on you?

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loafy013
06/09/23 11:02:05 PM
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yusiko posted...
so you experimented in your sexuality and didnt enjoy it
thats fine
thats actually pretty normal and i wish we had less of a stigma of men admitting when they experiment
Yeah. Nothing wrong with being able to say "I'm not gay. I tried it, and it just didn't do anything for me." Seems like for everything else in the world, we put more faith in the person who says they didn't like something after trying it than the person who flat out refuses to give it a shot.

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Hambo
06/09/23 11:02:57 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but I think you might be straight. I'm sorry. :[

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Humble_Novice
06/09/23 11:03:58 PM
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Kurumiee posted...
Well, that contributed to it.

I also didn't quite like looking at the d, let alone putting it in my mouth. Closing my eyes helped though

And the penetrative stuff was quite uninteresting to me.

Kissing him felt like cardboard. His skin was rough and hairy.
Different strokes for different folks, I assume.

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CSCA33
06/09/23 11:13:02 PM
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loafy013 posted...
Yeah. Nothing wrong with being able to say "I'm not gay. I tried it, and it just didn't do anything for me." Seems like for everything else in the world, we put more faith in the person who says they didn't like something after trying it than the person who flat out refuses to give it a shot.
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Damn_Underscore
06/09/23 11:23:28 PM
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Chicken posted...
https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM

lol this is what I thought of when I read the topic title

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VampireCoyote
06/09/23 11:56:43 PM
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Well at least you tried something new

now you know that cock just isnt for you

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FortuneCookie
06/09/23 11:58:03 PM
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JuanCarlos1
06/10/23 12:03:43 AM
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I believe thats called heteroflexible? Good for you being casual about it. With so many bicurious ppl on dating apps it really makes you wonder whats the real % of "straights" vs "gays". That said I wish we werent so big on labels. Like I wouldn't mind trying sex with a guy. I dont find men attractive or think of pursue a romantic relation, but Im curious as well

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Enclave
06/10/23 12:04:42 AM
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Sexual preference is a spectrum. Sounds like you have some attraction to men but prefer women or perhaps haven't found the sort of man that matches your preference.

Regardless you do you, just make sure to practice safe sex.

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Toonstrack
06/10/23 12:07:51 AM
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Youre.... a bold one tc

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RetsuZaiZen
06/10/23 12:16:51 AM
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VampireCoyote posted...
Well at least you tried something new

now you know that cock just isnt for you

It shouldn't take not being thrilled at having another man's dick busting in your mouth to know that.

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loafy013
06/10/23 12:24:27 AM
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RetsuZaiZen posted...
It shouldn't take not being thrilled at having another man's dick busting in your mouth to know that.
I find those lines to be kind of blurred. If it was attached to a man, I don't think I'd be able to do it. But if somebody who was MtF and hadn't had bottom surgery, but in all other aspects presented female, I'd be tempted.

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Robot2600
06/10/23 11:01:42 AM
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Here we are 34 messages into the topic and "bi" "bisexual" or "pan" has not been mentioned once.

Maybe you're bi, TC. Being bi doesnt mean you share with equal gusto the thoughts of all possible sexual activities.

as a bi person, nothing about your OP sounds that weird to me, yet CE is gonna make you feel like you are king of the gays.

i give u permission to use the bi flag and be bi if you want, but you don't have to.

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NeonTentacles
06/10/23 11:03:23 AM
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Chicken posted...
https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM
I was hoping this was the 2nd post lol

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Enclave
06/10/23 12:49:19 PM
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Robot2600 posted...
Here we are 34 messages into the topic and "bi" "bisexual" or "pan" has not been mentioned once.

Maybe you're bi, TC. Being bi doesnt mean you share with equal gusto the thoughts of all possible sexual activities.

as a bi person, nothing about your OP sounds that weird to me, yet CE is gonna make you feel like you are king of the gays.

i give u permission to use the bi flag and be bi if you want, but you don't have to.

I mean, I basically made this point just without explicitly saying bi.

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bsp77
06/10/23 12:52:26 PM
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loafy013 posted...
I find those lines to be kind of blurred. If it was attached to a man, I don't think I'd be able to do it. But if somebody who was MtF and hadn't had bottom surgery, but in all other aspects presented female, I'd be tempted.
This might be my feelings too

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Sega9599
06/10/23 12:56:27 PM
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AldousIsDead posted...
It's only gay if you want it to be.

Your sexuality belongs to you and you get to label it how you like.

No. If you enjoy having sex with men, and you are sexually attracted to them, then its not healthy to pretend otherwise. That's called being in the closet. How about supporting your fellow man towards the understanding?

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Pikachuchupika
06/10/23 1:01:51 PM
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Gobstoppers12
06/10/23 1:04:14 PM
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Yeahhhhh..........I'm having doubts about that topic title

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Hambo
06/10/23 1:07:50 PM
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What about the OP is giving people the impression that TC is gay or bi? Dude said he wasn't attracted to guys and didn't enjoy it. Or do you all get off on the feeling of kissing cardboard?

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Sega9599
06/10/23 1:12:42 PM
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Hambo posted...
What about the OP is giving people the impression that TC is gay or bi? Dude said he wasn't attracted to guys and didn't enjoy it. Or do you all get off on the feeling of kissing cardboard?

Do you need to have multiple encounters with men, wanting to enjoy it, willing and hoping to enjoy it and always being open to the possibility of it being enjoyable the next time, to find out if you're gay or bi? It sounds like a regular gay man just searching for some decent sex for once.

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Ilishe
06/10/23 1:13:48 PM
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You sound pretty hetero to me and the experiment proves it.

I mean you don't go saying male escorts are gay just because they have sex with men for money, right?

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Nordini
06/10/23 1:14:28 PM
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That's pretty gay, my guy
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asdf8562
06/10/23 1:18:51 PM
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Chicken posted...
https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM
This, or at least bi.

Nonetheless, you're in denial calling yourself straight.
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yusiko
06/10/23 1:19:05 PM
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Hambo posted...
What about the OP is giving people the impression that TC is gay or bi? Dude said he wasn't attracted to guys and didn't enjoy it. Or do you all get off on the feeling of kissing cardboard?


some people are very immature when it comes to sexuality and only see things in black and white
they cant wrap their heads around why someone would experiment and have that reaffirm their heterosexuality

men and women both experiment with their sexuality but when a woman does it they arent accused of being a lesbian in denial. thats the stigma about men experimenting and why most men who do wont admit to doing it

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Hambo
06/10/23 1:22:15 PM
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Sega9599 posted...
Do you need to have multiple encounters with men, wanting to enjoy it, willing and hoping to enjoy it and always being open to the possibility of it being enjoyable the next time, to find out if you're gay or bi? It sounds like a regular gay man just searching for some decent sex for once.
I'm a regular gay man just searching for some decent sex for once. The difference is that I regularly find myself attracted to guys and kissing them is more fun than how I would describe cardboard. This just sounds like an experiment where the result was straight.

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Gobstoppers12
06/10/23 1:25:20 PM
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yusiko posted...
some people are very immature when it comes to sexuality and only see things in black and white

I think the very concept of "trying it out" puts a person on the bisexuality spectrum somewhere. A person who is completely straight wouldn't even have it in their head to 'try out' sex with another man. Personally, I already know I don't want that at all. Never tried it, but even the thought of doing it triggers a very strong and certain rejection in my brain.


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asdf8562
06/10/23 1:27:03 PM
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Hambo posted...
I'm a regular gay man just searching for some decent sex for once. The difference is that I regularly find myself attracted to guys and kissing them is more fun than how I would describe cardboard. This just sounds like an experiment where the result was straight.
Not enjoying the sex you had with someone =/= being open to trying and having sex with a person in the first place.

Being open to try puts you somewhere in the spectrum of bi or gay.

That doesn't mean everyone here is bashing the TC for it. But there's definitely some denial going on.
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